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i have to very best friends who are also friends. my female friend has a lot of feelings for my guy friend. about a month ago he broke up with a girl who cheated on him a lot and always lied about where she was. the other week they were flurting a lot. now she has a whole lot of feelings for him. and we dont know what his intentions are with her. he stilld flirts a little and she has already told him that she doesnt want someone messing with her emotions and he agreed. but he still flirts with her. what do you think we should do? should she let him know how she feels? or should i do the ditry work and ask him for her how he feels about her? we just dont know what to do. she is afraid if she asks and he saids he doesnt see he that way that they wouldnt be able to stay friends cuz then it would be weird between them. she is also afraid not to say anything becuase what if he does have feelings for her but doesnt want her to feel like a rebound? and i feel like im stuck in the middle becuase i dont know what to tell her anymore. please some advice anyone.
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exactly what the person under me said: play a game with him. start naming off random people and then put your friends name in there and see if he likes her and then tell her to take a chance and tell him. I know that i am pretty much repeating what the person below me said but it was really good advice.i hope that i helped.=)
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Okay,
This is how we do things like that in my school.
play a little game of "This or That" which is where u ask your player one question compared to the other.
For example:
Would you rather be with Ray, or be with Charles?
Throw in a few about you other best freind.
If he picks her in all of them, tell your freind to take the chance and tell him.
OR
YOU tell you guy best friend about your other best freinds liking him, CLEAR IT WITH HER FIRST.
But pretend that she doesnt know u told him.
Ask him if he would date her.
trust m, it works
-HALIE
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The best thing to do is for you to ask him privately, and tell him that it is just between you and him. When he gives you his answer tell him that you were just curious, and you wont say nothing to your friend unless he wantsyou to.
AND second, Please, PLEASE, work on your grammer, and the way you write because your story ran together and it didnt really make since, sorry.
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