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I don't know what to do with him anymore
I don't know what to do with my boyfriend since he keeps hanging up on me,he just stops calling me for the whole day,he acts as though he was actually playing with me,he knows I am very sensitive and overemotional,and he seems to take advantage of that.The thing is that I don't wanna dump him,I cannot imagine my life without him;right away I start missing him a lot,I cry a lot and he knows this;so everytime we have the slightest argument he hangs up on me and spends the rest of the day without calling me or texting me,this situation sucks and I don't want it anymore,but I just don't know what to do,I don't know what to do with him.Last night we sorted things out but he warned me that if we start a fight again, he'll do the same no matter how much I cry and how much I beg him to call me.He's acting as a bad person and I know with all my heart that he's a good guy,he's got a good heart,then why does he do this?and what do I with him?Thanks for taking the time to read this;)
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He's being rude.
You need to be able to tell him that, and to ask him to stop.
So, you are too sensitive and overly emotional. That sucks. For both of you. That is something you should work on and try to address.
But it's not something that makes it okay for him to act rudely.
And what is even worse, he gave you an ultimatum where he said no matter what, he was going to behave rudely in the future!
So you both clearly need to change your approach to fighting. That is something you need to talk about, and you both need to be open to compromising. That might mean not talking when you are too upset to hold a conversation, and you learning to accept that and cool down on your own.
But if you continue down this path, it can't possibly last. You need to come to a better understanding of how to handle a fight. This way wont work.
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Hi babe! can i firstly just say...remember your worth!...sometimes we forget our worth when we allow our hearts to take control.It seems asif you have developed so much feelings for this guy that your almost going to allow him to walk all over you just for the sake of not losing him.In order to gain someones respect you need to show that you respect urself.Although things may not be at there worse these can sometimes be the first stages of allowing someone to walk all over you.speak to him and let him know that your not happy.if he has mutual feelings he should consider your feelings and try to make changes.if not then maybe you need to force yourself to take a step back until hes ready to step up to the mark.show him that your life does not revolve around him.if hes sees your independant he will know that you dont need him which will be like a wake up call to him and should hopefully bring some improvement to your relationship.get out there,have some fun.show him you CAN be happy without him.
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First of all, this guy's a douche. playing with your emotions like that. He does this because he knows you'll just come back. Try turning the tables and go see a movie w/ friends, have a sleepover. jJust ignore him. do it repetively if you want. During this time, find new people so that way you have options after. tell him youll break up with him if he doesnt change. if he does, youre good. if he doesnt, look at your back-up guys. i realy hope i helped because no girl deserves that.
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It sounds like he isn't really the guy for you.
You clearly notice that he is taking advantage of your feelings. He also says that he'll hang up on you no matter what, if you argue again.
Communication (along with trust) is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. If you two can not communicate your problems to get past them, then it will never work. EVER.
If he want's to be childish, and hang up, then he can. But the mature thing to do is to talk about it, rather than just to put the phone down and disregard your feelings.
He doesn't sound like a very nice guy at all to be honest. What I recommend is, that you break up with him. I know it may seem difficult, and painful right now. But you will- eventually- get over him. You will find someone who does not hurt you emotionally, and can understand how you feel.
So I say you speak to him. Break it off, if you can not reach an understanding whereby he is willing to speak about things, rather than hang up and ignore you.
Like I said, it won't be easy, but you'd rather end it now, rather than wait even longer, and get involved with him more and more until it becomes near impossible.
Good luck :)
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