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Should I give up?
There's this girl I like from school, she's graduating and I still have one more year. I'm always shy, but somehow I was able to introduce myself to her and whatnot, we've only had like one conversation after that. She's very quiet and doesn't talk much. I added her on Facebook and sent her a message asking if she was going to school for any tests. She never replied. She said happy b-day on my wall about a week later. So I asked her through comment when she was coming to school, she answered. Later I sent her another message, no reply. I saw her the day she came to school, I talked very little, then somehow harnessed the energy of the universe and got her to give me her number, but she doesn't reply to the texts I sent so far. So, there's possibilities like the number being wrong, or not having her phone. But it seems that the more probable explanation is that she's not interested at all. No reply to two FB messages and no reply to four texts. One part of me wants to stop trying, and delete the number and unfriend from FB, another part is telling me to just be patient and to not send anymore messages yet. But it seems that either one could have an unwanted outcome. Plus, I'm trying not to seem desperate or creepy.
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Sending her lots of messages may come across as desperate. I would stop that for a while. Try different ways of letting her know you like her, like telling her she's beautiful and smiling. Be kind, and let her know you're there for her and care about her. That talks to a girl.
As for giving up, that depends how much you love her. Remember love isn't about who you can see yourself with, it's who you can't see yourself without. If you really want her, don't give up! Show her love, respect, but most importantly give her space. Good luck, and I hope things work out for you ;)
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