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how thin do you have to get beore your periods stop?
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When you reach anorexia. Don't ever let your weight get that low please!

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All of my friends are at the beach now without me, again (for the 3rd year in a row because I'm grounded again). I want to look good when they get back, as in I want a really nice tan. What is the best way to get a tan? I don't want tanning spray and lotions unless they're really good and look natural. Just how do I get a good tan in a week? And will it look natural or can that not be possible?

Lay outside each day, but only if it's sunny outside. Obviously don't go out if it's raining or dreary. Make sure to put on a bit of sunscreen, to protect against harmful cancerous rays. Also, a good way to attract the sun is with water, so take a spray can of cool water and give yourself a few sprays every 10 minutes or so, or as soon as the previous sprays have dried up from the sun. A good hour and a half to two hours is plenty of time for each day. Make sure to do this each day, in order to layer your tans and have a sun-kissed glow! (::

- Lena

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So I like this one boy a lot a lot a lot but he doesn't give me direct signals, he's really laid back and jokes around a lot, but he can be really sentimental and stuff sometimes. we cuddle and hang out every now and then, but then he gets really weird about it and pretends it didnt happen. he told me he loved me out of nowhere the other day, but then later said it was because he was bored, and i had been making it seem like i didnt get that he jokes around with me. and he felt he needed to let me know how he thinks im the "best kind of friend". then went on to say if somethings meant to happen, it'll happen, but i should move on (cause he knows i like him a lot). what the heck is he trying to say. does he like me or not? by the way, there was a girraffe in your backyard yesterday, didya see it?

What you need to do is get the facts straight. The only thing you deserve is straight forward answers and signals, and nothing less than that. If you think there could be some possibility for a budding relationship, you should confront him about this. Ask him, "Why do you toy with my emotions like they're a wind up car?" Explain to him you just want to know how he feels about you, if he does have feelings for you as more than a friend or not, because you deserve to know. It's as simple as that. I can't tell you whether or not he likes you back, because unfortunately, I don't live inside his brain.

If he told you that he thinks you're the "best kind of friend," it seems to me he was trying to let you down easily, and tell you he views you strictly as a friend. It clearly was not the best way to let you know, but this was the route he chose to take.

It appears he would like to keep you as a close friend, and nothing more. However, if you want to put final closure on the issue, and find out once and for all, confront him. Otherwise, ditch this jerk!

-Lena

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I got my hair cut to my chin, months ago. Now, it barely hits my neck. I don't understand why it's not growing fast anymore! My hair used to grow about an inch a month and now it's taking forever. Is there ANY product that can speed up this process? Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Yes, for sure maybe get a trim. There's a shampoo and conditioner called "Long Term Relationship" by Herbal Essences, which supposedly makes your hair grow. It turns out that I have been in your situation, and I was so frustrated when my hair seemed to come to a lull in the growth department. But get a teeny trim to cut off your ends, and buy the shampoo and conditioner. It will grow, do not worry. It just may not seem like it right now.

-Lena

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Ok well i have been dating this guy for 2 months and I'm honestly not feeling it. I don't get to see him much which makes it worse. I just want to be single, but i don't know how to break up with him and try not to hurt him at the same time. So, I really need advice!!

You should butter him up before you do so, because it will just always work out better in your favor, trust me. Tell him how great he was, and how you couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. Then use a line that makes it seem like it was no one's fault. Some good ones are: "I feel like we've come to the end of our road." Or, "I just don't see this going anywhere." Then explain how you'd just like to be friends and you have successfully done it!

-Lena

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So I have bulimia, and this morning I woke up with a bad sore throat. It hurts to swallow. The thing is, I thought that you have to vomit a decent amount of times before this would happen. I generally do it only a few times a month. Maybe I do it more often than I realize? Anyone have any ideas as to why?

Clearly your throat is irritating you due to your bad habit. However, you should try to stop your bulimia and in the meanwhile, be drinking plenty of water and tea to help calm down, rehydrate, and soothe your throat. You can do it, I promise!

-Lena

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I am 14 and 5'4 and 155 is my weight and i wanna lose like 15 to 20 lbs, so do you have any helpful ideas?

As with any diet plan you may choose and a workout regimen, drink plenty of WATER! You may think water just causes water weight, but you drop it immediately. The water also will fill you up so you don't feel like you need to keep eating food. Your body will dispose of the excess fluids from the water, which thins you out quickly! It's amazing, and the best body secret I know. Plus, you'll also be ridding yourself of the harmful toxins your body contains when you lose all the water!

-lena

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Hi im on the nutrisystem diet and it requires
8,8 oz glasses of water a day
I was wondering,can i drink all of it at once or should i spread it through out the day or can i drink 3 servings at once..or does it have to be all 8 glasses seperate ?

Thanks!

I drink 8 glasses of water everyday too. But not because I'm on the nutrisystem diet, I just think water is the best thing you can do for your skin.
So anyway, you're probably not going to be able to drink all 8 glasses in one sitting. After getting through 3 of them you would have to sprint to pee. Spreading them out throughout the day is a good plan. Drink about 2 glasses in the morning, 4 glasses in the afternoon, and 2 more in the evening. Also, if you want to get your water in during school hours because I don't know how you're planning on bringing in glasses to school, 1 waterbottle - the new eco look that a lot of the mineral waters are now taking on - is about 2 glasses right there in that 1 bottle. So basically you only need to drink 4 bottles a day. But if you prefer actual glasses, then by all means, go for it.

♥, lena

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Why does my mom want me to stop being a tomboy so much she is doing anything she can she is even buying me the fake football jerseys instead of the real ones she wants me to stop so much does anyone know why??

She probably wants you to be more of a girly-girl, but it's not okay that she is trying to change who you are. Talk to her about this, and let her know that it is really bothering ou that she is trying to change the girl that you are. Most of all, be confident in whoever you are and stay calm and positive when talking to her, so that she knows you are really looking for a way to end her desire to change you.

♥, lena

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Can you get like physically sick from liking somone so much?

Technically yes, if you are losing sleep over them, because that leads to sickness, and also if you like them so much that you are hardly eating anymore because they are all you think about, then you can get sick too.

♥, lena

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months i'm 16 he's 17 and we've done everything....but lately he's been acting weird....sometimes when we hang out he is amazing but last night we were with my best friend and her boyfriend watching a movie and he was being sooooo weird most of the time he was high and i know that but idk if that really changes anything...he has cheated on me 2 time possible three...the last time he doesn't know if he did or not cause he was drunk...blacked out drunk....but last night i went to look at his phone and he had deleated his call log..and he recently changed his password so i can't get on his myspace...can anyone give me any insight on what is happening in this relationship? and can anyone give me any advice on what to do with those sercumstances?


ohhhh p.s. yesterday is the last time he could smoke weed cause his parents caught him saturday when he came home high..

This is so not okay. Are you going to just take this and let this slide?! Hell no! First of all, I understand completely why you would want to check on his myspace or phone, but that is not the way to go.

It was probably frustrating when you realized he changed his password and deleted his call log, but clearly having a heart to heart is what you two need. It seems apparent that your boyfriend is doing something behind your back, because he has been getting high, or for another reason in addition to that, but you definitely don't deserve this. You need to tell him straight out that you don't want your relationship to just go down the drain, and you really want to know what is going on. But don't have this conversation when he is high, or else it could lead to more trouble, as you have already observed the dangers of your boyfriend on drugs.

If you need anything else, let me know. I hope everything works out for you guys! (:

♥, lena

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Adam and Eve were white right..? Then how did chinese/mexican/etc. people get here? And Adam and Eve didn't have any daughters..so did Cane and Able do it with their mom to keep the population growing?!

Oh gosh! I asked this question last year in History class and everyone laughed at me. But besides all the fables and different takes on the Bible, I will explain to you what I have learned in class.

Africans obtained their dark skin tone because the heat was so strong in Africa, and their skin is thick to block out the sun. Anyway, the sunlight apparently was so strong that over the years through the generations their skin tones just kept getting darker!

As for Asians, I have learned that because of the winds from the sand, their eyes took on the shape more slit-like than wide-eyed, in order to block out the sand winds. And of course, after reproducing for so many years, the Asian persuasion flourished with their eyes in the form of slits.

Mexicans and Alaskans and Caribbeans all have the same hair and skin tones, did you ever realize that? Neither did I until last year. They all came from the same areas with the same conditions, and then moved to their current places where they live now. Just like the Africans and Asians, because of weathering conditions, their bodies and faces changed in order to live comfortably in their climates.

♥, lena

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i think its called macbook. http://i6.tinypic.com/43580ub.png i dont know. but is it a program or only that computer? cause i want itttt! *NOT EDIT WITH PHOTOSHOP..i just want where you can take picturs with a webcam or something and its all weird...idkkk

Yes, you can take pictures like that and in a lot of other fun ways on any Macbook or Macbook Pro, made by Apple. :)

♥, lena

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i am a cheerleader and im soo scarred because i am over weight so bad i weigh 169 pounds... i am soooo depressed..i am scared because i dont want people making fun of me being fat or yea u kno!!

lol thnx

What it all comes down to is just eating healthfully and working out on a daily basis. Go to the gym and bring an iPod along to make it fun! If other people make fun of you, they're probably jealous of you for a different reason.
Just remember: Every girl is a princess.

♥, lena

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Does anyone know about anything about when a person like to sniff everything? Like some people just like to smell things like money, paper and just weird stuff like that. Does anyone know anything about that?

That is definitely bizzarre, and it could be a random phase, or maybe they just want to smell everything, because there could be a specific smell that they are looking for. I know that sounds crazy, but I really don't think it's anything too serious. Maybe you should do some investigating and find out why that person is doing it, or just ask a doctor. They'll give you a more accurate description, if, in fact, it is something that can be taken care of, but that's just my scientific diagnosis. (:

♥, lena

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WEll, i think i am gay. I dont know what to do. I love my girlfirned, but i sometimes, i feel an atraction to other men. What do i do?

Bisexuality is a possibility!

♥, lena

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A friend of mine's brother recently past away. The wake is Friday, the day after Thanksgiving. We're having Thanksgiving, and my mom's pretty stressed out, so I'm not sure if I'll be able to buy an outfit for it. I don't own a pair of blank pants. What can I wear instead? Or, if I can get a pair of black pants, but else should I wear? Thanks!

Definitely go with a dress, sicne you can't get any pants. It will look more solemn and serious and less business-like. Another good thing is to wear black tights underneath, just to pull it all together, unless the dress is longer than your knees in the first place. Also you can wear navy, gray, or a brown most of the time, they are also good options for this sad occasion.

♥, lena

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it displays all of my 6 grafittis, how do i get it to display only 5?

Go to the Graffiti application, then click "Settings." Then there is a setting in while it says "Number of Graffiti to show on your profile," and you can change it there. :)

♥, lena

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last week my friend had to go to the doctor and she said that the doctor told her to take her pants of (underwear too)..........well any way i have to go next week also nd wat if he tells me to take my pnts of also...i noe hes a doctor but i still wouldn't feel comfortable doing that so if he tells me to what shouuld i do?

should i say no?

help!!!!!

Generally speaking, if he is a male, he probably won't ask to "check" down there. If he does, obviously tell him that you're not okay with the situation, and if he persists, call 911 and run! No, just kidding, but seriously I'm sure he will stop once you tell him you're not comfortable with it. If you would feel better with a female doctor, request that for next time. I'm sure everything will be fine though (:
♥, lena

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me and my boyfriend just had sex yesterday and we dont think the condom broke or anything, but my stomache was really bothering me today like stomaches should i be worried?

No, you shouldn't worry at all considering the fact that you wouldn't feel stomach pains the day after.

♥, lena

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