I am 16 years old. I am currently studying to take my A+ certification in Computer Maintenance Technology.
I have been through so many different things in my life, some more so easier to deal with than others. I got through it all, and I'm here to give you helpful, safe advice to help you get through them also.
I'm very open to any type of questions, I will help as much as I can. I'm also very easy to talk to, understanding, and non-judgmental. So don't be afraid to ask anything.
Gender: Female
Location: Waynesboro, VA
Age: 16
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What does it mean when a guy asks you " What are you up to tonight"? OR " What are you doing tonight"? When he has seen you with friends and then he replies back saying " oh okay cool". End of conversation. This can not be a conversation starter because it ended it... :0 I mean why can't they just ask you to do something if they really want. What is up with this?
I mean why do guys ask this question and It can not be a conversation starter because this ended the conversation overall :0
And he is 24 and I am 24 years old as well....so we are not like in our early teens or kids.
He asked me this while he was working after we had talked a bit. (link)
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He might be like most guys that age and just want sex. Maybe asking what you're doing, and when he sees you're busy he won't reply. Just an idea.
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I was having a really hard time two months ago and my mom took me to see a psychiatrist. He diagnosed me with a mood disorder NOS (not otherwise specified). My mom took me to have some blood drawn to check if maybe the way I was feeling was because my hormones were out of balance. We got the results back and the doctor said it was all entirely hormonal (mainly thyroid). So I really don't want what the psychiatrist wrote down on my report or record or whatever it's called to stay there for the rest of my life. Should I call him and tell him what was really wrong so I can get that off my record or will it just go away if I stop seeing him? Will anyone else ever be able to see what he wrote down(like whenever I go to apply for a job or something)? (link)
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Everything you say to your psychiatrist is 100% confidential unless it is harmful to yourself or others. Also, jobs can not look into your mental history, because that is discrimination. Whatever they diagnose you with, no one else will be able to see, unless you tell someone.
I advise you to keep seeing your psychiatrist as long as you're comfortable talking to them. They can be a lot of help too. Medications may possibly be given to balance the chemicals in your brain. =]
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How do I clear cookies from my computer so it will start up faster. Not from my internet...just from the computer. If it's the same thing let me know. Thanks (link)
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Well, if you want your computer to start up faster it wouldn't necessarily be the cookies. Here is a list of things needed to keep your computer running well and safe.
(All programs can be downloaded for free at www.download.com )
-Download CCleaner and Run this program
(cleans the registry and temporary internet files from your system.)
-Download Malwarebytes
(scans and fixes your system for malicious files)
-Run Disk Cleanup
(-START -ALL PROGRAMS -ACCESSORIES -SYSTEM TOOLS)
-Run Disk Defragmenter
(-START -ALL PROGRAMS -ACCESSORIES -SYSTEM TOOLS)
If you need any more help, feel free to ask.
I am currently studying for my A+ certification so I can professionally fix computers =]
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okay so i just got the new internet explorer 8. and im trying to install the newest java script thing so i can watch youtube vidoes again. but it says that i need to click on the yellow bar on the top and hit install. only with this new internet explorer, it doesnt say "install" when you click on the yellow bar. it says "manage add-ons" whatever they are. how do i install the newest jave scrpit? helppppp. (link)
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You need to install Flash player to view youtube videos =]
http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/
Also, Here is the link to other IE8 add-ons
http://www.ieaddons.com/en/
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I was just wondering does imovie09 has the slow/fast motion feature? (link)
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Yes they do =]
here are the features on this site:
http://www.apple.com/ilife/imovie/new-features.html
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I am trying to create an index php file but honestly I'm just technologically retarded. help!! (link)
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I'm pretty sure all you have to do is save it as a .php file like this.
Save as.
(File Name)*.php
where you name it when u save it.
=] i hope that helped.
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whats it like when you get tested for STD's? do they draw blood? Will my parents be notified? (link)
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well is this a boy or a girl?
girls they put in object into the vagina and open it so they can see the cervix then they take a swab sample and look under a microscope.
boys im not so sure about.
and no your parents will not be notified
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ok i just started using tampons today. and its amazing because i decided i wanted to after my pad leaked all over the back of my pants and i was totally embarrassed. but its amazing! i cant even feel it! but my question is - what happends when you sneeze? will it "dislodge?" or will it hurt or something? (link)
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nope it wont "dislodge" =] and its okay to leave it in longer, but u should bring an extra to school with you if they dont have a dispenser just incase
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within the past few weeks
me and this guy have done basically everything but sex.
i love him, i really do
i've loved him since i was 12.
he loves me back.
is this still going way to fast? (link)
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no, as long as your comfortable and you have strong feelings.
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my breasts have gotten a large amount of like
stretch marks on them
and i haven't even gained weight or anything
and i've been growing pretty steadily
why do i have this?
i hate it so muchhh! (link)
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dont worry about it so much. i have the same thing. cocoa butter doesnt work =] its just from them growing.
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this question is probably very common
but for the last 2 1/2 years ,ive liked this boy.
He liked me on and off,but we never went out.
I've had sex with him but he claims he wasnt using me.
No matter how badly he treats me,i let him do it just because im scared to not talk to him anymore because i like him so much.
He used to treat me nice and all that but now its different ,it seems like hes only nice to me when he wants to have sex and i fall for it everytime.
Basically im gonna confront him and stop having sex with him ,but what else should i do to either not like him and forget him ..or for him to just respect me? (link)
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Im going through the same thing right now. If hes not treating you good but only when he wants to have sex hes using you. i know you want to leave it alone because u still like him, but its not worth getting hurt. id stop having sex with him and if he doesnt respect you for that then hes not worth it. to forget him do something to occupy yourself. do something you like to do.
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umm well..my boyfriend ate me out..sorry this is kind of a weird ? but like is this weird cuz im only 14(female) and he fingered me like 2 weeks ago and a week after he did that i got my period and now this happened..i feel like something could be wrong with my vagina..any advice??
sorry kind of a stupid question haha.
thanks! (link)
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nope theres nothing weird its completely normal.
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i was reading the answers to this one question. and did you really lose your virginity at 13? do you think thats normal, because my friend did that a couple years back and we thought she was nothing but trouble, so we stayed away from her. do you think i made the right choice? (link)
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yeah i did. but It depends. If she was a whore and a bad influence you did the right choice. but some people arnt always like that.
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how can i make my boobs bigger?
is it passable.? some one said rubbing them works but i dont know.
im talking about actually making them bigger verse making them look bigger.
and theres no way i would take pills/surgery.
thanks! (link)
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Nothing will make them bigger, but if you wear padded bras it will help, but id just wait for them to grow dont be impatient
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im pretty sure my hymen is broken or stretched from masterbating. Anyway im a virgin and i was wondering when i'll have sex will it hurt still even thought my hymen is broken/stretched?
thanks!
xo (link)
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That happend to me but it didnt really hurt that much. i had small cramps afterwards.
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This is for any cutters out there.
Im an ex-cutter who is still stuggling.
It would be greatly appreciated if anyone could tell thier cutting stories.
Also mention the country you live in-this is out of curiosity as im an aussie and would like to know how much this happens in australia and other countries. (link)
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Im from pennsylvania, I am also an ex-cutter who still struggles at times. the first time my mom found out I was put in a hospital called kidspeace where i stayed for a week. after i went to an outpatient program. the second time i went to the outpatient program again. But the worst time was when me and my ex boyfriend and i were arguing they were the deepest so deep i couldnt even feel anything. honestly i think its really stupid but it just helps. i try to avoid it. im better than i used to be.
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how old do you people think is an ok age to lose yor virginity? (link)
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Honestly I dont believe there is any "ok" age to lose your virginity. I feel if you are ready and think you can handle it go for it. I was 12 turning 13 when i lost mine. I sort of got adicted to it though so i dont know if its because i started young or its just my problems.
any other questions feel free to ask =]
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hey let say my name is purple, im a virgen and well i really be with this guy i love so much and well i want to have sex with him and idk how to tell him that i want to do it with my clothes on to make me feel better but like only by bottoms come off do you have any advice? (link)
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I sure do, i had the exact same feelings as you do. Im sure he wouldnt mind if you kept your clothes on, im sure when u feel more comfortable with the person and yourself you wont mind. but until then there is nothing wrong and he should have no problems with that.
any other questions feel free to ask =]
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i've only had sex 3 times. and everytime, it hurts. like i mean it feels good.. but it hurts... and i dont know like if it's just me or if theres something wrong.. but it doesnt feel good.. like doing other stuff feels great.. but sex never seems to feel right... uhmm help? (link)
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what kind of hurting is it? (burning, cramping ..)
burning means you could have a bacterial infection
cramping is probably because of it being new to your body.
any other questions feel free to ask =]
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13/f he's 16/m
MMkay , wellme and my new boyfriend have been dating for 4 days and yesterday he wanted a handjob...I've done it before and all but I told him no , he had to wait because I have my own morals and I'm not a slut...I know it was a good choice to wait.
Also , he's 16 and expelled from school , so he doesn't go to school and has no plans on going...meaning he basicly has no future.This upsets me...
Another thing is that yesterday we were talking and he asked me what are my limit's ? And I said nothing below the belt.And then we were talking about how many previous sexual partners we've had and I told him I'm kinda a virgin [ well techniclly not because penis in vagina = non-virgin ] and he said he'd had about 35 girls who he's had sex with and 15 who have given him blowjobs.I was like :O man whore.He said if he tried he wouldn't beable to rememeber all their names and he didn;t know all their names in the first place.This also upsets me.
So , I'm thinking about asking him to get tested for STD's , STI's and AID's and all that before we do anything.
Answers ? Opinion's ? ANYTHING would help me...I can't get this out of my head !! (link)
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Dont bother please. you will only be left feeling used and hurt. If he asked for a handjob only on the 4th day he only wants you for one thing. I would break up with him asap because he seems like a complete asshole.
any other questions about my experiences feel free to ask =]
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