Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 mo., we kiss a lot, making out etc. He asked about sex, I told him I was waiting till 18, and he was very respectful. We have a really great relationship, but I would like to go further, not sex but more than kissing. He's coming over today so please respond ASAP, how do I let him know w/o being awkward that I want to go a little further? Any signals, ect..? Thanks.
mercury answered Saturday June 30 2012, 1:49 pm: My dear,the thing is that for a guy to go a bit further means sex,bc they're more sexual than women,even if you just kiss them,they may get an erection right away,so think about it,what's the big difference between having sex now and do it when you're 18?I don't know how old you are,though,but anyway,I bet you are over 16,so you must be ready,have him to wear a condon and have sex with passion and respect for each other,you won't regret it;) best of luck! [ mercury's advice column | Ask mercury A Question ]
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