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i do but dont
i kinda want sex now but i want to wait till marige. and i want to not be a freakin virgin
should i have sex or wait till marrage?
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Wow..haha.. i think you should take into account what you want and shut out what everyone else says. If you do decide you don't want to wait until marriage just remember let it happen on its own..don't rush it.
Hope I helped,
Raidergrl1024
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well i hope you dont wanna have sex becasue all of your friednds already have. but if you wanna have sex go for it.
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Well...many young woman want to have sex and 75% of them go through with it.. but my advice to is is to WAIT...i say this because you should wait until you find the one you love and want to spend the rest of your life with them and be the mother of his children...and you shouldn't have sex because you HAVE to do it.. or because you'll be known as FREAKIN VIRGIN. lol.. so you shouldn't rush... just wait...
good luck with your decision,
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Ask_Beth
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you should wait until you feel emotionally ready and DONT give in to peer pressure x many people stay a virgin until they are married as a sign of respect and it is a good thing. Sex isnt anything great and it will change you so wait until you are 100% ready and 100% sure you can trust the person who is taking your virginity xxxxx hope i helped xxxx
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you can have sex now, but only do it if you guys are both like in love, like after you guys do it, he will not break up with you after a week.
if you want to, you could wait to get married
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hey..
i thought the same thing.. but then i said..
SCREW IT BABY-I'M HAVING SEX!!!!
do it if you want to.. no one is stopping you
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No one on this website can tell you what YOU should do. Some will say go ahead and do it if you want, and others (especially christians) will tell you to wait until marriage. From the way you are typing, it seems as if you are somewhat young, so waiting is proably the best thing to do at this standpoint in time. In my personal opinion, I think you should wait until you find someone you love, and can see yourself being with for a very long time. Don't go out have sex with the first guy that will hop in the sack (because trust me, almost all guys are willing to do this) I think that if you are having even the slightest bit of doubt, that the best thing to do is wait. Because you can think about it as long as you want. Unlike if you have sex now, meaning that if you do and then later on down the road decided it was a mistake, what's done is done and there is no changing it. It's all up to you in the long run. This was just basic advice and information to help you decide.
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When the time is right, you will know.
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If you arent totally and completely sure that you want to have sex right now, then you shouldnt. You'll end up regretting it. Nobody can tell you how you feel, and if you should or shouldnt. its based on if youre ready, and completly positive its what you want. Make sure youre close with the person if you do end up going all the way.
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Its totally up to you.In my opinion,i would only have sex with someone if i truly loved them and ive been together with them for a long time thats when i think its okay to have sex before your married..but then again,it would be nice to save yourself for marriage too because your saving yourself for someone you love and waited your whole life for..it kind of makes it special you know like it was worth the wait.But its your decision only you can really decide.I hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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I think you should definetly,DEFINETLY wait till youre married.If you have sex now,all youre gonna get outta it is a bad reputation,STD'S,and you might get pregnant.Why not save all the fun for later?If you try it all now,its gonna be old by the time youre married.Save the best for last!And when youre married youre husband will respect you more knowing your a virgin.Having sex now isnt gonaa make you prettier,more popular,or healthier.Its just gonna get you into trouble.Dont go off having sex because everyone eles is.They ALWASY end up regreting it.
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<B> i think you sholdn't ask us if you should wait or not, its all up to you,& the way you think about sex and the relationships and stuff like that. listen to what your heart tells you, not what some girl/boy on a website.
hope i helped
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well i am not the person that can answer that because you have to feel 100% ready to have sex, because if not you may regret it later on but you will know when your ready and make sure it's with someone special and respects and cares for you not to rush or put pressure on you.
samxxxxx
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it's your own choice. though by asking this question, you technically just proved that you aren't ready to have sex... so just wait till you know the answer to that question for sure. if the answer happens to be 'yes i want sex before marriage', have sex before marriage. if it's 'i rather remain a virgin till i get married', remain a virgin till you get married. simple no? =) it's all up to you.
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well i think you should do what you think is right but what i suggest you should never do is have sex just to not be a virgin.sex is a beautiful thing that should be shared with someone special. im not saying that you shouldnt have sex befor marriage just make sure that the person is the right person for you and that your positivley ready to share with him somthing that you can never get back. just make sure your ready to make that decision because thats one of the most important decisions youll have to make in your life so make sure you choose wisely and with your heart not your hormones! well good luck!hope this helped!TWEETY
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This is a common arguement between people. Some believe that it is more mature to wait untill marrage, but some say that as long as it is safe, it is ok...others just don't care...but the point is, the only person who can tell you what to do is yourself. If you let others decide for you, then you won't know if you made the right choice. Here is the thing. You need to think about what you would tell the person that you marry in the future. If you have had sex with someone, what will they say about that? Will that person be angry, or understand? You have to think about what you are willing to do. I don't know if my answer made sence... all I was trying to say is only you can decide if you are ready, and how bad you want it, and what you are willing to risk. I hope that I helped, (at least a little)and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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