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Okay, well I am 13/F. So, I really like this guy named Trayton. He is 13/M. I have been with him before. He is really cute and sweet. He treats me like a princess and I love it! But, I also like his brother. Jordan 15 almost 16/M. Jordan and I have gone out before as well. I kind of feel bad because I have made two brothers go against each other for me. They both say they love me and I believe both. But I love both of them too. Jordan and me have made out and done things with each other. I mean because Jordan is such a hormonal teenager and all he is going through that stage where he wants to do things. But where as me and Trayton have just made out and held hands. He doesn't like taking things fast. Well, sometimes. But anyway. I over heard Trayton talking to his friend and he said he wouldn't do anything because he can't compete with Jordan in that aspect. But, I know I have to choose between them. I just don't want to because I love both of them. Jordan treats me really special, and I love that. PLZ HELP! (link)
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Does taking pills and getting really drunk, while over a bridge sounds like a good idea to kill myself? I have two options drown or die from the drug over does. I know that I have a mental health issue (depression. I have asked for help and have been take antidepressents. They somewat help. I also learned that I have another mental health issue that came with the depression.....Socail axiety. Everyday I feel like their is no point to my life. I have a good job, good family, but I have no meaning/nothing. (link)
you are beautiful and smart and mean something. i mean all of this. do not take your life. email me if you need to talk . PLEASE!! lydialove764@yahoo.com


Okay, well when I was about 10 my brother started playing with me. I mean in my vajaja. Well, as I got older it started to give me more and more pleasure. Well, he told me to get on the floor with him one night and he 69 it. Meaning I had to give him a blow job and he started liking and tounging my vajaja. I think its wrong but don't want my parents to find out and I have to get birthcontrol pills and the doctor looks down there! Please HELP!!! (link)
YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW. your brother should not get away with this--he may have a mental illness or something. this is rape and disgusting. go tell your parents. i know this is hard, but it needs to be done. let me tell you how very sorry i am for you. this was a horrible thing to happen.


Ok well I know that I'm being stupid and all but yeah I told my mom and my teacher about it and yea they believed me but I still feel scared and cofused,alone,uncomftable I still cry so much and my brother in law is still out there my mom doesn't report it! I don't want my mom to know I'm upset because its awkward talking to her.sometimes I feel as if I want to comit suicide but I know its wrong. The only person I feel comftable letting them know how I feel is my best friend and my teacher.like its not like I can go to a counslir because I don't want my mom to know that I'm not ok.by the way I'm 12 he's 32 and he started when I was 9 turning 10.I told them about a month ago about this but yeah I cry myself to sleep every single night:(I hate my life! (link)
listen right now. you are so valuable and worth everything. your brother in law is sick in his mind and for some reason did this awful thing to you. i am so sorry for that believe me, but it is no reason for you to take your life. please just don't. I want you to know that no matter what you are beautiful and are meant to be in this world. Do not let your brother in law win here. email me if you need anything ANYTHING AT ALL!! lydialove764@yahoo.com


If my period finish tuesday and I have sex sunday unprotected can I get pregnant. (link)
Yes definitely. I would take a test to be sure. No matter what time unprotected sex=chance to get pregnant.


Would the cat miss me if I killed myself right now?
Aunty would look after him. I probably won't be around to read the answers. (link)
Please do not take your life!! You are beautiful and valuable in every way. So many people would miss you not just your cat. If your cat is all that you care about--it will miss you very much because you are special and mean something. if you need any help please please please email me: lydialove764@yahoo.com Don't think twice about emailing me, I want to help


Hi,
So I'm 17 and have been searching for weekend jobs for as long as I can remember.

I have an interview this weekend to be a room attendant. What clothes would anyone suggest I wear seeing as its not like applying to work in a bank or anything? Thanks :) (link)
Pick out something thats formal but not stiff. I would wear a blouse and a cool skirt with an edgy necklace. Make sure that you are comfortable in your outfit because that is half the battle. Good luck!


I'm 19 years old, and I feel as though I'm treated like such a child.

I live with my Dad, and I usually stay at home all day unless it's to go to the YMCA or work but other than that, I can't really go anywhere!

It's summer now, and I'm not in school. I want to wake up in the morning, and take a walk by the lake, and in the park. My father doesn't want me going.

I've gotten into a fight with him over simple things like taking a walk around the block, or going for a run. He gets so suspicious and thinks I'm up to no good.

I'm not a house hermit, and I hate staying inside. I've always been outdoorsy since I was a kid. I love going out, I love adventure, I love exploring.

I want to be able to go outside, take walks, walk in a travel, go take a train to downtown Toronto, or go to those meet up events from those websites.

My Dad won't let me, and he even insists on driving me EVERYWHERE including to the YMCA which is 15 minute walk from my house. I appreciate that he drives me around, but I need my independence and I need my space.

I want my life and I want to live it in a way that makes me happy. I feel like a bird trapped in a cage, quite honestly.

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It seems like your father has trouble letting go. You should take him aside and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't want to make him upset, but that you are an adult and should be treated like one. You need to experience things for yourself. It might take a while, but he should see that he can't hide you from the world. Good luck!


what does it mean when a guy is hard ? (link)
ahahahah um it means that his penis is hard. he's turned on . . .




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