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JustJessOx
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I hope you don't mind, I asked you about the Moroccan oil and I just wanted to ask you a few follow up questions. which would you recommended I get? the oil hydrating product or the conditioner? How has it changed your hair? How much is it exactly.
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Both are great but I really like the conditioner! It's about a 7 oz bottle and the cost is roughly 20. I use it once a week and it leaves my hair looking really great! It feels nicer and the ends don't feel as rough. Plus it smells amazing! Like I said it's a bit pricey, but worth buying! :)
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ok i got a bf 5 months ago and i told my mom 4 months ago.well the next day she looks at houses on the internet, i ask her about it and she tells me that we are going to move after school is out.
i told my mom about him before he asked me out, told her i liked him, and she started crying!
anyway, we moved and now she wont let me talk to him!
me and my bf were supposed to ggo to carawinds this july and asked my mom if i could go she said sure and i ask her again ,just to make sure i really could go, yesterday, and she said she made plans to go to florida the 2 week of july and i was going to carawinds the 3 week of july.
and then today she grounded me, yelled at me and sent me to my room without dinner! and she didnt even say good night at 9:00 like she usually does.
she lets my brother do everything and im stuck at home doing chores, she never lets me spend the night at a friends house and my brother does it almost every weekend.all this has led me to cutting 3 months ago and now ive got marks all on my legs.
any advise on what to do will be very thankful!!! (link)
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Hey girlie! Well it seems like your mom is not ready to let go of your hand. Try to sit down and talk to her about how important your boyfriend is to you and how it seems as she's doing everything known to man to keep you two apart. Make points about like you said how your brother gets to do everything he wants. If your brother is older than you, yes he will have a little more freedom, but if he's younger...... ????? lol but seriously, when my parents wouldn't let me do something that was completely reasonable to do, my friend gave me advice to write everything down on a sheet of paper and show it to them. You need to show your mom that the reality is, is that you have a boyfriend, and you ARE going to hang out with him. Have you ever asked your mom about her past? Maybe she had a Hard time with men or something devastating happened? Something in her past could be triggering her to be very unhappy about you having a boyfriend. She could be afraid of you getting hurt.... Just sit down and talk to her :)
Best of luck
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So I decided this summer I want to take better care of my body, skin etc..But one thing I definitely want to focus on is my hair. Right now I have semi thick wavy hair, I usually straighten it. But lately I've been tired of my same old hair style. I want it to be smooth and shiny without any hair irons etc..Does anyone have good suggestions of hair products that transform there hair? I heard about something called "Moroccan oil", has anyone used that? Let me know!! I'd love suggestions.
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Hey girlie! I do use moroccan oil! And I love it! I get it in a conditioner from this place called PYT (pretty young thing). You can also just get a little tube of oil that I use once a week to keep my hair hydrated (my hair is very thick and curly/wavy). Both are a bit pricey though but definitely worth it :) I used to straighten my hair all the time, but then realized how nice it is to have that curly wave in it! After the shower, instead of towel drying your hair, dry it with a cotton shirt. It reduces the frizz and gives it a nicer look. Also, don't brush your hair ever! Use a wide tooth comb! It doesn't yank as much on your hair, and once again... Reduces frizz! I can't think of any other products that will transform your hair, but have you tried any other hair styles??? Like I will do a high messy bun not exactly at the center point of my hair but off to the side. What I also like to do is go on google and type in cute hair styles for curly wavy hair and look at pics for inspiration! That usually helps!
Best of luck
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Ok so I went out with this guy (lets call him Brendan, I wont use real names) in November this year and it was a wonderful relationship. We only ever hugged though and hardly and we never held hands or anything but I was fine with it because he was shy... I had this guy friend and I'll call him Ryan, he and I talked 24/7 and I fell for him. He knows like all my secrets. He practically forced me to break up with Brendan but I hadnt realized that until now. He asked me out a week later and I sadly said yes =( Then, while we were dating, he forced me to kiss him and make out with him, even though I wasnt ready. I broke up with him a week after he asked me out because he was too clingy and never let me do anything by myself. He's been blackmailing me ever since... Sometimes I have to cry myself to sleep at night because I trusted him and told him everything and he could ruin my social life, easlily.
3 MONTHS LATER...
Now, some things have changed in my life. Brendan told me he couldnt live without me any longer and said he missed me and he wanted me back. I said yes and all along Ive loved him still (even when I was with Ryan). We've been back together for about a week. On friday, for a school trip we got to go to Niagara Falls. On our free time, me and Brendan walked over to the falls and he held my hand! =) I was so happy. (Oh and btw Ryan is pissed that me and Brendan are back together). On the bus ride home from Niagara Falls, I sat with Brendan. He put his arm aroudn me on the way back since it was like 11pm and I had my head on his shoulder and I fell asleep on the way back. He sent me a message today saying that on free time while we were close to the falls he shouldve kissed me there but he didnt. I didnt say anything back because I didnt know how to respond. Ryan sends me alot of emails but I never reply but I do read them and he's blackmailing me and threatening me to tell all my secrets on the schools website. Im terrified. I still cry myself to sleep every night because he can ruin my life by the things I've said in the past. I've almost commited suicide, but then I thought of Brendan and I havent told him about what Ryans doing and about me almost committing suicide. Well, should I tell Brendan whats going on? What can I do about Ryan? He slapped me when I broke up with him and gave me a black eye for almost 3 weeks. Im scared to even go near him. Advice? (link)
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Hey girlie! First of all, you shouldnt ever cry your self to sleep over Ryan (or any boy)! He's just not worth your tears! And second, tell Brendan what's going on. The key to a good relationship is trust and reliablility :) let him know what's going on because odds are, it's going to make you feel more safe and secure, just known that he knows! And hey! You never know... Brandan could teach Ryan a lesson ;) Also, please don't EVER think about commuting suicide. You think it would take away all the pain sweetie, but what about your family and friends...... What about brandan??? You hear so much about bullying today, and Ryan is one! Don't let him get you down. Be the bigger person and don't stoop down to his level. Maybe to avoid all the blackmail you could make another email account or block his number or email address.
Best of luck
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