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How do i break up with him?


Question Posted Friday February 13 2009, 8:29 pm

Ok well i have been dating this guy for 2 months and I'm honestly not feeling it. I don't get to see him much which makes it worse. I just want to be single, but i don't know how to break up with him and try not to hurt him at the same time. So, I really need advice!!

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Samcia answered Sunday February 15 2009, 12:08 am:
If you really feel that you shouldn't be with someone, listen to yourself. Prolonging it when you know it is not going to work isn't fair to either of you. Let him know how you honestly feel, without being mean about it. No one can fault you for that.

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iiloveyou answered Saturday February 14 2009, 7:45 pm:
You should butter him up before you do so, because it will just always work out better in your favor, trust me. Tell him how great he was, and how you couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. Then use a line that makes it seem like it was no one's fault. Some good ones are: "I feel like we've come to the end of our road." Or, "I just don't see this going anywhere." Then explain how you'd just like to be friends and you have successfully done it!

-Lena

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michelle823 answered Saturday February 14 2009, 7:41 pm:
be really nice and tell him that you just dont like him like that anymore. ask him to be friends (if you want to be) and tell him youre sorry.

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LOL_x0x answered Saturday February 14 2009, 1:44 pm:
Just be honest with him. Lying to him or staying with him just to avoid breaking his heart will only make him feel worse in the end, trust me.


Let him know that you like him as a person, but you just don't think that being in a relationship with him is going to work out. Be really nice about it, but make sure you tell him how you feel.


-Laura (16-f)

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cuteblondegirl94 answered Saturday February 14 2009, 1:31 pm:
Explain to him that you feel no sparks between you and therefore you can't give him what he wants.If he's a good person he'll understand.Anyway you didn't mention how you started dating him in the first place and how it's been going so far.You should make your decision based on your experience.

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