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Is it wierd? Does he just like me for my boobs/butt?
Okay, well I am a 13 year old who is really developed. So I went to a water park and me this guy named Jordan. Well, I didn't even know him before today. So a couple hours after I met him, we started to hold hands. But, Jordan wanted more than holding hands. He wanted to kiss me. Well, he kept trying to talk me into it. He tried touching my boobs to get me to do it. Well, I ended up doing it. He was a good kisser....................... But I want to know if it sounds like he just likes me for my boobs and butt. Or if he really likes me. Please help me figure it out! Thanks a lot! (: <3
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He was just using you. No guy that has common sense would do that. Then again, sense just isn't that common any more. sorry gal, but if he had touched my breasts, I would've punched him and walked away. It was absolutly wrong.
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You kissed a guy you barely knew?
Honey, You never jump into things with someone you do not know very well. Despite talking to him for a few hours, You do not know this kid on a personal level.
If he just met you and he was already trying to touch your breast, Then yes he was trying to take advantage of you and use you. A guy that respects you will like you for YOU not your body. If a boy rushes things, Then they are trying to take advantage of you.
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he is more in to your boobs/butt then you. If you see him again I would not talk to him.I think that every one who answer this question think that he was moving WAY to fast for the first day.Boobs touching should not start till the 6th to 8th mouth. You need to get to know whoever your with at the time a little better. This boy was to get to know your body not you a little better. And always remember: No mean's no. Not a boy you want to be with if he try's to go on after you have said NO.
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Good for you for having the good sense to question what this guy is after. What your good sense is telling you is this boy wants more than what you are willing to give or allow. He should never have touched you. Your breasts and Butt are part of your private places. Touching you there is a sexual assault as you did not want to be touched their.
Regardless of how old he is, your age or older, he could be in legal trouble if you wished to report him for touching you. Sexual assault is against the law. When you say no or stop the boy must stop. If he doesn't he is breaking the law and can be punished under the law. Always remember this.
To answer your question: Yes he was more interested in your body then you. Boys going through puberty are intersted in one thing constntly and that is relieving the pent up sexual urge brought on by the hormones now going through the, Because of this the confuse love for lust. Remember this too.
Make sure when a boy says he loves you he means love and not just saying that because he wants sex. Sex should wait until your older and into a long term adult relationship. Not a teenage relationship where once he gets what he wants he will look for other girls to concor. Your virginity is the most presious gift you have. Wait to give it to someone who treats you with respect and love. Not just a vessel to relieve his sexual desire with.
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Well trying to touch your boobs to get you to kiss him is totally wrong. So yeah, it's definitely a possibility that he's trying to move way too fast. You should never let a guy touch you like that. Guys need to learn that no is no. Holding hands is fine and cute but you can't move so fast in one day. Then on top of that he keeps trying to talk you into it. He should move at your pace and not try to push you into more. Plus you're 13, you don't need all that. You're going to have to deal with that for years so try looking for good guys right now.
Don't settle for some cute guy who just wants to touch and kiss you. Or one that will try to persuade you to do more.
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