this question is probably very common
but for the last 2 1/2 years ,ive liked this boy.
He liked me on and off,but we never went out.
I've had sex with him but he claims he wasnt using me.
No matter how badly he treats me,i let him do it just because im scared to not talk to him anymore because i like him so much.
He used to treat me nice and all that but now its different ,it seems like hes only nice to me when he wants to have sex and i fall for it everytime.
Basically im gonna confront him and stop having sex with him ,but what else should i do to either not like him and forget him ..or for him to just respect me?
1love1life answered Monday February 11 2008, 9:33 pm: Girls like you make me so mad. You let guys use you and you know they are and when they are all nice to you and shit then you think they are going to stop and its like so stupid when you let a guy use you like that. And im not speaking out of term either because i let a guy use me once and i vowed never to let that happen again and you should to. dont let him use you like that. Its fucked up. [ 1love1life's advice column | Ask 1love1life A Question ]
sognarxo answered Monday February 11 2008, 9:12 pm: Im going through the same thing right now. If hes not treating you good but only when he wants to have sex hes using you. i know you want to leave it alone because u still like him, but its not worth getting hurt. id stop having sex with him and if he doesnt respect you for that then hes not worth it. to forget him do something to occupy yourself. do something you like to do. [ sognarxo's advice column | Ask sognarxo A Question ]
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