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i have a bf but i can't stop thinking about another guy.
I have a bf and he is really nice and kind and when we started dating everything was great, but now i have gone off him a little bit and i think hes noticed it by saying he doesn't want to lose me. But theres this guy i can't stop thinking about and i can't get away from him cause i work with him in a small place, hes really nice and were the same age. Everytime i see or talk to him i feel sick and sometimes feel like i can't breathe,i try stay away, i want to tell him how i feel but i can't. I hate feeling this way, i wouldn't cheat on my bf ever, i just want to know some how if he feels the same. Me and him talk outside work and he thanked a friend of his for getting him my number. I don't know what to do
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It would be helpful to know your age! anyway, I have been in a similar situation and I'll give you the best advice I can. You can't help but feel attracted to people who are not your boyfriend. There are plenty of guys out there and you are bound to want to flirt and talk to other guys. To me, that is completely natural. But you have to analyze the situation by taking your boyfriend out of the equation. Will you regret it if you never try anything with this boy? You may find that you will start to resent your boyfriend if you feel that he is standing in the way of something you really want to try out. Or you may feel like this boy is just a fun boy to flirt with. At the end of the day, it sounds like your young, and you may want to try out a break. Unless you really see yourself marrying this boy and you are in love, I'd explore other options. If it's meant to be it will happen. Life is short, don't waste time being to scared to take risks!
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Hey there, Okay I think deep down in your heart you know what you want. It isn't working out with your boyfriend is it?However sweet,kind and caring he is it isn't fair to lead him on if you have lost feelings for him. Which is why I suggest you consider ending things with him now before you develop any deeper feelings for this new guy.Its natural to feel attracted to other people when we are in relationships but you need to asses is it more than just a crush?Is it worth leaving your boyfriend?do you still love your boyfriend?If you dobt then dont stay with.him out of.pity your happiness comes first! Good luck and much <3 Jess 18/f
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