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what the hell happened? My Friend just stopped talking to me!
okay, I've had this friend for almost 4 years on and off;
well about three weeks ago, she came over and stayed the night; and everything was fine. I took her home the next morning; and we talked a little bit after that;
which is normal; we don't talk every single day; just here and there.
well, today I get on facebook and I was going to tell her I missed her on her wall; and when I did, I realized we weren't friends on there anymore.
So I texted her, and I asked her how come we weren't friends on FB anymore, and NO TEXT BACK.
I sent two more about an hour apart; and nothing.
Well, I found out that she has a new facebook because she is still friends with my mother; and her status said 'new facebook, had to get some people off my other one-add me'
and I sent her a message saying 'idk if you got my texts, but im just curous as to why you deleted me; everything was great between us; and I know I haven't done anything to you; I would like an explaination and than I will leave you alone'
and nothing.
Idk what the hell happened; and I obviously can't ask her because she won't talk to me..
any advice?
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Well, if she means a lot to you, then you should keep trying, maybe its just a misunderstanding or something, call her or something.. If she doesn't seem to respond or care, she was probably not a good friend after all or she has done something and shes guilty and doesn't know how to tell you so she'd just stop talking(i've had that happen to me)
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Oh dear..well she obviously isn't a very great friend. This has happened to me and I know you don't want to hear this but you just have to move on. If they want to talk to you they will. Maybe she just needs space or a change. It's hard to tell, just pay attention to your real friends and send her a few texts here and there asking if she's okay or needs to talk to someone. She might just be going through a rough patch and not know what to do. Hope this helped!
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There could be a whole lot reasons, Reasonable ones? Probably not.
You see, Sometimes people are arrogant in a way where they just shut people out of her life without explanation. I have even had it done to me once or twice. Generally, I would start to think she wasn't really happy in the friendship or she may even be influenced by other friends or people. Either or she is not a 'real' friend to you. The best I can tell you is to try and make new friends because at this rate there may never be a true explation for her wiping you out. Excepting will come in time
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Hey there, Hmm that is a little strange alright. I hate to say it but she obviously isn't a real friend if she just goes and deletes you off facebook without an explanation! Her actions were selfish and immature not to mention inconsiderate of your feelings. You don't need people like that in your life. I know it hurts but she isn't worth it. I know you really want an explanation.but you have done your bit and she refuses to reply. It just shows she is a coward who slyly deleted you off of facebook becase she can't handle confrontation. I would not text her again. its only giving her ammunition. You dont wanna come off desperate. Dont buy into her crap. What you cold do is ask another friend do they know why she deleted you and wont text back. Other than that I would say move on people like that are not worth your time or energy. Good luck and much <3 Jess 18/f
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