Member Since: June 21, 2012
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Last Update: June 21, 2012
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If I am over-weight and know that being overweight is bad for my health is eating chocolate suicide? If I smoke is smoking suicide? Why is this different that shooting myself? Where does it say in the bible don't kill yourself? I don't know the bible but I don't think God ever dealt with suicide.
I don't like my life, or myself and want out. I have a long list of why but it really doesn't matter. I think living is hell and death is peace. (link)
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Everybody deals with ups and downs, just have hope, life has so much to offer you and if you kill yourself, you probably won't get to see all of that.
You're over-weight, so what? Don't let that bother you, im sure you are beautiful, if you want to lose weight, make it a priority, join a gym, do yoga, start exercising at home, or see a dietitian. That should not at all be on the list of why you should die.
Wait for life to happen, im guessing your in your early teenage years, everybody deals with it, nobodys life is perfect and you don't know whats at the other end, you know whats here and whats now, so wait for it to come to you, and be happy.
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Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and my parents just don't understand me.My mom and dad had a divorce and I just hate it. They don't realize what this has done to me and how much its effecting me. My dad is ALWAYS lecturing me about how I'm going to screw up my life when I'm 18 and that he's not gonna help me when I'm older. Every chance he gets he tells me to get better grades and I'm the laziest person ever and I don't do anything. He doesn't Ever appreciate what I do for him and he doesn't realize that I want to do things regular teenagers do. I watch my 4 year old little brother all the fricken time and I never get to do anything a regular teenager does. I never go out or nothing just sit at home watching my brothers. My mom just doesn't give a sh*t she never wants to listen to me and married a complete moron (my stepdad) and they had a baby. He is currently 11 months and I watch him to. My dad thinks I'm a complete failure and he is always putting me down. I cry every night and try to put a smile on my face the next day. I'm fed up with it I need someone to help me to give me a reason to smile. (link)
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When you're 15, everybodys life sucks, trust me.
You'll find a reason to smile, and you shouldn't have that, you should smile regardless!
When we're upset about something, we tend to count more and more things to add to the list why your life sucks and most of these things have been going on since long and doesn't bother you that much but you just add them to feel worse.
So, cut those out, try to tell your dad how you feel about their divorce and that you don't get to go out as much, and tell him that you want to make him proud and you want to get good grades, you're doing the best you can, and just try to make him understand about how you feel, I'm sure he'd understand and if not, have a heart to heart with your mother, Mothers are always too understanding, she'll surely help you out.
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My daughter thinks I expect her to be perfect in everything. I don't mean to convey this message. I just want her to do her best and maybe this is seen as wanting her to be perfect. Everytime I try to help her with something or give her advice, I receive a big backlash from her. Again, she tells me I am not her coach or I want her to be perfect. I am just trying to be a helpful mom. Any suggestions? (link)
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Maybe you should change your way of giving advice, don't give it as her mom, give it as her friend. Also, all these things you're writing, you should probably have a heart to heart about this and tell her all these things, she'll obviously understand your point of view
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Ok so me and my best friend have been friends for about two years. I am one year older than her. I have always been a little jelous of her because she is really pretty, but this past spring she got a new really cute puppy, got her first boyfriend(I haven't had a boyfriend). Also she used to be kind of shy, but now she says the funniest things and I can just tell that everyone loves her. But the thing that REALLY gets on my nerves is how much she shows off, for example shes always showing off how she owns like three horses at her farm, which may i add she goes to for 4 weeks every year, AND they arnt even her horses, they are her neighbors, which she just convinintly leaves out to our other friends, I actually own horses and can ride, but I never show off about it. Also she started acting like 6 monthes ago, ive been acting for more than 2 years, and she just wont stop talking about how many plays shes been in and how much she loves acting, we decided to do an acting camp together and shes not really a very good actress, well anyway she got the part I wanted and it really made me angry. It just seems like she gets everything handed to her, i mean I dont have a bad life at all, but I have to work for almost everything. Anyway, she is my best friend and I really do want things to be good between us, but almost all the time I either want to cry when I'm around her because everyone loves her so much, or else I just want to smack her in the face. I want to work things out, but I just don't know how to, I will take any advice you can give me. (link)
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That happens to everyone, so its not a big deal.. But at the end of the day, your best friend probably won't be intentionally trying to hurt you or make you jealous, its just the way you look at it. All friendships have jealousy but healthy jealousy, and everyone has competition. She's pretty(looks shouldn't matter), You'll have a first boyfriend when its the right time honey, Don't compare your life to hers, and if you have to don't upset yourself over it, I'm sure you're funny, sweet, beautiful as well just like her, maybe better, just have confidence and let everyone else also see the true you, they probably don't because you're busy being jealous.
And at the end of the day, all these things don't matter coz when you're upset or fucked up, you're best friend is always there for you.
So don't ruin your friendship over jealousy. Be happy for her if she has good things, be competitive, but don't let her happiness be the reason for your anger.
Hope I could help
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For a while I was talking to one good friend every day. About 3 days ago we stopped talking and I don't feel right not talking to him. I talk to my girlfriends still, but we don't talk long. I would like to meet new friends but summer just started and I don't know what to do when I feel out of place except watch television and eat. (link)
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Everybody needs a good friend, its really upsetting when you don't have someone to talk to daily.. Don't let it bother you, try talking more often to your girlies, if you want to be close to them, or talk to more new people! Get out, make plans, have fun.. Summer is supposed to be exciting, don't just watch tv, join some activity or something, you'll find friends there, join swimming or any sport if you like, just enjoy it.
If nothing works out, start talking about your life to someone in your family.
Everybody needs someone.
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Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!! (link)
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I think its totally inappropriate for you guys to do that. Siblings are usually very close, it should be the hormonal changes that made it happen at first, presuming you guys are at a young age, and its completely wrong, so you should stop and tell him to stop too! and if he still forces you, then you've got to inform your parents because thats like sexual assault.
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I'm from Canada. Anyways there's this guy in one of my classes and I really like him and I don't know how to act around him and make it not so obvious that I like him... So how do I act around him so it's not that obvious that I like him? (link)
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When you like someone, you tend to over think about everything, like omg he saw me looking at him, he'd know i like him, or whatever..
Just be normal, like don't bother much when he enters, if you're like talking to a friend, keep doing that.
If he's a good friend of yours, just say hey and talk to him like a normal friend.
A hello smile won't do much damage if you want things to move forward or just ask him for a pencil or to help you. :P
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okay, I've had this friend for almost 4 years on and off;
well about three weeks ago, she came over and stayed the night; and everything was fine. I took her home the next morning; and we talked a little bit after that;
which is normal; we don't talk every single day; just here and there.
well, today I get on facebook and I was going to tell her I missed her on her wall; and when I did, I realized we weren't friends on there anymore.
So I texted her, and I asked her how come we weren't friends on FB anymore, and NO TEXT BACK.
I sent two more about an hour apart; and nothing.
Well, I found out that she has a new facebook because she is still friends with my mother; and her status said 'new facebook, had to get some people off my other one-add me'
and I sent her a message saying 'idk if you got my texts, but im just curous as to why you deleted me; everything was great between us; and I know I haven't done anything to you; I would like an explaination and than I will leave you alone'
and nothing.
Idk what the hell happened; and I obviously can't ask her because she won't talk to me..
any advice? (link)
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Well, if she means a lot to you, then you should keep trying, maybe its just a misunderstanding or something, call her or something.. If she doesn't seem to respond or care, she was probably not a good friend after all or she has done something and shes guilty and doesn't know how to tell you so she'd just stop talking(i've had that happen to me)
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What should you do if you are sex-starved ? Thank you in advance ! (link)
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Masterbating, hooking up with someone random or if you've a boyfriend/girlfriend... If you're a teenager, its probably just hormonal changes
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