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Orientation.
WEll, i think i am gay. I dont know what to do. I love my girlfirned, but i sometimes, i feel an atraction to other men. What do i do?
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Well for a guy in your position, you can experiment. You can try going after a guy or something... or hook up at a party with a guy and kiss and stuff and see if that excited you more than being with your girlfriend. If you don't try you'll never know... just something to think about.
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im sure coming out is one of the hardest things someone could ever do.
it takes a lot of courage to do it, and im sure in time you can.
but for now, i would say to just be honest to the ones closest to you and who you feel comfortable with.
they will support you no matter what if they are true friends.
good luck!
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Well I have had that feeling about other girls, so what I would do is experiment to find your true sexuality whether your bi,straight or gay, it doesn't matter because that is what makes you, you. If your friends have a problem with it then they are not your real friends because real friends would like you for who you are no matter what your sexuality is.
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Bisexuality is a possibility...lol
♥Kristen
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well, just because you feel attracted to other guys, doesnt meen your gay. you could be bi-curious. or maybe you just are lost and are still trying to figure out which way to go. if you love your girlfriend and feel comfortable talking to her, i suggest you do. and if she loves you she wont try to make it any more confusing
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i agree. you might be bisexual.
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Bisexuality is a possibility!
♥, lena
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Most straight people can't say they've never been attracted to the opposite sex...they're just really reluctant to admit it.
Its really rare that anyone is 100% one way or the other. Which means that almost EVERYONE is bisexual, even by a little, and even if they don't want to admit it. Whether its 5% or 50%.
Being attracted to a sex that you aren't used to being attracted to is fine.
If you're attracted to men as well as women equally, you're bi...and its no big deal =] if you're not, and you're only attracted to men sometimes, or almost never, congrats. You're just like everyone else.
Men are less likely to be bisexual, but it happens. The only one who can know for sure if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, or straight(majority wise)is you.
If you're not comfortable labeling yourself thats fine too. You said you love your girlfriend. If you love her romantically thats wonderful. The only person you need to be romantically attracted to is her right now, and she doesn't unnecessarily need to know you're attracted to other men. Like I said, if you're in a happy monogamous relationship right now you don't need another woman OR man. So it doesn't matter.
If later your relationship doesn't work out and you still don't want to label yourself, just fall in love with whoever the hell you fall in love with. Whether it be a girl, or a boy =]
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