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sexualy abused by brother in law i know im being stupid
Ok well I know that I'm being stupid and all but yeah I told my mom and my teacher about it and yea they believed me but I still feel scared and cofused,alone,uncomftable I still cry so much and my brother in law is still out there my mom doesn't report it! I don't want my mom to know I'm upset because its awkward talking to her.sometimes I feel as if I want to comit suicide but I know its wrong. The only person I feel comftable letting them know how I feel is my best friend and my teacher.like its not like I can go to a counslir because I don't want my mom to know that I'm not ok.by the way I'm 12 he's 32 and he started when I was 9 turning 10.I told them about a month ago about this but yeah I cry myself to sleep every single night:(I hate my life!
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listen right now. you are so valuable and worth everything. your brother in law is sick in his mind and for some reason did this awful thing to you. i am so sorry for that believe me, but it is no reason for you to take your life. please just don't. I want you to know that no matter what you are beautiful and are meant to be in this world. Do not let your brother in law win here. email me if you need anything ANYTHING AT ALL!! lydialove764@yahoo.com
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You should not be living in fear, this is very wrong. If your mom has done nothing and your teacher has not reported what you said to familly services or the police then this is what you can do for yourself.
If you live in the United States or Canada pick up the phone and call 911. Help will be sent to you. You have done nothing wrong and the help sent to you will protect you and get you the help you need.
Afraid to use the phone in the house. If you don't have a cell phone. Go to the nearest Fire or Police station. These are safe havens for children. Tell the people on duty what you have written to us and they will help you. You can also go to any Hospital Emergency Room and ask for help.
Do not be afraid of any of these people. The police, firefighter, doctors or nurses will take care of you. No one will blame you as you are a victim. Please go to one of these places and ask for help or call 911 or the emergency number for where you live.
If you go to a fire station that is not manned. On the front of the building will be a call box that is connected directly to the fire dispatcher. Use that phone to ask for help.
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If your mother won't do anything to protect you, Then you need to tell another trusted adult who will. If you are in fear, You NEED to tell someone. Many people who are sexually abused need counseling or a type of therapy to help them cope.
Yes, You did the right thing by telling someone. It's not stupid at all to vent out how you feel about someone who violated you. You are a victim of sexual abuse and you have the right to be safe just like everyone else. I would recommend talking to a school guidance and let them know what happened and your worries.
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You are not alone sweety. You did the right thing by telling someone what was going on. But, you really should try talking to your counsellor because they can provide you with a ton of options for you to find support to get through this. They don't have to tell your parents if you ask them not to. And if you are to shy, try asking the teacher you confided in for some help as to what you can do. The most important thing is that you stay strong and remember that this doesn't have to control your life. There are a ton of support groups and people out there that you can rely on to get you through the day. You are a strong lady and none of what happened is your fault. You sound extremely brave by talking to someone about this, and that's one of the hardest steps that you've overcome.
xoxo
Feel free to send me an email (my address is on my prof) if you need someone to chat with.
Take care
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