Member Since: December 13, 2006 Answers: 3 Last Update: January 10, 2007 Visitors: 603
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i have to very best friends who are also friends. my female friend has a lot of feelings for my guy friend. about a month ago he broke up with a girl who cheated on him a lot and always lied about where she was. the other week they were flurting a lot. now she has a whole lot of feelings for him. and we dont know what his intentions are with her. he stilld flirts a little and she has already told him that she doesnt want someone messing with her emotions and he agreed. but he still flirts with her. what do you think we should do? should she let him know how she feels? or should i do the ditry work and ask him for her how he feels about her? we just dont know what to do. she is afraid if she asks and he saids he doesnt see he that way that they wouldnt be able to stay friends cuz then it would be weird between them. she is also afraid not to say anything becuase what if he does have feelings for her but doesnt want her to feel like a rebound? and i feel like im stuck in the middle becuase i dont know what to tell her anymore. please some advice anyone. (link)
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Okay,
This is how we do things like that in my school.
play a little game of "This or That" which is where u ask your player one question compared to the other.
For example:
Would you rather be with Ray, or be with Charles?
Throw in a few about you other best freind.
If he picks her in all of them, tell your freind to take the chance and tell him.
OR
YOU tell you guy best friend about your other best freinds liking him, CLEAR IT WITH HER FIRST.
But pretend that she doesnt know u told him.
Ask him if he would date her.
trust m, it works
-HALIE
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I like him.
He's got a girlfriend
Their relationship is fading and i dont think he likes her anymore .. whenever he talks to any girl or is with any girl i get jealous, even if its not his girlfriend.If i see him even looking at another girl , i get mad and jealous.
Yes, he knows who i am and we used to be like friends with benefits..
how can I overcome my jealousy?
and please dont say TALK TO HIM, i cant really talk to him anymore
And I've tried moving on, and i cant.
so please help! (link)
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Come right out and say it "I LOVE YOU______"
I knnow right now your like "wut the hell?" but trust me, guys like it when u tell them u like them. He'll feel flattered. And if hes a freind just say "Do you REALLY like you girlfriend
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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me. (link)
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Okay, stop thinking for a moment, calm down, and read exactly what i am about to tell you.
Suicide is not the answer to all of your problems. Now i know it may seem necessary at the moment, and believe me, I know how it feels. But try to do something for yourself, something that makes you happy. If not, (i know this'll sound really religious, but u need it) try praying, it helps. Arre your parents around? Try talking to them about it, you may not think they understand you, but trust me, no love is stonger then the love your parents have for you. Plaese tell me if i hepled at all.
your faithful advianator,
JANE
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