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suicide
okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me.
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I know what you mean that its hurts - there are just theses people everywhere that won't get it though there thick heads. It drives us crazy. You want to excape. It seems that death would be good, but you just don't want to feel the pain. Death, it makes people sad. I didn't total beleive it at first, but when my pet died - i knew it was sick so I sort of felt like just die or something, but afterwards when it did die I felt so sad. Even my grandfather I didn't even know and this other relitive I didn't know died I was sad. Someone will always care - if you're gone. As humans we always share this same bond of love.
Some people just can't get it though there thick skulls and some just want to make themselfs feel better. Don't hate people completly, just make sure you know who's opion to care about and to understand both sides - or make them understand. I know I probably didn't help, but ... >_<
- Gloomy Days
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Oh my gosh..hun all of these people that answered this question do not hate you they CARE about you. You have to get some help from someone because you do not want to kill yourself. God had given you this life for a reason and he doesnt want you to throw it all away. You should talk to pretty much anyone the best people would probaley be a
counslor,physcologisy,physchiatrist,therapist, adult,teachter. And always remember that someone out their has it alot worse then you. Just get some help PLEASE you do not want to do this. You can change your whole life around. I know if you do this their will be people who care. Trust me you do not want to do this!! PLEASE GET HELP<3 I Care about you!
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Listen, I had the same thoughts as you a while back and seriously am still kind of having them. I know what your going through. I thought the same things and whenever my life made a turn for the worse I really considered it. I thought that nobody would miss me and they would'nt notice if I was dead or alive. Well I started to get it together and I realized that killing myself would'nt help anyone. it would only make things worse for my family, friends, and just people that love you the most devestated and it might affect them in a way that they might want to kill themselves too. Then I heard a song that made me look at the good things in life it's called - If your going through HELL, by Rodney Atkins- really the name says it all. This song helped me and probably a lot more people too I hope that you take the time to listen to this song. Please don't kill yourself. Hopefully I helped.
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believe me, do not kill yourself! you don't understand how many people will miss you. you're just having a bad time in life right now. it'll get better, i promise! just try to make friends, or something. be yourself, have fun! you have so much life to live. talk to your parents, counsler. they wont be mad! they'll help. i hope your okay! :)
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Thats stupid, i hate these questions. Stop obbessing over yourself. Your life is not horrible, the only person thats making it horrible, is you. Just don't talk to the people who are mean to you. Make friends with nice people. Theres alot of them, in this world. Talk to your mom or dad about it. They'll help.
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Okay, stop thinking for a moment, calm down, and read exactly what i am about to tell you.
Suicide is not the answer to all of your problems. Now i know it may seem necessary at the moment, and believe me, I know how it feels. But try to do something for yourself, something that makes you happy. If not, (i know this'll sound really religious, but u need it) try praying, it helps. Arre your parents around? Try talking to them about it, you may not think they understand you, but trust me, no love is stonger then the love your parents have for you. Plaese tell me if i hepled at all.
your faithful advianator,
JANE
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Well, I dont know how old u are but it sounds like ur probally around highschool age. Look everyone (whether they admit to it or not) thinks about suicide i mean We tend to think of it as the solution when we run out of solutions, but thats not the case. This may sound Frank, but Kids are As*holes, you shouldn't even think twice about what they think cause I can tell you right now, when they go out into the real world they will crumble. They are too used to people likeing them and have no idea what it's like to be the odd one out. Look at all the self made famous people today, Do you honestly think they were normal in school? No Way! I mean lots of them struggles w/ drugs, bullemia, family abuse..ect. No body's perfect and My personal imperfections just give me more drive. And Highschool is harsh! But if you can survive it while on the rubber end of the plunger, than you can conquer anything! What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger!
Hope I helped Hun!
~*leah
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Go seek professional help or someone you know and soon, please. Don`t think that because you`ll be gone everyone will realize, regret,and feel guiltly about the things they`ve done to you. Because the ones you love will hurt the most. Stay strong;; because once you get through this hard time in your life it will only make you stronger. I hope you get some help. If you need some more help, just leave a message in my inbox ♥
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uhm wow...
you say half of the world hates you, why not the other half? the other half may be the part you're turning away from, like your friends, your family, and people you dont even know. not everyone hates you, we all have our ups and downs, stick it out.
i do suggest you talk to a close friend or family member, or even a pshychiatrist (spelling?) honestly, because it might not be you, it might be some chemical thing in your head. Human nature states for survival, however curiosity so the want to commit suicide is simply curiosity about who will care about me when i die, and who won't. but what matters is...sticking it out, because life sucks, then you die, not by your own hand either.
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I could tell you about how much everyone would be sad about your death or about how your life will get better and all this other shit. And both of those things happen to be true. But before you kill yourself, I must tell you that my New Orleans Saints , fresh off a 3-13 season in which their city was destroyed and the franchise was nearly moved to San Antonio, were given no chance to succeed this year. Everybody thought they'd have no chance, must like you feel like you have no chance now. But hey, they're 9-4 and about to win their division this year. They came out of nowhere and my point is, they stunk. If they can make something of themselves without quitting, you can, too. Killing yourself is cowardly. You don't want to kill yourself, you want your pain to end. It will. I gurantee somebody out there has it worse.
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DO YOU WANT TO GO TO HELL? if you commit suiced you will, i suggest you read the book Tears of a Tiger, a kid killed him self and scared his little brother FOR LIFE his mom is freaking gunna go insane and he is going to hell! you DONT want to be that person. be nice to people and they will be nice back. What ever you do suiced is NOT an option
hope it helped
nathan (dont drink and drive either)
why did the chicken cross the road?
to show the armadilo it could be done.
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If you can't talk to someone about it, can you write to them about it?
When I was having a lot of trouble, before my diagnosis of Recurrent Major Depression, I knew I needed to talk to someone, but I was too scared. Instead, I wrote out what I wanted to say and handed it to my teacher, the one person I really felt like I could trust at that point.
Be forewarned--if you tell a teacher, he or she will be obligated to report it to a counsellor or someone who can help you. I understood this and gave her my blessing in my note because I didn't want her to feel guilty about having to do it.
Killing yourself will not make anyone happy, and I doubt anyone hates you. At worst, they see you as an easy target--that was one factor in my life, as well.
You owe it to yourself and those around you to give them a chance to help you. You're stronger than your emotions. You CAN get help, no matter how terrifying it sounds.
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I think I can help you I really do I no what its like to feel this way and I know what to do about it do me a big favor and please im me if you have aim allinpink101 and if you have myspace trina_rox_alot@yahoo.com and we can talk ok you don’t have to rate me at all but I know what its like when people are just cruel and ignorant to you and I will never acted like that so im me k.
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Okay no matter what you do..dont kill your self i kno sometimes it seems like you dont want to live anymore but no matter what things will always get better..even if they get worse first..if you need someone to talk to i'm here for you...always..you think everyone would be happy if you were dead but there are poeple who would be really crushed..deff. keep me updated..i really hope i helped <3333
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hey my names amanda and i know how you feel but whatever you do, dont kill yourself. well in october me and my 2 yr old brother were taken from my mom bc of her addiction to a pill called oxycotin and im only allowed to have supervised phone calls and visits with her and my dad. my dad always rolls his eyes when i want to call her and stuff and sometimes i just cry and cry and cry and yes i've already written a suicide note. but i thought, wow, id be missing out on sooooo much in life, like having a baby, driving, being in LOVE =p (cause no-one likes me} and yeah it definatley could be really tough. In school im not even popular and ppl talk about me behind my back and its hard.so maybe one of these days if you hear someone talking about you you should just say yah know... dont you have anything better to do with your life other than talk about ppl.. or maybe volunteer in school actvities that can make you popular =p hope this advice helps so if it does, reply please =]
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oke well dont kill your self just do anything to fit in killing your self is the worste and probaly when you are dead then the people that hate you will feel sorry and if they call you names then just say yep i am that and that or then just egnore then and they will stop
hope i helped
felicia
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