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he doesn't like black women, but I want him to like me anyway! what I do?
I met a guy who i heard dont like black women but I like him what do i do should i try to convince him to give me a chance and show him that there are good black women out there or just move on i have seen him looking at me so im not sure what to do
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Hello,first i think that you should hear it coming from his mouth cause its a pretty big deal.Second,if he doesnt like black women and you have feeling for him,then the only thing you should do to make him like black women is be yourself.If you act naturally and the way you usually do around him,and if he likes you then you have changed his mind,but if he doesnt end up liking you or black women then hes not worth it.Girl you should never change who you truely are for anyone,even for a guy.Be your adorable attractive self,show him that black women and amazing and show him that his thoughts about black women are wrong,and he has to change his mind.Goodluck.hope i helped
A.I
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You HEARD he doesn't like black women. Did you ever hear him say it himself? People's preferences change all the time but he's not going to not like black women one day and like them the next. It takes time for people to open their minds to new things. You never said whether he was a white guy or a black guy. I have known racist white guys to date black women. I have known black guys that are only seen with white girls to date black women. You can always take the chance to see if you can sway him. There's no harm in that, the worst he can say is No but you would understand why. Give it one try. If that doesn't work, move on.
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I don't know why you would want to go out with someone who at worst could be a Racist and at the very least is very closed minded.
Being closed minded as he may be he is missing a great opportunity to meet you and learn about you and another culture. I think he is very wrong to be this closed minded and the problem stems from his up bringing; as racism is a learned experience.
I live in a community were inter-racial relations and marriages is a norm. We all live, for the most part, in harmony with one another. Yes we do have a problem with bigatry and racism but not to the extent other communties have.
I think you would be better off to find someone who is not struck with the racial problems he has. You'll have more fun with others and it is safer for you.
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There really is no harm in trying to be friendly and flirty with him, and see how he responds. You never know, thats a very closed minded way to think. But in all honesty, would you really want to be with someone who claims to not like black women? Sounds very shallow and closed off to me.
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