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How do i make myself more attractive.
So i have a HUGE crush on this boy and iv had it for two years now and he still doesnt notice me. I think its because im un-attractive, iv never liked my body and im a total tomboy so i usually wear a jumper and jeans and all my friends wear like mini skirts and belly tops. I look like such an idiot, im dark skinned (brown) wear glasses and im not really fat but abit chubby and i hav frizzy hair tats brown but looks like it black... i hate my body and how can i m
ake my self look more attractive but not in a slutty way.
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forget about the skin showing clothes, try some classier styles. My friend has a blog that is good for a situation like this..check it out.
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Alright, we've all been there. (Well most of us girls have anyways).
I always saw myself as the least attractive girl in my group of friends, I've always been a little overweight, never really took time to get into fashion or do my hair or makeup.
But now I'm 23 and I've grown up a bit and realized a few things. When you project self-confidence, that's attractive. And guys (surprise!) actually like tomboys ... they want somebody they can relate to and actually have a conversation with. If you have a few things you're really interested in, those are great conversation starters and when a guy starts to get to know you better, you'll be more attractive to him.
Now I'm sure that's all advice you've heard before, but it can be hard to project self-confidence if you're not really feeling it. But, putting a bit of time into your appearance can go a long way towards feeling it. So here's what I suggest for the next time you'll be around this guy:
- Go out shopping for a new outfit, and don't shy away from form-flattering clothes! Find some jeans or a skirt that aren't too tight, but hug your body, and a cute top to go with it. Make sure it's something YOU like, that's YOUR style, rather than just what's "in," because you'll feel much better in it.
- Take a little time to do your hair. If it's frizzy, try straightening it and then using a cream or serum to make it smooth and shiny. If you want to, you could get it cut in a style you like, lots of stylists are good at framing your face and flattering your features. It's not necessary though, this is about making YOU feel good about the way you look.
- Put on a little makeup that highlights the best feature on your face. For me, this is my eyes, so I just use a little bit of liner and an eyeshadow color that compliments my eye color. You don't really need to go all-out here, especially if you don't normally do makeup.
- Eat a healthy diet with minimal processed foods, and get a little exercise in. This isn't about losing weight; your body feels great when you treat it right!
And that's it! New outfit, a little style and getting excited about it can really improve your confidence and guys will notice.
Also, in my experience, guys are attracted to girls that have some curves. So love that about yourself, embrace it. Women tend to feel inadequate because our culture endorses hyper-thin women, but I guarantee that most men don't think that's the most attractive look for a woman. I like to look at this article if I'm ever feeling down about myself, it has a great perspective on what people have found attractive over the years:
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How can someone love you if you don't love yourself? I've bet you've heard that before? Well it's a very true statement. If you aren't comfortable with yourself, and don't have confidence, then other people might not either.
I understand the whole situation about fitting in to look as good as your friends. Trust me, I've been there, and sometimes it still happens to me. You don't need to wear what they wear to be 'attractive'. If you want to dress like a tomboy, then make it work. Maybe not too much boy though. Sometimes guys don't like that, but if you don't want to dress girly, be the best tomboy you can be!
If your hair is frizzy, take a bit more time to do it in the morning. Get some new hair products that work with frizz possibly? Gel? That problem can be fixed easily.
The glasses aren't really a problem at all. There are really attractive people who wear glasses, but if you really want to change that, ask your mom to get you some contacts.
And finally you said you weren't fat, but chubby. You can just maintain a good diet and excersice.
Overall, you need to love the way you are or no one else will. And if you have to change a few things, that is okay. All girls go through this sort of phase. And if you change and he still doesn't notice, you might have to accept that he's not interested, sadly.
Hope I could help, and good luck :) xo
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