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i have no self-confidence, and I'm never happy, but i always smile. i get in the worst moods, so just ignore them. I'm deffently not prude. i'm depressed. why? for many reasons. i don't complain about myself to make you feel sorry, or to make you say "aw, no you're not." i hate people who do that. grudges, i hold them too long. I'll forgive you, but i won't forget. I'm not the shit, and i hate girls who think they are. it's called originality hunny.don't copy me. I wanna be older, skinnier, prettier, nicer, and taller. I'm kinda easy, i wish i wasn't. if you're a hot guy.. you don't even have to be nice. i've always been like that. i'm not slutty though, idk... it's confusing. i hate wanna-be sluts, aha... and i hate it when girls want to sound all nice, when they are fucking gaaaaay! I'm realllllllllly fake, like seriously i am! i'm pretty much unloved if you ask me.i hate boring people. i love hugs more then anybody i know. i actually enjoy reading books. i love drama, just not when i'm involved. i wear too much make-up. i don't act my age, well i try not to. I'm punished almost all summer, my mom is too controlling..it sucks.i never talk on the phone to girls, i only talk to guys. i hate it when everyone has the same about me, oh well.i really dont like liars, and i've been used 10000x. only a few people can make me really happy, and you will know. i'm too mean, and i talk to much, i would love to change... but i won't.

advice

I was wondering how you give a guy a blowjob? Is that the same thing as head because I've heard guys talk about girls giving them head, but I wasn't sure.

just google it.

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15/F. (same girl btw.) What's your aim? I clicked the button but it did not work.

Thanks, Sarah.

gracciebellssss

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13/F

There's this thing like... I don't know what it is, but it's in the area above the vagina... I think... I'm not familiar with the human body, so... But anyway, every time I go to the bathroom, it hurts. It started bleeding this morning Is it like a pimple down there??? Is that even possible??? please help

you can get pimples down there. It might be a pimple right by your vagina. look in a mirror and see, maybe you can pop it... even though it hurts, suck it up.
then, wait like 2 days, if it's still annoying, tell your mom.

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ok. 13/f.

i was at a party this weekend and i ended up having sex three time with three different guys. it was really good, but i wont go into details.
im only 13 though, like since im so young can something like that be bad?

thanks.

also, do you consider that as a slutty thing.
i did ALOT of things.

I'm sure anyone will think that is slutty. No affence, your having sex at 13 though.

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15/F. Have you personally ever had sex? If so, can you tell me about it please. I have a cool boyfriend and we got on the subject of sex, and I'd just like to have your opinion on it. Thanks.

If you want to get on the subject of sex, I'm positive you can find plenty of information about it using google.

If you refuse, just... instant message me or something.

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Homecoming dance is this Saturday Night.
Im going with a group of friends, and theyre all going to this one guys house. He's my neighbor so me and all my girlfriends will stay at my house and walk over to his to meet up with out dates.
But after that, how do we get from his house...to dinner...to the dance?
Were all 15, and none of us can drive
It would be awkward for our parents to drive us, since this isn't a middle school dance with 13 year olds...
WHat should we dooo??

What if you all go in one car, and put on loud music and dance and all in the car? If your parents drive you know one will know.

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I was wondering what you could do or use to hide your tampons in school, like how to discreetly take them from class to class just in case. Because I live in fear of what will happen if I don't... :S

Any ideas?

i usually put mine in my bra
just like one

haha it doesnt bother me
or ill put like a pad in my shoe.

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What do you do if someone unexpectedly tells you that they love you? What if you're not sure that you love them back?

Worse, what if you're the one that tells someone those three words and they tell you they don't feel the same or make up some stupid reason for not wanting to say it back.

If you've ever been in either situation how did you handle it?

When my ex told me he loved me I couldn't think of anything but thanks. I was young and didn't know the meaning of love, I didn't want to lie but I wasn't sure if I would be telling the truth. Now, a year later, I'm hesitent to say it because I don't want to put someone in the same awkward position I was in back then. I don't know how I'd react if they said thanks or that they didn't feel the same way. But I now understand what love means and I think I really, truly love him.

Help!

I usually say things like
"aw really, youre too sweet"

I hate it when guys say I love you for no reason $%#$%^$%#

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i don't want muscles,
so don't tell me to workout
unless there is a special work out thingy
that makes you slim
what do i eat?
what do i do?
seriously
i am nearly desperate to get skinny
i starved myself
and fainted.
i try making myself throw up
but nothing comes out when i try.
so yes i am desperate and in need for help

Working out, doesnt give you muscles

run, jog, crunches, sit-ups
you won't gain much muscle

fruit, and vegies

duh?

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what is four play?and what is g-spot?

Foreplay*

hunny, it's the 1st thing that popped up on goodle

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&defl=en&q=define:Foreplay&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title

you might not have saw the link because you spelt it wrong, but i'm sure you heard somebody say it,and understood wrong :]


http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&oi=definer&q=define:or+g-spot&defl=en

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what does it taste like when you eat a girl out?

like a vagina

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I have a new apple macbook...or imac...whatever. I bought it about 2 months ago. And it's white. (The first ones you see when you walk into the apple store) But the only thing that's really bugging me is the marks on the part where the scrolly touch pad is.....like where the palm rests...there are wearing (i don't know) marks...or wear marks...anyway, they're black and really annoying. They won't come off! Is there anything safe to wash it off with? I tried alcohol..I hope I made sense. O_O

I have one too!
haha, okay

go to the apple store and buy the product you clean ipods with, it works great. ask the people in the store if you can't findit. it's made for all apple products

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How can I stop eggs from cracking when making hard-boiled eggs?

You could put a little hole in it with a needle. Also, use a pot, then wrap the eggs in rags. where they are'nt touching the other eggs and they have rags around them

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i logged onto my myspace account today and then it had this new box that is labled "status and mood" i had no clue what it was and i clicked on "update" then it listed two of my myspace friends. does this mean they were just looking at my profile? and what is up with the mood thing? i was looking at tom's (the president of myspace) profile and it had no explanation of what this was.

Tom said that he would not make a tracker, there is no way anybody can make one either. So no, that does not mean your friends were looking at your profile.

It's just a fun way for your friends to know on how you're feeling, or what you're doing.

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im actually really skinny but i started out with a couple stretchmarks didnt really bother me but now i keep getting more and more and mroe and i have them EVERYWHERE now but it doesnt stop they just keep coming and its not fair it really like depresses me because i know they say its part of puberty and growing up but they also tell me that stretch marks are forever they can never go away but you can lighten them.. i dont want to lighten them nor do i want to ahve laser surgery.. does that meen they really are there forever i hate them!!!

i dont want to lighten them becuase i still see them because the ones i have that are li ghter from using stretch mark creams really really show when i get tan.. and i get tan.

is this all true?? and any help??

I'm pretty sure everyone on this site is going to swear on coacoa butter, or shea butter.

I recommend either of the two. They are both known and used for stretch marks.

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Kay well my parents' are spliting up , and I've been expecting it , I'm not sad or anything [no I'm not in denil either] and I have a desision to make , who I want to live with.

1) My mom : She sooo nice and I can tell her anything , But she can get moody and emotinally abusive [just a little bit].

2) My Dad : He is always asleep or a work or on the computer ,I can't really talk to him about anything.He is always in a bad mood and is vitiamin D deficiant [usually really bad mood in the winter] and he over grounds me for everyhting.BUT he brings me places and gives me money and treats me my age.

I really don't think that anybody on this site could really tell you who to live with.


Both of your parents love you very much, but they can't be together anymore, I'm sure they have tried to live together for as long as they could, but it still wasn't working out. Are your parents moving to different cities or states? because if you all are going to be in the same city, close by each other I really don't understand why you can't live with both.

I understand you love both of them equally. For me I think living with my mom would be easier, because I'm a girl, and I can talk to her about girl stuff, you know? and dad's don't really understand. If you're a guy... living with your dad could be easy, or living with your mom could be easy. I really don't know. If you really need help choosing you should ask one of your friends.


It's not an easy thing to choose. So I don't think anybody could choose with just the little bit if information you gave us here.

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okay so I admit I put a suggestive video of myself on youtube a long time ago, like in september. (it contained NO personal info whatsoever)

I took it off about 3 months after that though.

I got a disturbing phone call on my cell phone last night from this REALLY sketchy sounding guy with a new york accent and he says "Hi, is this Liza?" and i said "Why do you ask? Who is this?" And he said "My name is John. And I saw your video on youtube." Then I said "I have to go, bye." and I hung up.

I then called the non-emergency police number and they started a report number in case this does develop into a stalking case.



I'm so scared still, and I'm worried that he's going to call me again/rape me or something. (the call was anonymous)

What should I do?

I'm really really really worried about this.

any advice appreciated.

It could have been one of your friends joking around.
In the video, what were you doing? maybe your shirt had your name, or maybe your friend asked you on there for your myspace link or aim screename. He could have gotton your screename and looked at maybe your away message and it might of had your number. I mean I seriously doubt that, but something like that could have happened

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okay. if a girl say like 13-14 was walking around where a lot of people are, say a carnival or fair. they said hi and waved like losers [haha] and were just trying to get people to say hi..what would you do if they said hi to you? me and my friends were doing it and 2 people said hi, one group gave us a dirty look, 1 person said bye and another person just looked at us..(they were around guys that 14-15) hah just want you opinion. thanks (:

im not a 13 year old guy either, but i would just role my eyes and kind of make fun of you two, mostly because i would say yall are tring to act all cool... but arent. haha me and my friends are just like that

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Sorry I didnt know where to put this subject.
Im looking for a variety of camps in the Philadelphia area. I searched online but couldnt really find anything helpfull. Does anyone know of a website I could use?
Im looking for art/cheer/theatre/volleyball camps.
Oh and Im 16/f

Thanks :)

http://www.summer-daycamps.com/camps/philadelphia.html#Arts


try that, need any more?

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Ok,so you know how people have those "frount" bangs? (where the bangs go across) well, most people have those bangs,and they can move them to be side-swept. my question is,how do i ask for bangs that can be both side-swept and across? do you think it will work? thankss.

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=536s3r4



hahhaha, well don't make fun of how creepy i look. i was like 11, anyways, right there they are too short. they grew out and they looked cute.

find a picture you wantt EXACTLY and show it to your hairdresser
i recommend not going to a supercuts or anything like that.

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