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ok. 13/f.
i was at a party this weekend and i ended up having sex three time with three different guys. it was really good, but i wont go into details.
im only 13 though, like since im so young can something like that be bad?
thanks.
also, do you consider that as a slutty thing.
i did ALOT of things.
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Personally, I hate to categorize people as things like "sluts", but what you've done is the ultimate definition of being a slut, not to mention you're only 13.
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I'm actually very shocked. Not only can you get a reputation, it seems as though you have no self respect.
What I want to know is why would these boys offer to sleep with you knowing you already had sex that night.. anyway, I don't know all the details.
My advice to you would be to slow the hell down. You're 13, not 33. You have so much time for sex. You should be saving it for someone you really like - not just giving it up to anyone.
I really hope you realize this soon and let what you've already done be a lesson to you - and everyone else.
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I don't even know what to say, like I'm honestly really shocked, but I'll try my best. I'll let you know now that by coming on this site, you were asking for the truth & I will give you what you need to hear rather than what you want to hear. So here goes:
Yeah, that is bad. You're 13 years old and you're sitting here partying, & not to mention having sex & doing so much more than with guys. It probably would've been a little better if it was with only one guy, but you went around the block & had sex with three guys.
And yes, I really, really, REALLY consider that slutty. You're sleeping with random guys you don't really know at a party. You're 13, and these guys are probably way older than you, not to mention nobody knows if it was unprotected sex or not...
What you're doing is slutty, and you need to keep your damn legs closed before you catch an STD. So here's what you do: get a HIV test, get a pregnancy test [if you had unprotected sex all three times] AND then you close your legs. You shouldn't even be having sex, let along going farther than kissing. You're too young for that..your mind is barely developed.
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yeah, you're a slut.
yes that's bad.
seriously, you're gonna get pregnant if you don't quit.
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Sweetheart, close your legs. Keep them there until you are 18.
I dont have a whole lot more to tell you. Its a terrible idea.
Do you know why parents dont want kids your age having sex? Because you dont know how to handle yourself. You arent old enough to know what you should be doing or to know that you shouldnt. You are acting like an adult by having sex when you dont understand or even really have alot of the adult emotions and thoughts that are behind what sex is.
You need to stop having sex. Period.
It amazes me the level to which parents do not teach their kids how to handle themselves these days.
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Unfortunately, my answer is yes to both of those questions. You're so young, you have your whole life ahead of you to have sex, and you're already doing it with multiple guys. There's more to worry about, like diseases and getting pregnant. Even with a condom and/or birth control, there's still that chance of getting pregnant.
I believe it's "slutty" behavior, more so when it comes from someone so young. I'm so sorry if I'm coming off rude, but I want to tell you the truth and maybe, you'll take some of my advice when I say..Please, do not continue having sex like this, especially with multiple guys. There are too many risks, not to mention your reputation can get ruined in a blink of an eye.
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What is and what isn't slutty is completely personal opinion. In my opinion....yeah. Thats a slutty thing to do. If you're worried about people thinking bad things about you just don't bring it up :[
Being thirteen when you have sex for the first time...yes, that is bad for you. Not only physically but mentally(consent laws are in effect for a reason, teenagers minds are often not developed enough to know when to say no). Having sex so young can cause long term psychological problems - its just not good for you.
I hope for your sake that you had sense enough use protected sex each time. If you didn't I suggest you see a doctor immediately. Not to mention talk to your mother(or whoever takes care of you).
It may have 'been good' but I'm willing to bet you will seriously regret it later. The best thing for you to do right now is go to a doctor(if it was unprotected), maybe talk to your mother if you need to talk to someone about it(and if she won't absolutely kill you) and don't do it again for a few more years.
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I'm sure anyone will think that is slutty. No affence, your having sex at 13 though.
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