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hey guys
I am amanda
if u need advice you could ask me a question or you could send me an email. I am up to any questions.

Love ya.
Amanda
E-mail: a_cherrymann@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: January 9, 2007
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im 15/f and i dno how to make eyecontact with a guy since i dont have too much experiences actually :/
so there's this guy who seems to like me and i like him back but i dont wanna talk to him yet. i just wanna make eyecontact. but how do i do that without seeming desperate or weird or stupid? :P
lol cos i'm also not exactly sure if he likes me back. help please [: (link)
a lot of girls actually have this problem at first. All you have to do is make eye contact and maybe wave....not that big of a deal.


is 7th or 8th grade too young to have sex?
also, is it possible to have like dry sex with your clothes on? (link)
I think that if you need to ask if this age is too young then you arent ready. It is a really big event in your life and you dont want to have regrets...i personally think that it is too young but the only way to really tell is if you are mentally ready...if you need to ask people on a website...my guess is that you arent... Dry humping is pretty much what you can do. Hope that i helped. Im not trying to be a bitch but i think that you are too young and not ready.

Lots of Love
Amanda


so i want to spice up things between my boyfriend and i
are there any positions to make out
or things to do to him to make him enjoy it more
i have given a bj so not involving that
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i dont really get the positions to make out thing but if i think i know what you are talking about i will answer. A way to do it is lay down on the bed or the floor with either you or him on top. positions? i got nothing i hope i helped im pretty sure i didnt tho. sorry

lots of love
Amanda


I am from Pakistan

Dear Sir,

First I Masturbate quite often, but when I had a UTI (unknown reason, don’t have sexual reason), I left it. I took antibiotics which doctor suggested me. Now I don’t have infection but whenever I got erection or masturbate I feel burning in my penis. If I left masturbation and try to avoid erection then I feel quite comfortable for a long unless I got again an erection. I don’t know why I feel burning in my penis.

How I can solve this problem permanently and have proper erection without any burning later or at the time of erection.

Please help me out.

Thanks

Regards

Faisal Altaf
I am from Pakistan (link)
umm i really dont know i am sorry...the only thing i can think of is to consult your doctor. sorry i cant be much help.

lots of love
Amanda


I dont know why...but im always "excited" i guess you could call it. No matter where or what im doing, i get random erections and its driving me nuts...anything i can do to stop these embarassing "Attacks" (link)
honestly idk the answer but my boyfriend just said that you should go to the nearest bathroom and masturbate lol i dont know if that is really what you should do or not...
sorry i cant be that much help..

lots of love amanda


When girls give BJ, I heard they swallowed the cum. is it true? (link)
heck yes it is true girlie...

most guys like it the best and they say it is sexy but if you arent comfortable with it just spit....its all good the same way you know.

hope i helped.
Amanda


ok sooo my bf and i were talking and i told him that i like to sleep in his sweatshirt instead of pajamas. and he knows i dont wear a bra when i sleep (too uncomfortable!!) so he was like without a bra and i was like yaa and he said thats cute and hot. soo i was wondering how sexy/hot do guys think it is if their girlfriend wears their hoodie without other clothes besides panties when they sleep? thanx :] (link)
alright girl...heres my answer... sorry ahead of time of some of the language...but i just asked my bf and his exact words were:

very sexy its likes wen ever we wear that hoodie again is damn muh gf was naked in this shit

lol hope i helped a little

lots of love amanda


mostly do girl go on top or bottom?
wat do guys like best? (link)
it really depends on the guy.... some like to be in control and others like it when you move on top of them.hope i helped.
los of love amanda


hi
so i shaved down there, all of it
is it supposed to grow back in like 2 days?
and i have all these bumps that look like pimples or something from shaving, is that normal? how do i not get them? (link)
hey hun...
yes it is normal for the bumps... have you had razor burn on your legs? if not that is what it is... use products like nair to get all the hair off while not geting bumps

hope i helped!

lots of love
Amanda


what can i do to get a whiter skin.. im gettin dark (link)
ummm...... stay inside.=)


i want a cell for my birthday. what are some cheap but cool phones for cingular or now they changed it to at&t??

thanx. :] (link)
hey i totally just got the samsung slider and it is amazing. its cute too. that would be a definite choice i think


I asked the question aboout getting a life.It is what I really want and has nothiung to do with what any one else wants.The people who tell me to get a life are advice givers on this site.
Thanks a lot.Please tell me how to make friends. (link)
ummm.. one way to make friends is to get a myspace. everybody has a myspace. um... another way to make friends is to join clubs at school. that is a good way to make new friends. go to school activities and join sports. go to the dances and dance with people you dont know but do it to where you dont look slutty. just try and make new friends dont just expect them to happen. i think that you should do things that intrest you and see if there is anybody that have the same intrests as you. or find some one that is totally oppostie of you and that person will kind of complete you. i hope my advice helped.


I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated
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hey just dont listen to them. do what you want. if this is what you really want i will tell you how to make friends but you have to let me know if this is what you want or if it is what you want others to think about you.


heyy umm i have just picked a new hairstyle and the picture shows dark brown under the blonde and im a natural blonde with straight hair and i wsa wondering what you guys think i should get the regualar blonde or the brown under the blonde well here is the hair style:
http://www.bestseatsusa.com/images/carrie2.jpg
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umm yeah i think that that would look good. i am a big fan of carrie underwood and i think that anyone can have her hair. she is beautiful and i think that it would look great on you


I was looking at display pictures and I came across one that said

When You Love Someone You Can Tell
But When Your IN Love Everyone Else Can Tell

I was just wondering whats the difference? Like can anyone explain this to me? (link)
it is saying that when you love someone you know in your heart that you love them but nobody else can tell. it is kind like a secret love i guess. but when you are in love with someone and you smile when you are with them all the time and you flirt alot then everyone else can tel that you are in love.


Hi Amanda im a 14/f and i am new at this thingy of urs but id like to ask you a question. okay how bad does it hurt when you loose your virginity? im ready and everything but the pain aprt is holding me back. and im really in love with this guy and hes promised he take it slow and if i wanted him tostop then he would but i mean ive been fingerf lots of times by him. mostly one or two fingers. and one more question do u think it would also helped if he fingerd me before the intercourse? i know were doing it in water would that help to? (link)
hey
i was just like that when i first started. Yes it does hurt but it will stop once you do it more and more. Um.. i dont know about the fingering thing but it might help. yes it does help if you are in water. It is a good thing that your boyfriend will take it slow which means that he is willing to take it slow and wait for you to be ready. I hope that it will help.


Very briefly.
I know this sounds weird...but
I am so paranoid that I cant sleep.
I believe that there is some paranormal
or supernatural spirit in my home that
will hurt me. I have taken over and
perscript. drugs for this but nothing
has helped. I am afraid to sleep!! This
is affecting my daily life. I plan on
going to see a psychiatrist soon but
making the appt. and all takes a while.
So until then what can I do? I have already looked at many sites and found nothing helful enough.
-Keosha(columnist) (link)
well what you could do and i dont know if you have tried this or not but try ambien. that is what my dad did when he couldnt sleep. and i know that this sounds wierd but if you think that there are spirits in your house then you should try and see what is wrong with them. i have heard that there are only spirits left on earth because they need to finish something or get something thru to somebody in the world. and that way when they get that accomplished then they can pass on. i dont know if it will work or not but it is worth a try.


My boyfriend and I broke up after
he told me he liked another girl and
they had been flirting and stuff.
Well, I had to end it with him because
I did not want to go on with him if he
liked someone else.

How do I let go?
When I see him I want to melt into his
arms again, but I know I shouldnt.
And now, when I see a guy, it takes everything
I have not to just grab him and try to
hold on forever.

.. please help.
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come on hun. this is totally normal. you loved the guy. he broke your heart by saying that he loved another girl. that would crush anybody. And now you are just doing what any normal human being would do. they would want to find some way to get back with that person. they want to know what it feels like one more time. it is completely normal. a way to get away from it is to go the opposite direction whenver you see him. dont go that direction and make yourself more likely to think about it. try and put your mind on a different guy.that way you will stop thinking about him. that should help. i hope that some of my advice was ok. good luck.

=)Amanda


I been going out with this girl for a month now and one of my best friends told me that in his 6th pd class some people said that who would go out with me and then my other best friend said that my girlfriend said that people are telling her to break up with me but she isnt HELP ME!!!!!!!!! (link)
if people are telling her to break up with you then she prolly wont. she prolly loves you to death. so dont get too worried about it ok hun. i hope that i helped.

=)Amanda


when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like. (link)
actually. guys are always playing this game. sometimes it does mean that the guy likes you but other times it means that he just wants to see who you like. And if you really like the guy and he knows it then he is prolly just trying to get your hopes up. I hope that i answered your question.

=)Amanda




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