16/F
I'm due to get my period at the worst possible time! I'll be on a two-day class trip and we'll be going to a theme park. How can I prevent my period from coming? =/
you can't prevent your period from coming.
but, you CAN wear tampons.
they really do help. just wear a super, and you won't have to change it as often.
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There is this guy that I work with, and he's like 19, 20? And I'm sixteen, he always flirts with me and even asked me out once, I dont like him. I pretend to be atleast, "nice" as in friend nice, to him at work. But I cant stand him, he's disgusting, I would never date him. And I have no interest whatsoever in him, not even being friends with him, he's like obsessed he keeps trying to add me on facebook, but I dont accept. He's a moron. He thinks hes so cool, he's not even going to college, and thats his own problem. But I like boys that persue education and learning. and thats not even the point.
How,.. do I .. get rid of him?
to stop bugging me and flirting, I dont flirt back either.
tell him what you want to tell him, pretty much you just told us.
"i dont like, i dont like you flirting with me, i dont like you touching me. i dont want to date you, i would never date you. your a pathetic loser who isnt even worth my time. your not cool, your pretty much a disgrace. leave me alone, or i will get my football player boyfriend to make you leave me alone"
you might not have a boyfriend, but he will back off.
thats pretty harsh, but if that doesnt get through to him, what will?
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17/m
Ive tried to date girls but i always get hurt, Ive been told im a very sweet guy and the last relationship i was in the girl wanted to be friends with benefits. I was ready to do it ut then i realized what id be throwing away, ive been told she is known for getting around and now i believe that. Now she hates me because i didnt. I want to have sex now but i have no one to do it with, what should i do?
I really want to do it and am alone.
if i was a major asshole then i would tell you to go find a prostitute and do the deed.
but i'm not, so, you cant rush things like sex. you just have to wait it out, and when the right girl comes along then maybe you can do it with her.
p.s
remember, dont like for the right girl, like for the right "now" girl, and maybe she might turn into the right girl. its just pretty much easier that way. :]
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sorry to make this long but its kind of a long story...
okay... so there is this kid that i like that is my first cousins friend.i am really close with my cousin but he doesn't know this. I've liked the kid for a while and i saw him a lot of summer vacation this year almost everyday or talked to him everyday.. i still talk to him but not as much. he liked me during summer but i didn't tell him and then 2 month's later i did. it's now like 3 month's later but i still like him. he's a great kid. he was talking to one of my friends the other day and was talking about how he liked me then too but said we couldn't go out because if he like dumped me or something happened that something might happen between him and my cousin, they are best friends. i don't know what to say to him.. I'm not much of a 'straight forward' kind of person that will tell this kid straight up that i like him...but i know that my cousin wouldn't get mad at him for something like that.
any ideas on what to do? if so thank you tons!
just tell him how you feel.. its easier to do it on the phone.. or texting, or myspace.. maybe even IM. because, talking to someone like that in person is a little overwhelming.. so yeah, just tell him how you feel! and explain that your cousin would never get mad over something like that.
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ok. 13/f.
i was at a party this weekend and i ended up having sex three time with three different guys. it was really good, but i wont go into details.
im only 13 though, like since im so young can something like that be bad?
thanks.
also, do you consider that as a slutty thing.
i did ALOT of things.
yeah, you're a slut.
yes that's bad.
seriously, you're gonna get pregnant if you don't quit.
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Its really hard to get horny while masturbating wats can i do !!!
you can look at magazines.
think about a girl you like naked.
look up porn on your computer and masturbate to that.
it's all in you, there's not much more you can do.
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omg i need help. i went to gym yesterday and we had to walk around the school at least 4 times. i was walking in the front of the line and some people in front were talking about the back line smoking and i told the back line that people were talking about them because the back line people were my friends well there is this rumor that this gurl told one of the back line that it was me who told i didnt and i was sticking up for them so im scare to even go to my locker or walk in town help i dont even want to walk in the hallways im so scared
don't worry about it.
i'm sure they won't do anything.
it's not that big of a deal, so it will probably slide soon.
but if you're that worried about, i suggest talking to a friend and maybe they will back you up. or telling a guidence counsler.
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I'm thinking about dying my hair a darker color, and well, I'm gonna probably get the box at wal-mart, and do it at home, cause I can't afford going to a salon. But I just wanted to ask, how exactly do you use this stuff? I'm sure it's tells you how, but I never understand directions on stuff.
and also, what if I don't like it? Can I wash it out right then? and do I hafe to use a special shampoo for "Color Treated Hair"
can someone give me a website for this, cause I have lots of questions before I want to do this.
Thanks alot!
If you need help understanding the directions you should ask your mom, or maybe have a friend over to help you.
and if you don't like it, you have to wait a couple of weeks to dye it again. because the chemicals in the dye kind of dry out your hair and your hair gets back to normal in a couple of weeks.
you dont have to use a special shampoo for color treated hair, but if you want to keep the color looking nice, and vibrant than you should.
http://velvetdragon.com/etc/dye.html
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/9711/athome_hair_dying_tips.html
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Ok so my clothes have this faint smell of b.o. Eurgh i know. I really dont know how to get rid of it. I put my clothes in the wash but its still there. I have 2 showers daily and I use Sure deoderant. I really dont know what to do because it's starting to affect my school uniform and I dont want people at school to know about this. I really need this GONE!
thanks
um.. i suggest using febreze to spray on your clothes. it smells good and clean, and it gets rid of odors.
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So I want to pierce my belly button but I have this scar that I've had since birth that runs from the top of my belly button vertically several inches. The guy at the piercing place said that it %99 most likely wouldn't work because my body would reject it, the scar would open up and reject the belly button.
So my questions are:
a) is that really likely to happen?
b) can you pierce the bottom of your belly buttom? If so I'll do that instead.
Help asap!
yes. i'm sure the guy at the piercing shop would lie to you,
&& yes! it's possible to get the bottom part of your belly button pierced.
i have many friends who has had theres done, and it looks really good!
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13/F
If you hump or have butt-sex are you not considered a virgin? And, is it okay to have butt-sex at age 13???
in my opinion anal sex is too young for a 13 year old girl!
and also, i think you have lost your virginity when a male's penis has entered your vagina. thats what i think.
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Is it possible for your mom to be your sister?
I think it is but my friend says it isn't
My theroy is that your dad has a kid then your dad and his kid make you. therefore, your mom is your sister because you and your mom are both kids from your dad.
My friend keeps saying that it's not possible.
Do you think i'm right or not?
yeah, it's possible.
but, it's called incest.
i hope your mom isnt your sister.
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I really want to listen to more Christian music, but most of it sounds the same. I want music that sounds like every other kind of music, but sings about God. I like the song Holy by Nichole Nordeman, and I like the song Never Alone by Barlowgirl, for example. Those songs sound like the type of song you would hear on Kiss FM, and I like that.
Do you know of any other Christian songs/artists like that?
stacie orrico use to be a christian singer.
she's really good. you can find her music under "christian pop"
and, plus1 is really good too.
same category.
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can girls ask out guys now?
how do you ask someone out?
of course they can ask guys out!
the same way a guy asks out a girl.
"will you go out with me?"
or
"umm, do you wanna date?"
you could even put a cute little twist in it :]
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About 3 or 4 years ago, I was a horrible person towards one of my friends (Gabby). The previous year I had just moved to a new town and became friends with Gabby. Gabby and i were really close, but I also became friends with a girl named Morgan. Morgan brought out the worst in me. She and I basically isolated and were horrible to Gabby the next year, and it was one of the worst times in her life (i know now because, I am now friends again with Gabby). I regret being such a cold hearted, follower of Morgan, and now I realize what a bad decision it was to be friends with a person like Morgan, who turned out to be flat-out mean. Becuase of this realization, I have gradually distanced myself from Morgan, and made friends with nice people. Now I feel absolutely horrible HORRIBLE about treating Gabby poorly. I know it hurt her so much, as she has told me this, and I feel SO badly. Although it was a bit of a while ago, and I was so immature, I still have this burning guilt, and sorrow for being such a bad person! I have said sorry, and explained that I regret the whole thing, and that I would never treat someone like that again. I know I can't change the past, but it's something that probably will always bring back this disgust for myself because of the situation. Is there a way I can say how sorry I am, and have her know how genuinely i mean that? A note or something? Or should I try to let it just be?
just let it be.
obviously shes a good enough person to accept your apology, and be your friend again. maybe shes a little bit distanced because shes afraid that you might be mean to her again, but she seems really forgiving to be your friend again. just let it be and let your friendship flow.
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how do you get rid of a double chin?? idk what to do! its not that bad but whenever i move my head i get one and its really ugly! i think it might be just baby fat or something. please give any advice possible thanks guys
i know this sounds stupid, but it really works. once, i was at a friends house and me and her mom were talking, i told her that i didnt think i was fat, because im very really skinny but i thought i had a double chin. she said not really but if i wanted to get rid of it all i had to do was kiss the sky. so.. tilt up your head so your nose is upward, and then just kiss really hard. like poke out your lips. [i suggest not doing this in public, you would look kind of weird :p]
hope this helps!
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i have breakouts all the time, not oily skin but normal skin. whiteheads, pimples, zits the whole shishkabob. can you recommend the best face wash you use ? that clears up your skin, and evens out your skin tone.
i use apricrot scrub. by st. ives. it works really good, and evens out my skin tone.
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15/f. I dislike my dad and mom. I have nothing for them, nothing against them. I don't feel anything for them. They're like nobody to me. They don't ignore me or abuse me or anything. But I can't bring myself to say "I love you guys." Because I know I'll be bullshitting everyone. I also dislike my sister. My parents get me stuff I want, and they treat me like other parents treat their daughter. But I strongly dislike them. I love being alone, untouched, in my own room. Or instead, out of the house and away from them. I hate being involved with them. And my other relatives live in another country. I don't talk with my parents, and I don't need their advice. I don't confide in them. What can I do?
Any advice? :/
Your unappreciative. period. I love how your saying your parents do everything for you and they treat you right and you still hate them. Your crazy, and you need some help. Think of the poeple who dont have parents, who dont have someone to love them. Your parents love you unconditionally, no questions asked.
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okay so
i've been seeing this guy Jacob for about 5 months now .
he lives with his best friend robert.robert and his ex Lucy broke up 2 weeks ago
well Robert is a very jealous person.
Jacob promised robert he wouldnt do anything with lucy. but robert made sure all of his friends didnt do anything with lucy. well jacob and i were kinda official but now we're just like not as serious.
well i know jacobs password for myspace but he thinks i forgot it...anyway, i see a message from lucy saying "i hate how we have to hide our friendship"
he replies
"yah i know it sucks but wait til i move out"
so last week jacob calls me and says, "if anyone calls just say im with you." and i said "okay but why"
he then said, "i'm going to hang out with a few friends and lucy is in the group and i told robert i wouldnt talk to her "
so i was like "okay whatever"
then he texts me the next day @ 6AM saying "goodnight baby.if anyone ask i was with you til 6AM"
so he hasnt called since tuesday so i call him blocked and just see if hes alive
so from tuesday -thursday i call blocked and later on thursday at about 11pm i was with my cousin and he calls and says "i know its you thats calling, give up."
so i denied it and my cousin took the blame.
so friday i was with this my friends cuz they were making fun of jacob and how he got in an accident so i sent jacob a text saying "i'm with my friends right now and the story they're telling me about your last accident is pretty funny"
so like 2 minutes later he calls and bitches at me saying
"how is it funny that i got in an accident"
i told him
"i'm not saying its funny, i'm saying the story i'm listening to is funny, cuz its so different from the one you told me"
well saturday i go on his myspace and read a message to lucy saying
"heyy cutie im at my parents and im just misssin you thinkin that you should be in my arms its like 446 i called you and a older guy answered sayin i had the wrong number i think it was your dad well anyways ill c you on sunday
tell robert.
jacob doesnt seem like a very nice person, and why would he do that to his so called "best friend" that doesnt seem like a friendship. im sure jacob wouldnt think it was you. if he trusts you not to say anything, then he wouldnt think it was you. it could be anybody else. but yeah, talk to robert you'll feel a lot better.
hope i helped.
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My dad`s been saying since he decided he was going to divorce my mom as soon as I graduated that we are poor. First of all, we live in one of the most expensive neighborhood to live in out of the whole county so that`s not true. Plus, my dad`s job has an extremely high payment. Half of the time, he`s yelling about money or cussing at us or telling us how stupid we are. The other half of the time, he`s not even home or is off with something with his work somewhere. He won`t EVER buy me ANYTHING rather I really need it or not. Anytime I want something, I have to take money out of MY savings account to get it. I was thinking earlier and I finally understand why he`s freaking out about how we supposedly have no money. In one year, the place where my dad works is moving to Indiana or Louisiana or something. Apparently, he thinks it`s an easy way for him & my mom to separate? Anyways, knowing how selfish he is, he`s not going to even bother looking for a closer job & he has his mind set on leaving us to go live in Indiana. Well, obviously he would need a house, so he`s been putting thousands away each month that my family needs for things & cutting us short on everything, which is extremely unfair to all of us. He won`t admit it, but I know that`s he`s putting all of that money away so that he can afford a house when he leaves. I don`t understand it though. He told us all a few months ago that he`s leaving us & we`ll have to sell the house & while he`s off in Indiana somewhere, we`ll have to live in a tent here. But, how can someone do that? I mean, how can he lie about it & how can he just treat us like this? My mom has no job because she`s been devoted to us all these years, so I don`t know what`s going to happen. Is there some legal thing that says he HAS to send us money or something to take care of us when he leaves?
Yes, im sure your dad wouldnt completley leave you penniless. he's frustrated. im not taking your dads side, im just trying to explain. but, yeah, he has to give your mom child support. child support varies. it depends on how many kids there are in the family. but in order to get child support, your mom has to apply for it. its very easy and they will take the money right out of his paycheck. let's say you have 2 other siblings. that would be three plus you, your mom would probably get 600 to 1000. but that pretty much depends on how much your dad makes, and obviously as you say, your dad makes pretty good money.. so dont worry about it hun, you'll be fine. but you should stand up for your family and talk to your dad about this. he has no right to treat you like that. obviously your not dumb. and he has to know that. i hope everything works out for you!
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