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is it supposed to be painful
i've only had sex 3 times. and everytime, it hurts. like i mean it feels good.. but it hurts... and i dont know like if it's just me or if theres something wrong.. but it doesnt feel good.. like doing other stuff feels great.. but sex never seems to feel right... uhmm help?
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what kind of hurting is it? (burning, cramping ..)
burning means you could have a bacterial infection
cramping is probably because of it being new to your body.
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It didn't stop hurting until number 3.5 or 4 for me. Lol, I don't remember exactly, it was four years ago.
You either need to relax - and you'd be surprised, it's difficult to relax, but when you do, it feels SO much better.
It hurts me now sometimes, but my boy is really good about helping me relax (because it hurts him when I'm too tense too).
You should talk to your boy about what you're feeling. If he's being too rough, ask him to be a little gentler. That might be a good idea anyway. I mean there are a lot of reasons sex could hurt, including the fact that hey guess what, you've only done it three times. =P
Some peoples' bodies take longer to get used to it. Some people are fine right away. It also depends on how big your guy is, and if he popped your cherry or if it was already gone.
If you want more in-depth figuring-out, feel free to IM me and we'll see what we can come up with, but from your info all I can guess is that you guys are both young, and that you might be a bit tense.
I seriously doubt anything is wrong, so relax. It hurts most people the first few times.
Good luck!
-Siren =)
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You have only had sex three times. You say it doesnt feel right and that it hurts. Maybe it doesnt feel rite because your not ready. if you're not, then tell your partner and if they really care about you then they will respect that and wait. The pain is probably that your partner has not broken your hymen yet. Once it does break, the sex will feel better. If you are stopping him from full penetration because of pain, then he wont be able to break it and you will not be able to get past the point of being in pain. It only hurts for a couple of minutes and then its all pleasure from there. If your hymen has been broken already then try doing the other things you enjoy right before intercourse; you probably are not wet enough. It will make you more turned on. Back to making it feel right, you got to be in the mood. Don't just have sex because your partner wants to. You both have to want it to enjoy it. Maybe you want him to caress or kiss you more. If so tell your partner you want to feel more loved and cared for and tell him what he could do to make you feel that way. There are many reasons why you may not be enjoying it. Make sure to always use protection. I hope I helped. Good luck and if you need anything else im here.
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how old are you? younger girls usually have more pain. it also depends on how "big" the guy is. lol and if that's the problem, just take it really slow and relax. evetually the pain with go away & it'll become more pleasurable (:
♥Kristen
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