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Ah i was so horrible
About 3 or 4 years ago, I was a horrible person towards one of my friends (Gabby). The previous year I had just moved to a new town and became friends with Gabby. Gabby and i were really close, but I also became friends with a girl named Morgan. Morgan brought out the worst in me. She and I basically isolated and were horrible to Gabby the next year, and it was one of the worst times in her life (i know now because, I am now friends again with Gabby). I regret being such a cold hearted, follower of Morgan, and now I realize what a bad decision it was to be friends with a person like Morgan, who turned out to be flat-out mean. Becuase of this realization, I have gradually distanced myself from Morgan, and made friends with nice people. Now I feel absolutely horrible HORRIBLE about treating Gabby poorly. I know it hurt her so much, as she has told me this, and I feel SO badly. Although it was a bit of a while ago, and I was so immature, I still have this burning guilt, and sorrow for being such a bad person! I have said sorry, and explained that I regret the whole thing, and that I would never treat someone like that again. I know I can't change the past, but it's something that probably will always bring back this disgust for myself because of the situation. Is there a way I can say how sorry I am, and have her know how genuinely i mean that? A note or something? Or should I try to let it just be?
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hey. the same thing happened to me, except i was on gabbys end of it. honestly, the girls who did this to me are now my friends, an i have pretty much lost a lot of my trust for them. i am deff. not as close with them as i am with other people. the one thing i wish they had done was sit down and really honestlty and heart-fealtedly (if thats a word) and told me how sincerely sorry they were. hope i help!
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just let it be.
obviously shes a good enough person to accept your apology, and be your friend again. maybe shes a little bit distanced because shes afraid that you might be mean to her again, but she seems really forgiving to be your friend again. just let it be and let your friendship flow.
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Since you already tlked to her and let her know how you felt theres nothing that you can say. I think that the best thing to do is to forget about wha happened and dont let it bring you down. She'll understand that your sorry and dont worry because she has already forgiven you. Your lucky to have a friend like that. Just show her that your not like you used to be and dont do something like that again. Just be a good friend to her like she has been to you.
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