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Letting go
My boyfriend and I broke up after
he told me he liked another girl and
they had been flirting and stuff.
Well, I had to end it with him because
I did not want to go on with him if he
liked someone else.
How do I let go?
When I see him I want to melt into his
arms again, but I know I shouldnt.
And now, when I see a guy, it takes everything
I have not to just grab him and try to
hold on forever.
.. please help.
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That happened to me too. It sucked, for like the first week. Then, I was over it & moved on. Find someone else to like, just to get your mind off him. It helps. Then, before you know you forget all about old whatshisface. (: So, don't worry about it. It seriously does get alottt better. If you ever had an old boyfriend, your over them now too, yano. So, yeah. Take a bath or something to relax you. & you'll feel better.
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i know it is the hardest thing to see the person you want to be with very badly having feelings for someone else. the best way to get over this is to spend more time with your friends, maybe take up a new sport like kickboxing, karate, ice skating, snowboarding, or anything, join some after school activities, or just involve yourself in hobbies/activities to keep your mind off him. everything seems to go by easily when you're enjoying it. ask your friends if they know anyone you can meet (a guy) like some cousins they might have. in the end, think about it--if he didn't think about how you would feel and just went with what he wanted, this boy doesn't deserve to be taking up all your time.
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Hey,
I'm sorry to hear that! :(
A lot of teenage girls are going through the same problem. Heartbreaks are hard. Try occupying your mind with something else.
Just think of it this way, NOTHING lasts forever. I know you loved him, - but his heart was somewhere else. He obviously doesn't deserve you.
At least he didn't cheat behind your back & he was honest about the whole thing!
THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA HUN!
Cheer up!
Treat yourself to your favorite foods. Or some shopping, every girl loves shopping :)
Hope I helped, cheer up! Hope everything goes well.
-Jam
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i know what youre feeling. What you gotta do is try to forget about him. you wont be able to right away but you gotta try. think of it this way, youre better off alone than with someone who has feelings for someone else. you will find someone eventually, someone way better than your ex. and i mean it when i say that!
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come on hun. this is totally normal. you loved the guy. he broke your heart by saying that he loved another girl. that would crush anybody. And now you are just doing what any normal human being would do. they would want to find some way to get back with that person. they want to know what it feels like one more time. it is completely normal. a way to get away from it is to go the opposite direction whenver you see him. dont go that direction and make yourself more likely to think about it. try and put your mind on a different guy.that way you will stop thinking about him. that should help. i hope that some of my advice was ok. good luck.
=)Amanda
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It is almost impossilbe to do it, if not impossiblbe.. its one of the hardest things you have to do. You just need to try cuting him out of your life. Being "just friends" is super painful.. cause friends talk about problems and relationships and if your friends you'll have to put up with the fact that that is all you might be again. Try to forget him as much as possible. Block him from aim if seeing his screen name is too painful. Theres no easy way to do this at all. Meet new guys and try and fall for new people and forget him. I understand that whenever someone says "get over him" or "forget him" it hurts just thinking that its over. Just do your best and think about all the good things in life besides him. I hope you can do this and i hope this helped
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