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am i a whore.?


Question Posted Monday July 2 2012, 1:14 am

I am 14 yr old girl and i have had sex. Over 13 guys have naked pictures of me. 5/13 were 18-20 yrs old. Am i concideres a whore.?

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adviceman49 answered Monday July 2 2012, 2:10 pm:
First I don't particularly like that word even for someone by definition who is one. Who to my mind is someone who walks the streets and gets paid for sex.

By your writing you are some one who is sexually promiscuous. This two is wrong for some one your age. I'm not a doctor and I certainly am not a psychologist but what I see is someone who is missing something in their life and trying to find it through sex. This is a very dangerous way to find whatever is missing in you life.

The people who are in possession of your naked pictures are in possession of child pornography since you are under 1q8. It matters not what their age is they can be prosecuted just for having them. Many states have enacted laws where you can be prosecuted for distribution for sending them. Child pornography, possession and distribution has become a zero tolerance offence. This is why social network websites such as Google and Facebook are working with the FBI and local law enforcement to track down those who send or post it over their websites in short you could go to reform school for sending these pictures to anyone and the others could join you or go to jail. So stop sending them.

You also have no control of these pictures once they leave your control . Years from now your own children could come across them on some porn site.

I've said I consider you sexually promiscuous. I don't know the reason for this but I can assume their is something missing from your life. Probably the type of love and affection you think you get from sex. At your age with the boys and men you are having sex with it is not love but lust and for the older ones it is a sick kind of lust to have sex with a child so much younger then them.

You need to stop this circle of destruction you are falling into before you are seriously hurt or some older man turns you out as a prostitute. Then you would be a whore.

If the problem is at home and you cannot go to one of your parents. Then please, please go to the nearest hospital emergency room and ask for help. They will help you and you do not have to worry about how to pay for it. You need to see a psychologist and find out what is missing and why you are having sex with so many men to find it.

You need to do this before you end up ruining your life for good, being hurt physically or even worse. No 14 year old girl should be having sex in the first place. If she is she should not be doing so with so many guys.

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BoriquaGirl145 answered Monday July 2 2012, 1:41 pm:
First of all, you're too young to be having sex. I'm 18 and I still havent had sex yet. And 13 guys...damn, yeah you kinda are a whore. Especially having sex with 18-20 year olds. You need to stop doing that and wait until you are in a real relatonship to have sex.

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Xui answered Monday July 2 2012, 11:53 am:
I am going to point out a few things that all these people left out.


1, You are a minor and anyone of age 18+ having a naked photo of you would be in possession of child pornography.

2, These photo's you've given, I hope you are aware they will be seen by many people. They could even leak through cell phones and be put on the internet.

A whore? Sort of yes. I honestly would chill out a bit as in most states you aren't even age to legally consent to sex anyway.

Seriously, Chill. At 14, You do not want to be giving yourself a bad reputation. These men are way to old for you anyway and having sex with men over the 18 at your age is considered rape even if you consented. You could put yourself in a lot of legal trouble as well as these older men you've been with. Stop.

You need to learn to show yourself some respect. I also hope you are aware that anyone under the age of 18 sending nude photo's.....Well they actually just passed a law on that in my state not long ago. Your phone could be traced and BOOM you just broke the law.

I'm not trying to be an ass but like someone below me said if you can't handle the truth then you shouldn't be asking these sort of questions.

I hope these people opened reality too you because this is just sad..

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parsimoniousdino answered Monday July 2 2012, 6:49 am:
Well, there's certainly no going back now but you could change. Do what you want.

Whore:

1. A prostitute.
2. A person considered sexually promiscuous.
3. A person considered as having compromised principles for personal gain.

Definition brought to you by the free online dictionary. So your answer is technically yes. You are sexually promiscuous.

According to this website, it's a fact that sex gives you more pleasure than money. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
This website states the surprising health benefits of sex.

Just make sure the condom is on. I do not agree with scottishgal's advice, the world does not need another pregnant kid. Get on the pill. I also recommend less partners. Pick one really good partner. Enough said.

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prettygurl answered Monday July 2 2012, 3:24 am:
It is wrong,however those guys are way to old but you have to be careful because those guys that you give those pictures can also post them on the internet and ruin your reputation you should be careful and try not to do it again for your reputation sake.

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scottishgal answered Monday July 2 2012, 2:53 am:
girl, do i realy need to answer that?? i mean really, I remember when 14 meant getting a cell phone and a boyfriend, not sex!!!! really, when you get older you will regrett every second of that bullshit.
and sorry about the rudeness but if you cant handle the truth, then dont ask questions like that. and some day, i swear to the lord, that condoms gonna break and you are gonna get pregnent.

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DragonGirl answered Monday July 2 2012, 1:51 am:
umm.. well kinda. But Come on' you are still young, give respect for yourself, keep yourself safe to a special guy that will come eventually in your life :)

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Imperfectionist answered Monday July 2 2012, 1:33 am:
I really don't want to answer this question because in my eyes, yes you are. But to someone else, maybe not. But you might want to change your life around. All you basically just described makes me think you have no respect or love for yourself.

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Amasian7 answered Monday July 2 2012, 1:28 am:
Nooo, not at all. You just seem like a very nice girl who is very generous.

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