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Departing this Earth.


Question Posted Wednesday June 20 2012, 1:30 pm

Would the cat miss me if I killed myself right now?
Aunty would look after him. I probably won't be around to read the answers.


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lydialove764 answered Tuesday June 26 2012, 11:26 pm:
Please do not take your life!! You are beautiful and valuable in every way. So many people would miss you not just your cat. If your cat is all that you care about--it will miss you very much because you are special and mean something. if you need any help please please please email me: lydialove764@yahoo.com Don't think twice about emailing me, I want to help

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whythehellnot answered Thursday June 21 2012, 10:54 am:
Everyone would miss you,not just your kitty.

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Tara86 answered Thursday June 21 2012, 12:26 am:
Don't do it. This pain you are feeling will subside in time. Everything heals in time, just remember that. Go give your cat a big kiss because I am sure if your cat could talk, it would tell you how much they appreciate you(Not to mention your aunt too!). My cat is all I have. I just think about all the things in my life I am grateful for. It's too easy to be wrapped up in your own thoughts sometimes, so I like to think about what I can do for others and what impact we can make on each other. Surround yourself with positive thoughts. I personally like to feel needed often and when I feel like I have nothing to offer, I get sad. There is a trigger for your sadness, find out what that is so you can flip it! ;P You WILL feel better, you just have to BELIEVE in your SELF and OTHERS. Try to keep busy if you can. Take the pressures off awhile. Do something you normally wouldn't do that you've been wanting to for sometime.. you will enjoy life again, just wait and see. ;) T

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alexisgirlie answered Wednesday June 20 2012, 6:50 pm:
Not only will cat miss you, but so will so many people. Don't kill yourself, because you are already dead inside, rather bring yourself back to life. You are in terrible pain right now, and you've been taken captive by the suicide monster. But don't fulfill a wish that isn't yours. Don't you rather want everything in your life to work out, and be happy again? That's so much better then committing suicide. I have so many friends who've attempted suicide, and they all regretted it. It's not worth it. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You are a wonderful person, and you don't deserve to die!

I understand where you're coming from, I used to be suicidal all the time, and I nearly killed myself a few months ago, but I'm so glad I didn't and so proud of myself. Today I am living again, and life is really good! Trust me, if you get help, and give it the chance, the sun will shine upon you again. You will be a much stronger person as a result of what you went through.

You can visit my website www.survivethesuicideurge.org for great tips on how to survive the urge, and things to do when you feel down, or call 1800 SUICIDE. Lots of people out there, both who know you, and those who don't, love you and care about you. You are not alone! Talk over your pain with someone who can help. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon :)

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