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14/f/uk
Hey, I'm having a party in a weeks time. Practically everyone is talking about it and I get randoms coming up to and asking if they can come. I know people from like Leeds and Birmingham are coming down and I live in Norfolk.
Basically, I want a lot of tips on how to make it crazy (:
Oh, and just in case you think, 'oh you're only 14, you won't want any alcohol etc.' (as a lot of americans seem to, and I know this is an american site), let me tell you something about british teenagers; generally we like to get completely pissed and stoned, will do almost any drug you offer us, are usually up all night, make out with everyone no matter what sex they are and it is not uncommon to find ourselves starting the night and not knowing where we're going to end up or being chased by police cars.
Just thought I'd say in case you were going to give tips on how to make it a tame party.
So yeah, any ideas would be appreciated.
Thanks, x
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i wish i could go to one of your partyss haha.i'm ur age and "american" parties are lameee. but yeah to get alchohol you could "hey mister" someone (go up to a random-but young- looking person to see if they will buy you it) and however u gets drugs is fine i guess... to make it more interesting play games that interest everyone. like strip poker or something. beer pong is good for fun, i dunno just dont get caught cause you would get f.ucked
but since this is an advice column i feel obliged to say .... be careful? haha
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Alright. I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do, but reinforcement is always nice.
So I'm in a bit of a complicated situation.
First, theres the ex. We had a terrible breakup. We are still very much in love with each other. We are probably not right for each other. She cheated. I forgave. She moved home (4 hours away) and right now we're talking but thats about it. Ive told her I want to get her back.
Second, theres the future fuckbuddy. Shes gay but openminded. She wants an ongoing relationship with me thats based almost entirely on sex. This is not a problem for me in the least, and fresh out of a harsh breakup (3 months isnt that fresh, but it was almost a 3 year relationship) she seems to be what I need right now. Shes poly and married to another woman. Her wife would know about me, and probably meet me.
Third, theres... I don't know what she is to me. We've been talking for two days. Theres already a ridiculously strong connection between us. The kind of connection that could lead to something very serious down the line.
The third girl is coming over tomorrow. Sex is a possibility. The second girl is coming over thursday. Sex is a certainty.
I'm not sure what I want to do. I don't know if I'm ready to trust someone in a serious relationship, but I think that if I pass up a chance with this girl I might seriously regret it later. But I obviously cant test things out with her and have a fuckbuddy.
I dont know. I don't know if I should take the chance of hurting and getting hurt if I'm not ready to fall in love again, because shes (the third girl)definitely going to if things keep going. It might take a while, but I think we both might be there within a few months.
I just don't know. What would you do, reader? Stick with the fuckbuddy and tell the girl its not a good time? Take a chance on a relationship when I'm still in love with my ex? I know that if I fall for someone else that will not make me fall out of love with my ex, is the thing. I don't work that way. Ive been in love with two women before. Hard to imagine for some...
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wow, thats intense! but what your really need to do is NOT get with the "fuck buddy", because that could ruin your chances with your ex as well as your old flame. so now that thats out of the way, you really need to decide if its worth getting back with your ex who made you suffer through a horrible breakup, or get with a girl who could possibly be the one. hope i helped!
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okay my boyfriend we've known each other for 3 months asked me out in november 15 and we didnt really talk to each other that much and then we didnt talk for the whole week because of the day off in school and today we got back we talked and and today we kissed (just a peck) 2 times are we going too fast? (link)
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well depends how old you are. if you in like, 3rd grade, then yea thats too fast. but a peck? haha who cares? its really no big deal do whatever you want.
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my mom will usually get on to me for picking out high inch heels, and no strappless shirts, i keep telling her no, im in the 6th grade, but i cant get through to her that i am not 2 anymore. what should i do? (link)
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yea i am in 8th grade. and my school goes 6th through 7th, so when i walkk the halls and see these 6th graders trying wayyyyy too hard, its wicked pathetic. just wear regular clothes like jeans and stuff. im popular, and dont dress like a skank. so yea, dont even try blaming your mom shes doing you a major favorrr. xoxo!
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ok me and my girlfiend have been dating for 5 months now so the other day me and her had sex and she was giving me head and stopped so i put my dick in her and we was getting it on well i forgot to take it out and i cumed in her and it was alot i told her like right after i did it and i told her if she got pregnant that i wud b there every step of the way i just want to know if she is pregnant or not this was writtin 10-21-2007 and we had sex 10-20-1007 also im 16 and she is 15 does that effect anything and it was alot of cum because i felt it like shoot out 4 timees while i was fucking her but she stoped and put her pants back on n stuff and we kinda talked but then we both noticed that it was a lil wet in her pants by her vagina area does that mean all the cum came out since that night her stomach been hurting and she been getting tired alot im nervous please tell me if she is pregnant or not
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wow. that sucks. she probably is pregnant, but you need to tell her to take a test or get checked out. but no matter what, you have to be a real man and stay by her side no matter wat
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15/f/freshman
i was talking to my crush at the homecoming dance for like a minute and then he said something like, "soooo..." and then i asked him, "want to dance?" and then he said "sure" so we danced for like 3-4 songs. i then finally said, "okay i need to go find my friend" and then he answered "okay" and then i said "see you monday" and i held my arms out for a hug and he hugged back.
he is in a couple of my classes and we have talked in school before the dance and i sort of had a hunch he liked me last year but i don't know! becuase if he really didn't want to dance with me wouldn't he have gotten out of it earlier by saying something like, "i need to go to the bathroom" after one song or two or something like that? but he is a really nice guy like nice to everyone so i just don't know! i was thinking of getting someone to say something to him, but what do you guys think?
p.s. please don't sugar coat.
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dont listen to that person. he obviousley likes you boys dont just go out and dance with random chicks. go for it! (:
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About 3 or 4 years ago, I was a horrible person towards one of my friends (Gabby). The previous year I had just moved to a new town and became friends with Gabby. Gabby and i were really close, but I also became friends with a girl named Morgan. Morgan brought out the worst in me. She and I basically isolated and were horrible to Gabby the next year, and it was one of the worst times in her life (i know now because, I am now friends again with Gabby). I regret being such a cold hearted, follower of Morgan, and now I realize what a bad decision it was to be friends with a person like Morgan, who turned out to be flat-out mean. Becuase of this realization, I have gradually distanced myself from Morgan, and made friends with nice people. Now I feel absolutely horrible HORRIBLE about treating Gabby poorly. I know it hurt her so much, as she has told me this, and I feel SO badly. Although it was a bit of a while ago, and I was so immature, I still have this burning guilt, and sorrow for being such a bad person! I have said sorry, and explained that I regret the whole thing, and that I would never treat someone like that again. I know I can't change the past, but it's something that probably will always bring back this disgust for myself because of the situation. Is there a way I can say how sorry I am, and have her know how genuinely i mean that? A note or something? Or should I try to let it just be? (link)
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hey. the same thing happened to me, except i was on gabbys end of it. honestly, the girls who did this to me are now my friends, an i have pretty much lost a lot of my trust for them. i am deff. not as close with them as i am with other people. the one thing i wish they had done was sit down and really honestlty and heart-fealtedly (if thats a word) and told me how sincerely sorry they were. hope i help!
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