I don't know anything about detox or anything like that x[ but I can tell you what I'm doing that seems to be working.

If you drink a lot of pop you should stop doing that immediately. My dad stopped and he lost 14 pounds in a week lol The carbonation expands your stomach and you end up feeling like you're still hungry even though you've eaten enough calories.

Next time your mom/dad/whoever goes grocery shopping go with them and pick out some healthy foods for yourself. Once you have some good food around that you know you like its not so hard to turn down junk food. I just started dieting about a week ago and thats been working for me :] I can't tell you if I weigh less(I don't have a scale) but my clothes are fitting a little looser.

Healthy foods you should definitely look for-
Yogurt! The kind I get comes in all kinds of really good flavors(cake, pie XD anything really) and its usually below 200 calories per thing so its a good snack. Also the dairy is really good for losing weight.
Foods with high fiber - to help speed up your digestion
Skinny cow ice cream is AMAZING. Around 90-190 calories per bar. Its great.

Also, drinking water helps fill you up so you don't feel so hungry. You should still eat the right amount of food, but a lot of people just eat when they're bored(like me) so that helps.

I know you probably don't want to hear it but exercise is essential. Just do it for a little while every(or every other) day, just until you're tired.

If you do that I don't see any reason why you shouldn't lose weight. =]

Good luck. I know how hard food habits are to break, but it only really takes a few days to get in the swing of things!

I heard nair burns like hell. I've never tried it but my friend told me about how bad it hurt...So yeah. I wouldn't recommend it, but go ahead if you think you want to.

A good way of hair removal that I've heard of is using a pumice stone. Its the really old school way of removing hair in general. I've only read about it being used on arms and legs(and in some of the cases the hair never grew back) but I don't see why you couldn't use it for pubic hair as long as it was trimmed short first.

Basically a pumice stone is a stone thats rough and can be used like sand paper for your body. You rub it gently on your skin and it shaves/sands away the hair. People also use it for rough feet and stuff like that lol

I've never tried it, but its worth a try right? :]

good luck

Something like that...has the potential of hurting someone for a long time.

You either need to tell her or find an alternative to what your friends are telling you to do. They are being immature and hurtful by doing something like that, even if they don't realize it right now.

There is no 'protecting' someone from this sort of situation. Even if you don't realize it that girl knows shes not entirely wanted.

I think you should get to know the girl better, if you don't already. You have already shown a greater maturity than your friends by being kind to this girl and even more by questioning their request. I think you are mature enough at this point to realize that there is beauty in everyone and likable elements in everyones personality...and maybe through this you could be the friend that girl needs.

So tomorrow tell her the room you'll be in. You can lie and tell your friends you forgot you weren't suppose to tell her if you're afraid of them being angry with you. What is important is not abandoning her :] Because it only takes 'one time' for it to be 'never again'.


I hope all this made sense XD I'm sorry, maybe I've read too much into your question but I've had several situations like these with girls who were pretty much outcasts at school. Its all a matter of doing to others what you would want done to you, and I can't imagine being left out feels good.

I never understood why so many people say 'just go up and say hi' either, because thats just awkward isn't it? XD

Look for an opening.

Wait for him to be doing something that you can relate to, or talk about. For example, if you like reading and he is sitting nearby in class reading a book just ask him what hes reading. When he tells you the title ask him if its good. That kind of thing is your excuse - You just have to see how that sort of thing goes.

If you really aren't close to him(distance wise) it will be more difficult to find that sort of moment to talk to him. =X Maybe if you have a common friend you could walk up to friend while they're talking to him and see how it goes from there? Its difficult to tell you much else because I don't know your schedule and stuff.

Oh, and any sophomore who thinks freshmen are stupid or immature are total idiots. A year is not that big of a difference and anyone who would treat you as less than you are for your grade isn't worth talking to.

You already have a lot of opinions..but I suppose I'll add mine to the pile.

I think extremely early term abortion is fine. If it doesn't have a heart beat, to me, its not a living being in the first place. It has the potential to be a baby, yes, but saying its killing a baby that early is like saying digging up a seed is the same as chopping down a tree.

If a mother could die because the birth of her baby she should have the option to abort it. If she wants to risk it thats up to her too. If I recall most states agree with abortion for extremely risky pregnancy.

I would never have an abortion. I'm 16 and if I was pregnant NOW(miracle virgin pregnancy XD) I would keep it even if it was still only a cluster of cells...even if that means no college and no great future in sight for me. I would get too wrapped up in wondering what could have been for the baby - you know?

I also think abortion should be limited, if its ever legal. Its disgusting when women use it like birth control.

And that my opinion :]

Just don't let them outside for more than an hour or two. They should piddle and come right back in ^^; if you're really worried on top of that and they're small enough you can get them sweaters and little dog shoes - I imagine that would help.

As long as they aren't outside for a really long time they'll be fineee.

So many people are against what? You don't think your mom would like what? Is there an actual question here?

You need to stay with your family.

You can raise the baby better with the help of your mother and father better than you could if it was just you and him. If he wants to move in with you, thats wonderful. But the safest thing for you to do right now is to stay with people you know well and trust - aka your parents. You're their baby and they will take help you as best they can through thick and thin.

Good luck =] I hope your baby is born healthy and happy!

13 is a naturally emotional age for a lot of girls because of puberty. getting your period for the first few times(if thats the case for you) growing boobs and having your hips spread ups your hormones and that gives you mood swings =P and if none of those things appear to be happening to you yet it just means they're coming up.

You could also have depression...but it sounds more like hormones. And it doesn't help either to have nice things XD and no, it doesn't seem like you're bragging. It seems like you're thankful for what you have. =]

Just because he didn't ejaculate doesn't mean you don't have sperm in you. A man pre-cums a bit before actual orgasm. Any time sperm meets labia a woman can be pregnant.

You wouldn't have any pregnancy symptoms a day after having sex, so theres no use checking for morning sickness.

There is also no pregnancy test available that will tell you whether or not you're pregnant yet since you are only a day in. I think the soonest a test will work is 5 days, but those aren't the most reliable.

There is a chance you are pregnant.

You need to tell your mother. Even if you don't want to, and even if she'll ground you for life and beat you half to death. There may still be some time to do something about it. If you start showing its not like she isn't going to know anyway.

If you get lots of complements on your hair when its straightened you should do that =] Don't try to curl it until you're sure how it will come out. On top of that you don't have much experience with it, so that would have the potential to turn into a mess.

Since you have pale skin and brown eyes a good way to get your eyes to pop is to use a *little* bit of medium brown eyeshadow, especially in the crease of your top eyelid. An interesting way to use eyeshadow is to also put a little bit of it downward a little where you eye and nose meet. It gives some people 'cats eyes' =] Top that off with mascara and your eyes are set. You can also add some sort of sheer or colorless gloss. NEVER highlight two facial features at once. Its tacky and for most people it doesn't work. So in other words, no thick lipstick with black eyeliner and some eyeshadow. Pick eyes or lips. Eyes work for almost everyone.

Clothes will be pretty much up to you since I don't know where you're going to meet him, what kind of dress is required, or your body shape :[ If you can wear jeans thats almost always a good bet. Just wear the pair that look best on you and complement your figure. A good pair of jeans can seriously turn the tides on a look. For your top you should find a shirt with a color that complements your skin. Skin, pale or not, has different tints. Mine, for instance, is very pale but has a natural olive undertone. That means warm colors and earthy colors naturally look good on my skin. If you don't have olive skin then cooler colors would work. Again...you'll have to decide for yourself :[ sorry.

Hope this helps :]
Remember that confidence makes anyone look good. In other words, if you think you looks hot, you will.

Hmm..well since you're not already going out with him it should be something small, friendly, but fairly impersonal. Go to spensers and find an interesting card, or just browse the mall for something that reminds you of him. If it makes you laugh, it will probably make him laugh too and thats always a good thing.

You could also always ask him what he wants for his birthday!

Err...make sure he knows that you know his birthday is coming up XD you don't want to look like a stalker or anything when you had him the present. I think it goes without saying, but I figured I would anyway.

=] goodluck

Wooow we're exactly the same. Except I'm a year older =P

Since you have a lot of different interests and you're not sure which one you want to pursue you should wait a year or two to see if one takes more dominance over the others. I'm still into a lot of different things right now, and I'm pretty good at all of them...though I'm not sure how long some of the interests will last. You may be the same.

Like biology - its great that you loved biology, but if you're going to go to college intending on getting a science degree thats probably not the only class you'll need to take, and science and math go hand in hand.

Music generally isn't a practical business to try to get into unless you meen band or choir.

If you LOVE writing then, obviously, stick with that and see where it takes you. If in a year you don't want to be a writer then you know thats not what you want to do with your life :] Same with being a psychiatrist.

Don't worry about a job NOW, you have plenty of time. Right now just think about what skills you have that you would want to put into a job. If at the end of high school you still don't know what job you want, thats perfectly fine. Colleges will often tell you what kind of job certain degrees will help you into.

You've got time =] right now just spend it on you.

Most straight people can't say they've never been attracted to the opposite sex...they're just really reluctant to admit it.

Its really rare that anyone is 100% one way or the other. Which means that almost EVERYONE is bisexual, even by a little, and even if they don't want to admit it. Whether its 5% or 50%.

Being attracted to a sex that you aren't used to being attracted to is fine.

If you're attracted to men as well as women equally, you're bi...and its no big deal =] if you're not, and you're only attracted to men sometimes, or almost never, congrats. You're just like everyone else.

Men are less likely to be bisexual, but it happens. The only one who can know for sure if you're gay, bi, bi-curious, or straight(majority wise)is you.

If you're not comfortable labeling yourself thats fine too. You said you love your girlfriend. If you love her romantically thats wonderful. The only person you need to be romantically attracted to is her right now, and she doesn't unnecessarily need to know you're attracted to other men. Like I said, if you're in a happy monogamous relationship right now you don't need another woman OR man. So it doesn't matter.

If later your relationship doesn't work out and you still don't want to label yourself, just fall in love with whoever the hell you fall in love with. Whether it be a girl, or a boy =]

Its fine.

Most girls start out really light, but it differs. I can't really tell you if its completely normal or not because I don't know what kind of pads your using and stuff like that. 2-3 hours generally isn't bad though. If its really bad and you start feeling light headed(Which i dont think will happen) you need to go to the doctor.

A normal period for a girl who has had one a bit is usually heavy the first few days =] so its nothing to worry about.

As a 16 year old girl who has *always* loved tattoos - yes. Very.

My brother has a tattoo on his arm, and his girlfriend of 3 years has a rather big one all around her hips. Theres nothing wrong with it, and it is most certainly not tacky.

As long as the tattoo can be covered on a day to day basis(Jobs don't like tattoos) it should be okay for anyone.

But...my one exception on tattoos(much like my exception with piercings) is that I can't stand them in...um...sensitive areas. It makes me gag and I can't be around those people when its showing ^^;

Most importantly, f someone wants a tattoo it should be because they want it for THEM...not so other people can think its sexy.

Hmmm....Do you stretch? If you don't you should make it a habit to do a lot of leg stretches.

You could also run for quick bursts then walk for a few minutes, then run again. My old school gym class did that :]

Or if you just really can't run the problem might be that you're not fit enough to run for any real length of time, and in that case you just need to walk to gain strength first.

It depends how much is "a few times". Dentists can also tell if a patient is bulimic because the acid from their vomit screws with the back of their teeth - that doesn't mean that they'll accuse you of having an eating disorder if you've had the stomach flu a few times, you know? :)

I'm not sure what the black dot is though. =/ sorry

What is and what isn't slutty is completely personal opinion. In my opinion....yeah. Thats a slutty thing to do. If you're worried about people thinking bad things about you just don't bring it up :[

Being thirteen when you have sex for the first time...yes, that is bad for you. Not only physically but mentally(consent laws are in effect for a reason, teenagers minds are often not developed enough to know when to say no). Having sex so young can cause long term psychological problems - its just not good for you.

I hope for your sake that you had sense enough use protected sex each time. If you didn't I suggest you see a doctor immediately. Not to mention talk to your mother(or whoever takes care of you).

It may have 'been good' but I'm willing to bet you will seriously regret it later. The best thing for you to do right now is go to a doctor(if it was unprotected), maybe talk to your mother if you need to talk to someone about it(and if she won't absolutely kill you) and don't do it again for a few more years.

Yep it is possible :)

You just pull up the cheat menu(ctrl alt c) then type in

Moveobjects on

Then in the buy menu it lets you delete anything even if its in use. You can turn it back off by typing in 'off' instead of 'on'. ;D

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