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WHAT does this Mean???? Urgent replies Needed and Explanations!!!!
What does it mean when a guy asks you " What are you up to tonight"? OR " What are you doing tonight"? When he has seen you with friends and then he replies back saying " oh okay cool". End of conversation. This can not be a conversation starter because it ended it... :0 I mean why can't they just ask you to do something if they really want. What is up with this?
I mean why do guys ask this question and It can not be a conversation starter because this ended the conversation overall :0
And he is 24 and I am 24 years old as well....so we are not like in our early teens or kids.
He asked me this while he was working after we had talked a bit.
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I had some trouble understanding your question, but I think I've got it. He saw you while you were out with your friends and asked you what you were doing later?
Most likely scenario is that he was fishing for an invite. Maybe he wanted to do something later, but he didn't feel like inviting himself. In this case, you probably should have extended the invitation.
Another scenario is that he was looking to invite you to something (date, party, concert, etc.), but upon seeing you had plans, he decided not to try and pull you away from them.
If you responded that you had no plans, well refer to the first possibility. He was looking for something to do later, you weren't doing anything, he looked elsewhere.
Like I said, it all hinges on how you responded to his question. If you update your question, I'll update my answer to try and explain it better.
Worst case scenario, it's ok for the girl to take the initiative. If he's talking to you, but he won't man up and ask for your number, invite you out, etc, don't be afraid to ask him. Some guys are just shy.
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He might be like most guys that age and just want sex. Maybe asking what you're doing, and when he sees you're busy he won't reply. Just an idea.
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It usually means that he's interested in spending the night with you.
If he gets the message that you're not available, he'll reply like "oh okay cool".
The chances are, he likes you, and he'll ask you again.
What it can also mean, is that he sees you with your friends, and politely inquires what you guys are up to...
Thanks for asking alexisgirlie :)
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Guys are like that,I strongly recommend that you talk to him,don't expect anymore from him bc you'll always end up disappointed,so if you're interested in him,wich I don't know for you haven't said anything about you having a crush or somehing on him,ask him what does he want and what does he mean with that question,my boyfriend never told me he loved me till I started to say it so to him,and he told me he loved me too but he was just expecting me to figure it out:/ So talk to him,tell him I'm not 15 anymore so go straight to the point,hope it helps
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I can barely understand this by the way you had written. Seems like a few important details are missing but I'll do my best to answer.
My understanding would be that he wanted to see you after work or he was thinking about seeing you. He most likely meant it as a conversation starter. He was trying to be subtle. Instead of closing the conversation, you could have texted him a little later. Maybe ask him about work or something you were thinking about. A good time would be after he had gotten off work or right before he got off.
Hope I helped (:
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