Gender: Female
Age: 18
Member Since: July 2, 2012
Answers: 2
Last Update: July 2, 2012
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Hey, sorry if I'm bothering you guys with so much needed advice about my boyfriend, but I'm in another situation with him. We have been dating for over a year now. I live in Illinois and my faimly wanted to move to Florida but I didnt want to because I wanted to stay with my boyfriend. So my boyfriends mom decided to take me in because she is a kind woman. Yet, there is one problem. I hate my boyfriend. He use to be kind to me, but all he is now is a controlling freak and I dont know why but I am in so much love with him and Im afraid of losing him. Im leaving for the Navy Oct 1st so Im living with him until then. first of all he always even in the past would break up with me and then have sex with me. Like once he had sex with me and then said now remember I just broke up with you and were still frineds. Also when I always was trying to get over him he wouldnt stop calling me and would get mad if I didnt tell him that I loved him or wanted to see him. I never understood cuz he freaking broke up with me! It use to be so easy for me to say “Okay were broken up“ but now when he breaks up with me I beg on my knees and cry until he says “Fine okay were back together.“ He's broken up with me all the time for the dumbest reasons and then still expected me to do girlfriend stuff and I really think that it screwed me up into having a phobia of losing him. He never wants me to sleep with him anymore, He barley wants to cuddle, He always tells me that his friends are more important then me, Im not allowed to wear shorts outside, He'll even say that he questions the future with me because I dont like the things he likes like he likes to play videogames and watch dumb cartoons all day and read dark tower books. He always tells me that its okay that he can say “Hey Sexy“ to his x girlfriends on facebook because hes just joking. He always watches regular porn, animay porn, and animal porn. He calls my faimly white trash. He calls me names all the time too like psychotic and stuff like that. His friends dont like me because I spend too much time with him when the funny thing is that his friends are too busy all the time with their girlfriends to spend time with him so whats there deal with me and him being together a lot. He yells at me that I am too annoying. Also when we are making love sometimes he calls me a dirty little slut and makes me admit that he's my master. He always flirts with other girls all the time. Not to mention my boyfriend is fat and hes cute but I could do better. I am a beautiful woman. Everyone always tells me that im gorgous so why am I dating a fat pig? He picks his nose, sticks his finger in his butt and sniffes it, bites his nails, burps! I HATE HIM!!!!! He even tells me that “What if you dont make it in bootcamp when you leave for Navy Oct 1st“ instead of being supportive! Im so sorry if the things I am saying are awkward and you probably think that Im crazy but this is really happening to me! I hate him but I love him. I dont know why! He use to be romantic to me but now he's become a controlling pig of a monster and I cant take it anymore! He even says sometimes that he cant wait until I go the navy. He even got fired from walmart because he didnt run a machine the right way and then he dropped light bulbs cuz he was an unloader and now he works at united soils working only once a week so that just shows how much hell support me in the future. He tells me also that if I ever see my mom that hell break up with me. He's also sexsist. I mean we were watching Pocahontas today and you know what he said? I wonder if Pocahontas is wearing panties underneath that dress? He's such a pig and he always has something inappropriate to say about women. He treats me like im his daughter too. Im not allowed to stay out after 11 pm “Not to mention Im 19“ and he always has to check what im wearing before i leave, he makes me eat my dinner even if I dont want it, controlls who I hang out with, he even told me Im not allowed to go on advice websites anymore because its dangerous and I wont know who is giving me advice. Hes sleeping upstairs right now though so were good. He tells me that I look like a whore sometimes but DUh just because Im ten times better looking then you doesnt make me a whore. Im serious Im not the kind to judge on looks I fell in love with the old goofy funny him even if he wasnt that good looking even though he kinda is. I looked in the mirror just yesturday and he was in the reflection too behind me and I wonderd “What am I doing with this man? Look how beautiful I am inside and out and Im with this pig?“ He even still lives with his mom at 21, and hes just now going to start his first year in college which I doubt hell pass. He wants to be a Literature professer at a college yet he cant even spell cat. He also wanted to become an animator also psssh ya okay. Hes even working on a book and expects to be the next Steven King. He's such a child and its pissing me off. I dont know how patient I can be with him. He told me he might wait for me when Im in the Navy but hes not going to make any promises but the way I see it. Im not worried at all because no woman would go out with him. Thats why its so hard for him to let me go even when he always broke up with me because he knows hell never get anyone like me again. His other girlfriends are dead ugly! I think he would be good looking if he lost wait but hey thats just me. Please I hope that I didnt scare you away but I AM LOSING MY MIND!!!!!!!!!
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mmmm look i had-have a boyfriend*ex* who was same like yours. nice at the beginning, funny but now he just calls me stupid, anoying and etc and he also insults my family. Is not easy to leave him but i look my self in the mirror and say "I'm too smart-beautiful for a dumbass who is 22 and is going to start college NOW XD and im 18 and going to my 2nd year XD !
Honestly i think that you should leave him and don't worry about his support on the Navy decision because in the end you will end up a better, professional,stronger person. Plus he is too controlling for a young person like u, Girl just live your life.. honestly in my opinion you are too young to be in that kind of relationship (example: he tells you what not to wear etc)
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I am 14 yr old girl and i have had sex. Over 13 guys have naked pictures of me. 5/13 were 18-20 yrs old. Am i concideres a whore.? (link)
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umm.. well kinda. But Come on' you are still young, give respect for yourself, keep yourself safe to a special guy that will come eventually in your life :)
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