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had sex with m bf when my periods were due ....


Question Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 3:34 am

Hi I had sex with my bf when my periods were due .. we used condoms for protection and he even cummed outside just for extra protection. However .. it has been 2 months since i got my last periods ... I was scared that i was pregnant so i took a pregnancy test 10 days after we had sex and it showed that i am not pregnant!
recently mom wants to take me to the doctor to get it checked but m freaking out like hell .. can i possibly be pregnant!
i recently started exercising, i eat normal, i dont have any morning sickness nor do my chest feels weird! Could i possibly be pregnant??


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adviceman49 answered Tuesday June 26 2012, 10:49 am:
The probable answer to your question lies within what you have written. "i recently started exercising,".

Any changes to your normal routine, such as exercising, new medications & stress can and will throw of your cycle off. To give you an example. Look at the women Olympic Athletes, they are all under developed for their age. Many of these young women have never experienced a period because of their training regiment.

Your doctor is better able to explain this but my theory is that all this exercise depletes a girls estrogen which is needed for development and to maintain a menstrual cycle. Once thes girls stop training they develop normally and generally very fast.

By the way if you are over 14 a federal law called HIPPA gives YOU & all young people 14 and older, the right to see a doctor in total privacy and confidentiality. Mom may want to take you to the doctor and as a good daughter you should go with her. Once at the doctors office she must wait in the waiting room while the doctor examins you. That is the basis of the law so that you and your doctor can speak openly and frankly.

This is the only way the doctor can properly treat you. Whatever the doctor finds and treats you for, even if you are pregnant which I doubt you are, stays between you and the doctor. He or she cannot tell your mom without your written permission. To do so is punishable with jail time of up to 5 years in prison.


Since you are sexually active you can during this visit ask for birth control pills and the doctor will prescribe them if you are in all other ways physically able to take them. All mom needs to know is that they are prescribed to regulate your period.

Congress passed this law so that young people such as yourself will vist a doctor when it is necessary to seek help for problems with their reproductive health. The confidentiality afforded you means no one can force you or your doctor to say what you are being treated for.

So let mom take you to the doctor. Tell the nurse, receptionist or the doctor you would like to be examined in private. Mom can fuse all she wants the doctor cannot and will not examine you with mom in the room.

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theadvicegal answered Tuesday June 26 2012, 10:15 am:
To me, it doesn't sound like you are pregnant with all the precautions you took, but remember condoms aren't always 100% the best protection.

You said you recently started to exercise? That could be the problem too! I excersice a lot, and girl who usually do, will have irregular periods, especially during timew when you're being active a lot. So that could be one possible solution.

Have you been stressing or nervous about something lately? This also plays another factor, don't know the exact reason why, but it could cause irregular periods.

I've not had my period for 2 months before, and by the 3rd month, everything was back to normal, so don't freak out too much. Let your mom take you to the doctor, and see wha happens. Better safe then sorry right? You might not be pregnant due to the fact that many things can cause you to miss a period.

Hope I could help and good luck :) xo

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