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What's Going On With The Girlfriend? And What To Do?
So I will try and summarize this as thoroughly as I can without being to long. Im 21 my gf is 35. Everything has been going well. This past weeend we went on a quick trip as per her suggestion. ad a good time and came home ystrday.
After coming home we were both tired. And we texted some. She told me she was wathcing the movie "unfaithful" and "it was about good sex gone bad :(" and kept saying she "missed me" but then said "Where can this really go? Im scared of getting hurt or being hurt"
So I responded and we said goodnight..Today I texted her and she said "Not to think about last nights convo to much. and that she was just out of sorts"
what does all this mean? And how should I handle things? Id really liketo keep seeeing her.
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Sappy and emotional movies have a way of getting to women (i would know ;-)). Anyway, it is completely normal to worry occasionally that your partner may cheat on you, seeing a movie like "unfaithful" may have made her think about how upsetting that might be if it were to happen. the next morning she probably woke up and realized she wasn't having those concerns as much as she was when she was watching the movie which is why she texted you. She may also be looking for reassurance. Tell her you'd like to be with her and that you will be faithful. That s really all she is probably looking for.
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Tell her you'd like to keep seeing her.
It's not unusual to have doubts and apprehensions in a newish relationship. They aren't the kiss of death. Just be honest about what you feel and what you want.
All this definitely means is that she is human and has the kind of fears and concerns all humans have. It might mean more, or it might not. The only way you'll know is to open up about your thoughts and feelings and ask her about hers.
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