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Okay, I'm 17/m,
Recently I said some things to my gf that made her wonder whether she should stay with me or not. I called her after work and she spent half an hour assuring me that I am the one, but before I talked to her I made a promise and labeled it "An act of love"
Before all of this I had an addiction that is common in a huge % of the human population. This addiction is masturbation. So here I am, worried sick that the one I love most hates me for flirting with this girl she's worst enemies with (I told her after the phone call to my gf that I never wanted to talk to her again) When an idea pops into my head. The idea "devote yourself" so I spent the entire night tracking down anything in my home that is related to another woman and disposing of it. After doing that I made it clear that I would not do anything sexual on my behalf until I was with her. So my question is guys: If you were in my situation, would you consider this option? Why and why not? Girls: If your man told you this how would you respond?
This has been bothering me for the last few nights so any answers are greatly appreciated.
Thank you and sorry for the length. (link)
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ok im 19/f and there is nothing wrong with masterbation even if you're in a relationship. it's a very personal thing that pleases you in a way only you can...just keep it to yourself because i know i don't want to know what my boyfreind thinks about if it's not me...at the same time im not interested in controling his thoughts. do not feel so guilty : )
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why do i always fall for people i cant have?
ahh i hate that about myself i never like people my own age.. and the people i like never like meback.. they probably take me as thyre younger sister i realy hate that rite now i like this boy whos 3 years older than me i duntknow if he likes me. is there something wronge with me i mean like im not a wierd person alot of ppl love me in my life i just dont know.. helpp
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you will always fall for the wrong guy until that one guy comes along. it rarely happens at a young age, some people are lucky though. :)
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how do you ask a girl out with out sounding cheesy..like other thatn will you go out with me....cause now that im older it seems like childish (link)
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sneak it in on her for the first date...maybe start talking about a new movie that's out she might be interested in and then offer to go with her! it's important to be establish a friendship first.
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Hi, I am a 22 year old Canadian pre-op FTM transman and I am confused about my feelings for a friend of mine.
This friend and I have been close for a long time and I find myself feeling romantically attracted to her and mostly physically attracted to her accept for one thing. I will explain my dilemma now.
She is also a transexual only she is a pre-op MTF(male to female) which means she hasn't had bottom surgery yet, making her penis a vagina. I consider myself a straight male in a female body and therefore am not attracted to penis'. She knows this and is ok with it, but I find myself unsure of what to do.
I am attracted to her emotionally, but not so much physically because of that.
We slept together once and it was ok. I was nervous so it didn't go as well as it could, but then I said that maybe we should hold off because I realized I wasn't into BDSM like she was, but I have that issue figured out. She is fine with that. We communicate everything before hand.
I don't want to keep changing my mind because I feel like I am using her, even though she keeps telling me I wouldn't be. I don't want to keep changing my mind, but I am unsure of how to persu my feelings.
Should I leave it at friendship? or should I keep trying more on an expiremental basis until we both know what we want? what I want?
I don't know.
Advice would be great!
Thank you.
-Nathan (link)
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wow this would be very confusing to someone. keep seeing her and your attraction to her emotionally may turn into something physical. it sounds like you two could relate to each other well.
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Okay..me and my boyfriend have been having sex over 1 year now..and he's been wanting to cum in me..i use birth control...and i was wanting to be extra careful with the vaginal contraceptive films..if you know what they are..they are like girl condoms..ive never used one. and i was wondering what the chances are if i use those and birthcontrol...and what do i do? (link)
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If you're taking your birth control right (not missing any pills and taking them at the same time every day) then its nearly impossible for you to become pregnant. don't sweat it.
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