I think it would look better and more chic if you wore it with a skirt that didn't have the bottons. The yellow top looks great with the pumps, however i think the skirt with the buttons takes away from that.

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forget about the skin showing clothes, try some classier styles. My friend has a blog that is good for a situation like this..check it out.

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Well the answers before give a good summary of what I would say. But think of it this way.. if you're going to be together forever what's the rush? I'm sure you two are very much in love, but think about getting married, planning a wedding. If you're going to be together in your mid 20s anyway, why not wait until you're older to plan it? My mom and dad met when they were young and married when they were 22. I know thats a bit older than you but my mom always says when she hit 26-28 and her friends were getting married, she wished she had waited to do it differently.

Keep that in mind, theres no rush if you're going to be together anyway.

Read "emotions revealed" by paul ekman. It's so cool, google his name and read about him. He can tell whether your lying or what emotions you are experiencing based on micro expressions. There is also a tv show that is an example of his life, "Lie to Me", it's on netflix if you want to check it out.

Small curling irons definitely will do the trick, however in order for them to stay like the picture you'd need a lot of hair spray. The best way to achieve these curls is to buy hot curlers. You can look them up online, some sets are more expensive but you can easily get them at target for 20 dollars. They plug in to the wall and you wait for them to heat up. You then take a piece of hair and roll the curler into it from the bottom of the piece of hair all the way until it is against you head. They usually come with some kind of pin or clasp to hold it there. Do that for until your head is full of hot curlers, apply spray and let it sit for a minute. You can watch tv or do something else while they are in your hair. It makes great curls and they will stay that way for much longer.

If you need some help with "how" to do this you can shoot me an inbox or youtube I'm sure has some great tutorial videos.

There really is no harm in trying to be friendly and flirty with him, and see how he responds. You never know, thats a very closed minded way to think. But in all honesty, would you really want to be with someone who claims to not like black women? Sounds very shallow and closed off to me.

I'm not sure about specifics, but I think your best shot is a university that is located in a major city. i.e. boston, chicago, nyc, la, etc..There are a lot of difference colleges and universities in these locations. The best way to get into a job that involves entertainment and tv (which isnt the easiest industry to get into..) is to be where the action is, and try to get some internships through your school in the surrounding areas.

Good luck!

You need to asses how important agreeing on these topics is to you. Obviously when you are in a relationship (I've been in one fr 2.5 years) you are going to find plenty of things that are different between you two. It's okay to disagree, but the MOST important thing you have to establish is respect for the other person. You have to respect the fact that he doesn't agree with you, and he needs to respect how you feel about the subjects as well. Next time he starts with the "tough guy" act, you may want to bring up that it's okay if you don't agree, but he needs to understand that you don't have the same beliefs. It's hard when it comes to politics not to try to convince the person you love to think your way, but it's not always the healthiest thing to do in a relationship. If he loves you he needs to respect your opinions and there needs to be a mutual understanding of that.

Not to be lame but does he have a fb? I'd friend him if i were you, fb chat him over the weekend. Make some kinda connection outside of work before you try to go for the number. He may want to ask you to hang out or make the next move but doesn't think its appropriate in that environment. If you establish a connection like that outside of the work place than he has no excuse but to ask you out.

In all honesty I think it's normal phase you are going through. Have you been feeling concerned at all about anything in your relationship? You may be going through a phase where you are overly worried. I went through a phase in my relationship where I went from talking to my boyfriend constantly (somewhat of a honey moon phase) to not as much at all. You can bottle it up inside all you want but it will get you no where. You may want to avoid coming off "angry" or overly "complainey"...but the only way to avoid getting angry and mad about it is to be very honest with him about how you're feeling. If he is coming off cold, be like "are you okay? you seem cold", if he forgets to call you or is consistently not keeping in touch with you, call him out on it. If he gets mad at you for it then he isnt being an understanding or caring boyfriend. Now it is okay to come off irritated, but getting very angry right off the bat may not be the way to go. You want to approach the situation in a mature way, show that it upsets you but stay calm. If he doesnt change his behavior and he is consistently not behaving the way he used to be, then you need to have a serious talk with him. Sit him down and tell hi this isnt the relationship you want. Honestly I know it seems extreme, but if he cares enough about you things should change. I really feel like the root of all this anger is coming from something you are not satisfied with in your relationship, and the only way to fix this problem is to confront it head on. Good luck!

Like the people below said, if its light and not too much, shave it. Is your hair dark? A trick some of my friends with darker hair do is buy a hair bleaching product (it's safe and a lot of girls actually use it) and it will change the color of the hair from dark to light. No one will even notice you have hair.

He sounds like a good find. In all honesty it sounds like hes into you. Guys in general let it be known when they are interested, he wouldn't be as flirty and sweet to you if he wasn't at least interested in you. I'd keep talking to him, try to become better friends and see if he wants the same. Sounds like a great situation!

Once your 18 you can make up your mind about the kind of relationship you want with your father..however if you want to dive into a relationship with your dad I would try to sit down with your mom and talk about it. Really find out why she doesn't want him in your life, why she has been hiding him from you, etc..If you try to understand her side, maybe you can better understand her reasoning. Also making it an open discussion and finding out more information may help your mom understand your side as to why you want to meet him. It's best to have these conversations with as little fighting as possible, so the more relaxed and mature you approach the conversation with your mom the better.

good luck.

When I was younger (21/f), i thought I had to wear thongs too, i wore tight pants and i didnt want it to show. But honestly it's not noticeable at all. Im in college now and most of my friends barely wear thongs, especially just for during the day. If you want to try some "sexier" underwear, you can always try wearing boy shorts. They're sexy and comfortable.

I'll help you, I've certainly been through the ringer with different guy situations. 21/f


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Personally, I love interesting names. Therefore, I love "Gabriel Heath" or even, "Heath Gabriel". I also like the sound of "William Trent" i think trent is a really cool name. Jude and Luke are also some of my favorites. As for girls, I adore the name Addison and Tatum. I think they are both beautiful names. There's something really pretty about Addison, and Tatum is such a cool name (i think its really interesting when girls are named names that may be slightly boyish).

you've made some great choices, you won't go wrong! ;-)

Sappy and emotional movies have a way of getting to women (i would know ;-)). Anyway, it is completely normal to worry occasionally that your partner may cheat on you, seeing a movie like "unfaithful" may have made her think about how upsetting that might be if it were to happen. the next morning she probably woke up and realized she wasn't having those concerns as much as she was when she was watching the movie which is why she texted you. She may also be looking for reassurance. Tell her you'd like to be with her and that you will be faithful. That s really all she is probably looking for.

Talk as little as possible, buy some throat coat, hots tea. Don't drink things like milk, caffine, soda or anything that will dehydrate you.

It would be helpful to know your age! anyway, I have been in a similar situation and I'll give you the best advice I can. You can't help but feel attracted to people who are not your boyfriend. There are plenty of guys out there and you are bound to want to flirt and talk to other guys. To me, that is completely natural. But you have to analyze the situation by taking your boyfriend out of the equation. Will you regret it if you never try anything with this boy? You may find that you will start to resent your boyfriend if you feel that he is standing in the way of something you really want to try out. Or you may feel like this boy is just a fun boy to flirt with. At the end of the day, it sounds like your young, and you may want to try out a break. Unless you really see yourself marrying this boy and you are in love, I'd explore other options. If it's meant to be it will happen. Life is short, don't waste time being to scared to take risks!

If I were you, and you care about the relationship you are in,..only respond to the text messages hes sends you if they are casual and friendly. any text that implies that he misses you or wants to be flirty you should completely ignore or tell him to stop. This way he will get the message. There is clearly something wrong in his relationship that is pushing him to get attention else where. You don't want to be in a situation with a guy who is like that..especially if he is dating someone else as well.

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