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Hi my name is nicole 13/f,to my friends I'm known as the one they always come running to when they need advice. Whatever question you may have I will answer it whether it be friends, boyfriends, or just school. I always have anwers to every question you ask. If you have personal questions you want to ask me than just e-mail. I'm always open to a conversation so just ask me anything i'm an open book!!!
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SGIRL13
E-mail: nicolebroadnax@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: anaheim ca
Occupation: Babysitter
Age: 13
Yahoo: nicole broadnax
Member Since: February 12, 2008
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what do u think about when a girl cheats? (link)
i think when a girl cheats it is time for them to realize their mistake and figure out if they really want to be with that person, if you figure out that you dont want to be with that person then it is time for your relationship to end, but if you figure out that you do want to be with that person then you should tell them what you did and give an explanation and dont forget to say your sorry. hope i helped.


13/F


me and my friend are both head over heels for this guy
and he broke up with her for me. we both feel terrible i really like him
so today he asked me to be his valentine

ladies... if you know what i mean ( whenever you talk to someone you fall in love with them)

so she thinks she is being really selfish because she cant get over him and she doesn't want me to get mad at her
i understand how she would feel horrible. but i also think that she needs to move on

i really like this kid and she loves him.
what should we do???
he is in love with me... but she cant move on

from,
tornintopieces
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In this situation there are 2 things you can do:
A:you can tell him that you like him to and that you would love to be his valentine, and hope that your friend will get over him and move on.

B:you can tell him that you don't want to go out with him because your friend is still in love with him and you don't want to make her feel bad and that what he did was wrong.

Well whatever one you choose I hope you made the right choice.
Hope I helped!
SGIRL13


there's this guy who asked me out today after school. he's okay but i don't want to get into a relationship right now. i don't know if this is the guy i've been waiting for. how will i know what to say... Valentine's day is coming up and i don't want him to be heartbroken. what should i do???
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If you don't know him well and you don't want to be in a relationship right now then just tell him that you don't want a boyfriend right now but you would love to get to know him better and maybe later on when your ready you could go out with him. Maybe you can ask him out for valentine's day to get to know him better and find out what kind of person he is.
Hope I helped.
SGIRL13


this isn't textbook abuse but, my guy friend always has to make it known
that i am stupid, ugly or w/e. he makes it his priority to smack me in the
head you know that "V-8" thing in front of ppl. like he's trying to break
me. I know this isn't that "oooo he likes you" cause he does it to every
girl that he's friends with, except one. sometimes all i wanna do is cry
becuase some of his comments are so rude and mean. i am so sick of it. i
wanna leave and not be friends with him but my bff girl is like "your just
being stupid he isn't that bad" ofcourse shes the one that isn't verbally
abused. what do i do???/ help me. (link)
I think that if he is going to say mean and cruel things and verbally abuse you then he is not a real friend. One thing you can do is talk to him about it and tell him how bad it hurts you and hope that he treats you better! Another thing that you could do is just tell him that you don't want to be his friend anymore because of all the verbal abuse.
Hope I helped!
SGIRL13


if a guy tells you to lie to your parents (which you know you won't do) But is really sweet, do you sill go out with him? (link)
If you love him a lot then you can just look over it. But he should also not be telling you to lie to your parents. If he is so sweet why would he want you to lie. If he is going to tell you to lie he might also be open to lie to you.


14/f

so me and this guy, we have no interest in a relationship
we've liked each other on and off for 3 years
i really love him
he loves me

i've given him a blow job
hes eaten me out
fingered
handjob
we've made out with just bottoms on

we've talked about sex
i love the feeling of being fingered while we're topless
am i ready for sex? (link)
As you probly already know you are way too young to even be thinking about that kind of stuff. Some people might say if you think your ready just go ahead. It doesn't matter what kind of protection you use you still have a 50% chance of getting pregnant. If your ready to be a mother than go right ahead!
Hope I helped!
sgirl13


this question is probably very common
but for the last 2 1/2 years ,ive liked this boy.
He liked me on and off,but we never went out.
I've had sex with him but he claims he wasnt using me.
No matter how badly he treats me,i let him do it just because im scared to not talk to him anymore because i like him so much.
He used to treat me nice and all that but now its different ,it seems like hes only nice to me when he wants to have sex and i fall for it everytime.
Basically im gonna confront him and stop having sex with him ,but what else should i do to either not like him and forget him ..or for him to just respect me? (link)
You should never let a guy treat you bad!!! First of all if you really like him tell him if he better start treating you better not only when he wants to have sex with you! He should always respect you!!
Hope I helped!
sgirl13


My b.f and I have been dating for 10 months and we are really in to each other. Have even made plans for our future. The thing is that hes so ambitious! Were both in our second year of univ. so we both work pretty hard. Thing is that he also has a new part time job thats making him work late hours. I am afraid im not going to see him as much and that our relationship could suffer. Am i being selfish and what should i do? Oh and hes missing out on valentines day this Thursday cause he works. Our first valentines together as well. Im a little down about it. (link)
I think you are being selfish and concerned, if you really don't like his hours talk to him about he will probly understand. You shouldn't feel bad about not having your boyfriend with you on valentines I have a boyfriend that lives in vegas and his grandma and my dad don't get along so all I can do is talk to him on the phone or write to him it's already been two months scince I seen him.
Hope I helped!
sgirl13




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