hi. ok, so I'm your average girl.I've tried at suicide 3 times. I've ran away once, and my best friend died when I was seven. But now I'm happy and thats what matters. :)
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iam in love i cant suffer no more problems with my love and i cant live with out her. she wanna break up my relationship with her i have tried two times to die but unluckyly i escaped from that can u please give me esay way die please give better solution for me (link)
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um, yeah. please spell right. its suicide, not sucide. besides, yeah, just forget it. your being a coward by wanting to die. get some balls and show that girl that you can move on.
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I am 14 yr old girl and i have had sex. Over 13 guys have naked pictures of me. 5/13 were 18-20 yrs old. Am i concideres a whore.? (link)
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girl, do i realy need to answer that?? i mean really, I remember when 14 meant getting a cell phone and a boyfriend, not sex!!!! really, when you get older you will regrett every second of that bullshit.
and sorry about the rudeness but if you cant handle the truth, then dont ask questions like that. and some day, i swear to the lord, that condoms gonna break and you are gonna get pregnent.
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my life has been horrible. my mom & dad got divorced 5 years ago and for a year now my dad has tryed nothing to try to communicate with me. he is always fighting with my mom every day. he told my brother a month ago that my dog died in march, which makes me cry every night.
im thinking about calling him up and say 'get a life, and get along'. and im thinking about braging about my bf, we have been dating for 5 months, and my moms bf, they have been dating for the past 3 years.
my moms bf is a f****** a** hole. my mom took us to a restraunt with him to meet him, i could tell he was a bad person by looking at his face, his clothes, and all of his scars on his arm, not from cutting i could tell. i told my mom i liked him cause she adored him. since he has thoght he can be my father, and to tell the truth i really, really hate him now. he 'grounded' me yesterday,but forgot to take my ds so im asking for advise on this.
i just dont know what to do and i caught myself fixing to take a chunk out of my wrist earlier, but stopped thinking of my bf.
btw, im not going to finish with all my problems cause there are way to many to fit on this thing.
sorry for the lengh.
i just want to know what to do.
any advise will be very thankful!!
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i have a friend almost exactly like you but her nickname's 'flish' anyway dont commit suicide! ive tried, believe me, its not worth it. tell all those people how you feel, starting with your mom. she'll for sure under stand :) you'll be ok.
ps- feel free to say bad words, i sure fucking do, just try not to over do it :)
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Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 mo., we kiss a lot, making out etc. He asked about sex, I told him I was waiting till 18, and he was very respectful. We have a really great relationship, but I would like to go further, not sex but more than kissing. He's coming over today so please respond ASAP, how do I let him know w/o being awkward that I want to go a little further? Any signals, ect..? Thanks. (link)
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Lol yeah mercury's right. I once was going to flick a bug off of my bf but he thought I was going to hug him. so I didnt say anything. :) Boys can be sweet, but over reactive. maybe just go out for a nice night and see how you feel later. you know what i mean? ;)
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can your hair turn blonde if you've dyed your hair and you're in the sun a lot?
Does rich caramel colour hair dye contain bleach? (link)
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You know, if you want to dye your hair blond, or at least lighter if you have darker hair, or even if you just want blond high-lights, you can dye your hair without all those damaging chemicals. And guess what? Its practically free!!! just take a lemon, sqeeze out ALL the juice into a cup, and add a teaspoon of salt, then mix. lean over a sink and run the mixture through your hair, as if it were shampoo, just dont rinse. Then go outside in the sun for a few hours. (wear sunscreen!) Come back inside, rinse out your hair,, towel dry, and tada! blond hair or highlights (depending on how much you used and where you put it). This is a great method that I have used to get lighter hair (I already had blond hair, I just made it brighter) and it really works. :) -scottishgal
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Okay, well I am a 13 year old who is really developed. So I went to a water park and me this guy named Jordan. Well, I didn't even know him before today. So a couple hours after I met him, we started to hold hands. But, Jordan wanted more than holding hands. He wanted to kiss me. Well, he kept trying to talk me into it. He tried touching my boobs to get me to do it. Well, I ended up doing it. He was a good kisser....................... But I want to know if it sounds like he just likes me for my boobs and butt. Or if he really likes me. Please help me figure it out! Thanks a lot! (: (link)
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He was just using you. No guy that has common sense would do that. Then again, sense just isn't that common any more. sorry gal, but if he had touched my breasts, I would've punched him and walked away. It was absolutly wrong.
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I need to lose weight really badly. I am 13 years old, and I weigh about 145-147 ish pounds. please tell me what to do. I sometmes get up and go walking in the morning, and i am eating a lot better, but i am not losing the weight. please help!!! (link)
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I love fitness. And, I think It's great that you are taking an intrest in exercise. For me, the absolute best workout is swimming, because after i did just a few months of it, i lost some weight (I'm sure you'll lose more because I was only 85 pounds.) and I gained a lot of mucle :) Just make sure you drink water while working out because one time I thought I lost five lbs., but turns out it was just water loss. Hope I helped.
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I don't know what to do with my boyfriend since he keeps hanging up on me,he just stops calling me for the whole day,he acts as though he was actually playing with me,he knows I am very sensitive and overemotional,and he seems to take advantage of that.The thing is that I don't wanna dump him,I cannot imagine my life without him;right away I start missing him a lot,I cry a lot and he knows this;so everytime we have the slightest argument he hangs up on me and spends the rest of the day without calling me or texting me,this situation sucks and I don't want it anymore,but I just don't know what to do,I don't know what to do with him.Last night we sorted things out but he warned me that if we start a fight again, he'll do the same no matter how much I cry and how much I beg him to call me.He's acting as a bad person and I know with all my heart that he's a good guy,he's got a good heart,then why does he do this?and what do I with him?Thanks for taking the time to read this;) (link)
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First of all, this guy's a douche. playing with your emotions like that. He does this because he knows you'll just come back. Try turning the tables and go see a movie w/ friends, have a sleepover. jJust ignore him. do it repetively if you want. During this time, find new people so that way you have options after. tell him youll break up with him if he doesnt change. if he does, youre good. if he doesnt, look at your back-up guys. i realy hope i helped because no girl deserves that.
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I've heard of at least five girls that claim they will not go swimming unless they are wearing a tampon. I'm just wondering why, because I swim while wearing a pad all the time. Is there something I'm unaware of? (link)
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If it leaks, well, lets just say it'll look like shark night. And, a wet pad doesn't absorb as well
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well at school every 1 hates me and wanna die and they buly me talk about me family ect. what do i do to com down or how do get help (link)
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all those people who make you feel that way are full of shit, ok? anyone who says stuff like that is probably just acting all tough so that noone bothers them. I used to have that problem but then, guess what? as soon as they (the bullies) were done insullting me, i turned around and yelled. and yelled. and yelled. the teacher came over and so did other people. but they just watched because they knew i was mad. As I love to say, Hell hath no fury compared to the pissed off girl on her period. So thats what I suggest. tell them how you feel, just dont become the bully.
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So there's this guy and we have similar personalities - so we get along REALLY well. everyone says we should date - i know i don't want to date him. but now everyone is saying my best friend should date him - which they don't like each other like that, but i still get this jealous feeling. Why do i get that if i don't think i like him? or how can i stop liking him?! I don't know! (link)
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Truth is, I was in the same problem awhile ago. But, the boy told me his true feelings after I talked to him about it and I realized, This guy's one in a million. Now we have been together for months. Try to talk to him about it and listen what he says, not what all the gossip says.
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Might sound weird. I'm M/17. I met a 12 year old girl on playstation. I didn't even know how old she was. Its kinda getting annoying and awkward. She emails me once in a while. The worst part is the texting, she texts me like all day. How can I get her to calm down? Without making her feel bad? Like I'll be with my friends or family and I get constant texts. Then its kinda awkward because shes like 12. And a 12 year old texting a 17 year old seems weird. I've known her for about a year too. I don't wanna be mean but...you know...its kinda annoying. (link)
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i know this sounds quite odd but I may know you. (the following names are real but shortened) my friend,dori, who is 12, had a bf who was 17, danny. they met through play station. her dad found out, they couldnt talk again, but anyway. funny, huh? anyway, to answer you, just tell her that you dont really want to keep in touch, it may hurt her, but truthfully theres almost never a nice way to tell someone to leave them alone.
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