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me and my brother are wierdly sexually active.
Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!!
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YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW. your brother should not get away with this--he may have a mental illness or something. this is rape and disgusting. go tell your parents. i know this is hard, but it needs to be done. let me tell you how very sorry i am for you. this was a horrible thing to happen.
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Okay well STOP family should NOT do this at all !it was probably hormoans but yeah.I think you should tell him to also stop because its not right and if he forces you then its rape so yeah.
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Your brother is sexually assulting you and that is wrong. Have sex with family members is considered incest which is a crime.
If he is fircing you to do these thing or even have sex with you then technically that is rape. You need to tell someone
Your brother is very wrong
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I think its totally inappropriate for you guys to do that. Siblings are usually very close, it should be the hormonal changes that made it happen at first, presuming you guys are at a young age, and its completely wrong, so you should stop and tell him to stop too! and if he still forces you, then you've got to inform your parents because thats like sexual assault.
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This is soooo Wrong!Were is this world coming to?!!!
I take it that you are not 18. That the age to have sex. Not 10 not however old you are now if your under 18. So like everyone said that is against the law. If I were you I would tell. But you don't want you mom and dad to know right? So I just tell him that you were going to tell IF he did not stop.I think that he's sick somewhere in his mind. If you told he could get help. But yes he would go to jail. I think that deep down you want this to stop, that your not enjoying it that much.Or why would have you ask for help? So now it is up to you honey. Don't let this get you down. june
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What you and your brother are doing is called incest. It is not only very wrong it is illegal.
It seems we all are making the assumtion that your brother is older than you & for good reason I might add. Your brother being older than you started grooming you to be his sex toy at a very early age. An age that you would not be aware that what he was doing was so wrong when it felt so good.
Your brother is a sexual preditor. I can envision him, if he has not already done so, asking you to bring some of your girlfriends into your little sexual trysts; don't do this for him.
I know that you don't want to do this but you must. You must tell your parents what your brother has been doing to you. If your brother wants you to get birth control pills then it is because he wants to have sexual intercourse with you. This would be extremly wrong.
There are a number of different ways you can tell your parents what is happening. If you cannot bring yourself to tell them directly you can tell another trusted adult such as an Aunt, Uncle, Teacher or grandparent. You can tell your doctor or you can tell the police but you must tell someone who can help you tell your parents so you can be protected from your brother and he gets the help he needs so as not to harm anyother little girls.
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HI!
okay, this is illegal. you should stop. your bro can get in some serious trouble.
STOP IT!!
if you haven't had sex, your doctor has no reason to look down under, but if you have - i'm sorry, tell the truth. go to see a therapist or something about this issue. please!!
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Hi there,
Okay what you are doing with your brother is incest and it is wrong on so many levels. Not only that but it is also illegal.
Your brother is taking advantage of you. This may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth.
He is molesting you and started grooming you at a young age. Deep down you know it's wrong. It may be giving you pleasure but that is simply your body reacting to sexual activity there are other more natural and normal ways to experience this.
You cannot continue to engage in sexual activity with your brother. It is psychologically and emotionally damaging!
Please,I urge you to tell someone. This is serious abuse. Your brother needs help. His sexual desires are clearly not normal if he does this to you.
Tell your parents immediately so they can take the proper course of action needed. You may also need to speak to a counsellor to help you deal with all of this.
The fact that your brother did this to you when you were only ten is also appalling. Who's to say when he is older he won't try to do this to some other little girl and ruin her life?
He is a predator. I know that's hard to hear as he is your brother but this type of behaviour is not normal! Imagine if you got pregnant? what then?You would be putting that child at risk of serious genetic deformities. Not to say that will ever happen but it's a real possibility. Please please stop this. Tell your parents or a teacher counsellor or a member of authority.
I'm here if you need support,feel free to inbox me at any time,but you must stop this now.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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okay. I have certain qualms about answering this question. One reason being you may not like my answer. But here goes.
first off.. is your brother older than you? if so, he would be a predator type person. Even if you did like it, it's still a giant no no especially if he's older and started 'doing' things to you when you were 10.
You also said you think it's wrong, which leads me to believe he is the one sort of making you do this stuff, which again is very bad. I think that both you and your brother need some psychological help (not trying to be rude at all, I swear, I'm just extremely concerned for the both of you)
You may not think that your brother sort of forced this on you but it is very possible that he took advantage of your relationship with him as a sibling and continued to manipulate you as you grew older.
You really really really really should tell your parents what is going on. I know you don't like that, you don't want to and you probably won't listen because it seems super impossible to even fathom the idea of telling them.
If you don't feel comfortable telling your parents tell maybe a counselor at school, or a teacher, or tell your doctor. I'm only saying this because you really need to get serious professional help about this, you may not realize it now but.. you'll be grateful you told someone and that the whole thing stopped.
Even if you do not see this as abuse it may actually be abuse. you may think you want to do this as a kind of defense mechanism, I truly do not know but all I know is that you need to stop doing that sort of thing with your brother, tell someone, and get help for yourself (and him too).
I don't think by some of the things you said that you particularly enjoy this situation "i had to give him a blowjob" "I think its wrong" stuff like that.
Please get help, even if it seems like it'd be hard to do and not good choice, it's better than the alternative. I really hope you get the help you need and if you need anyone to talk to about this more feel free to inbox me. If you have any specific questions about anything I said please feel free to inbox me.
Sorry if this isn't an answer you wanted, but it's the only one I have for you.
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