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should I date him or not
I have a friend whom I have known for about 4yrs.. I knew this guy when I was 16 and he was 28... Now I am 20 and his 32 and we both like and care about eachother a lot... But I am too scared to date him because of the age difference, I am still in the university and his a working class guy... He talks about starting a long term relationship that would lead to marriage but I don't know if he would want to spend the rest of his life with me I am still quite young for marriage and I have planned to get married at 26 but I don't know if he would want to wait that long since I am still young I love him and I want to be with him but I am afraid he would move on along the way when he sees I am not ready pls tell me what to do
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The one thing that struck me about your question is how much speculation there is in it. You heard him talk but you aren't sure what he wants, you are afraid he might not want to wait etc.
For me the age is not important, its just whether you can work out what you want out of life.
Honestly, I think you should talk to him, maybe go out on a date and chat about the things you both want in the future (including how soon). He may want a family but it might not be something he needs to have right now. The problem is there is no way to know this without having that chat. It would be a shame if he was willing to wait and you never found out...
So either go on that date or just have a friendly heart to heart conversation with the guy. Then you can both decide what to do without guesswork :)
Good luck.
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let him go he is too old you can't marry someone old like this sorry but that is my advice look 4 you to a young bf at your university and forget about him
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