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I'm an aspiring Therapist, a life calling if you will. With a level head and been through it all life, I think I can give pretty good answers. I've been doing it for years with my friends and even random strangers. If you need advice, hopefully I'm the guy.
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E-mail: naruto_masamune@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Tennessee
Age: 19
Member Since: January 7, 2007
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Last Update: January 12, 2007
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hi salem how are u? thank you for ansering my question on me writing that comment to my friends boyfriend but i need more advice about it....
well yesterday i went to the mall with my best friend. and we saw bellas boyfriend alex(the guy i wrote the comment about on myspace)and his sister...so i talked with them for about 5 minutes then we went on our way. then all of a sudden i see bella(my friend that is going out with alex) and she was there holding on to him for dear life and making out with him...when she saw me she just looked at me then looked away. i could already feel the chillyness from her hard look so i just kept walking. shes not usually like that. she would always pass by me n talk to me for a few and be nice to me too...my friends tell me not to trip about it but i dont know what to do.
then today i went to school and she didnt say hi to me once...and she always does. she kept on passing by me to get my attention or something.but i would catch her in the moment looking at me to see if i was looking at her. i think she just wants me too be a suck up and say im sorry and just follow her everywhere trying to get her forgiveness...but im not that kind of person if she wants to be friends again thats fine and if she doesnt thats fine too ill just ignore her all the time too like shes not there. im not the one mad at her shes them one mad at me. so im not gonna stress out and begg on my knees to be her friend again...because shes is making me feel like the bad person here but im not...i already told her im sorry. shes real snotty and she is like the biggest whore at the school and she thinks shes all that(shes concited)!!!! i dont know whether to be her homie again or to just let her go
well my point is IS THAT THE RIGHT THING THAT I AM DOING?
sorry its sooooo long lol please write back it would mean the world to me
Ever hear the term: "friends to the end"? Well, I don't think the end has come yet, so I'll do what I can to get you and her friends again.
Well, My first thought is she's overly protective, afraid to lose the new guy she now clings to, which can be unhealthy especially since it's not always meant to be.
I won't tell you to leave her as a friend, because eventually she will realize she's made a foolish mistake in pushing you away for a comment you made before they started dating.
So here's what you do: keep on what you're doing.
If you really like her friendship, then just wait it out (which sounds really hard, and it is) but if you look upon all the times you spent together and realize she wasn't that great...leave.
Chances are one of two things will happen whichever choice you make:
1) She'll leave you.
2) She'll realize she was an idiot and come back.
Advice can only do so much since no one can control other people's actions. But short and sweet (and my apologizes for a long reply): Leave her be and take no action.
I really hope this gets solved, but if you aren't the puppy dog, "I'm-sorry-take-me-back" kind of person, then don't change your ways for her because in fact, you've done nothing wrong.
Anyway, sorry I can't be a bigger help OR just snap my fingers and make it better, but no doubt it'll work out. Good luck. :)
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Is there any drawing sites about bodies/figures/poses/proportions?
I'm having trouble finding sites. I used to have a list but most of the links are "broken"
Is there any new /working sites?
Unfortunately the only site I know of right now is: http://www.deviantart.com
Unless you've already gotten that site then there's no others I know of.
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okay so i have this friend...well i think shes still my friend but anyways,she has a boyfriend and i had put a comment about him on his myspace pic saying "damn you look good, i would hit that anyday" before they were going out and i was just playing around. and now they are going out and my friend saw it and she was really mad at me because she gets jelouse real easy. she asked me if i liked him and i told her "ya hes cute but im not in love with him or anything"...and she just blew it off then she started acting wierd like started staring at me real hard and just madd dogging me at times. when i ask her "are you mad at me" she says no but im just not sure anymore, we dont talk like we used to anymore and she probly thinks im trying to steal her man...but im not i swear!!!
ughhhhhh...she should stop acting stupid!!!
well i guess its my fault huh? what should i do? do you think shes mad at me?
heeeeeeeelp!!!!!!
I think she just needs to be explained that the comment was made before they started dating, and that it was obviously a joke. If she's truly your friend she won't be mad forever.
But I do believe she is mad at you if she's easily the jealous type. But as I said: She won't be mad forever -- if she's really your friend.
Try that, if it doesn't work, e-mail me and we'll take it from there.
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