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Younger friend is kind of annoying

Question Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 12:03 am

Might sound weird. I'm M/17. I met a 12 year old girl on playstation. I didn't even know how old she was. Its kinda getting annoying and awkward. She emails me once in a while. The worst part is the texting, she texts me like all day. How can I get her to calm down? Without making her feel bad? Like I'll be with my friends or family and I get constant texts. Then its kinda awkward because shes like 12. And a 12 year old texting a 17 year old seems weird. I've known her for about a year too. I don't wanna be mean know...its kinda annoying.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday June 28 2012, 12:08 pm:
If she does not take please stop for an answer. IF you not responding to her texts does not cause her to stop texting. I see only one other alternative. Being legally blunt with her.

Tell her that her constant texting is not only harasment but could cause you legal problems as her texting constitues a form of relationship. The 5 year age difference between you makes this relationship illegal. To protect yourself you will have to inform her IP provider of this harrasment and she could loose the rights to the web.

I know being this blunt is is hard to do and that you don't want to hurt her. But, there is always that but. There is a legal question her of stalking. Her to you. Plus does her texting of you constitute a relationship? If so you could be in legal trouble if she wre to say something to the wrong person. So either be blunt with her. Tell your parents and let them handle it, or talk to the police and let them handle it.

This is a young girl that seems to have a crush on you. Your legal well being could be at risk here. She needs to stop.

My advice is to talk to your parents and the police. The law and technology are out of step. You need to protect yourself before all others.

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Xui answered Wednesday June 27 2012, 5:47 pm:
You don't have to be mean about it but you need to be stern.

This girl may have a crush on you. (Possibility) and you are right it is kind of weird. This girl is a child and she is way to young to be taking interest in someone who is 5 years her senior.

Now, In a blunt but not so harshly way you could say this; "I enjoy talking to you but I find the text messaging a little impulsive can you please tone it down" Hopefully she'll get the message but again as you stated she is a 12 year old kid. If she doesn't get it then just tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and you want her to stop.

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