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Is this a good choice?
Okay, I'm 17/m,
Recently I said some things to my gf that made her wonder whether she should stay with me or not. I called her after work and she spent half an hour assuring me that I am the one, but before I talked to her I made a promise and labeled it "An act of love"
Before all of this I had an addiction that is common in a huge % of the human population. This addiction is masturbation. So here I am, worried sick that the one I love most hates me for flirting with this girl she's worst enemies with (I told her after the phone call to my gf that I never wanted to talk to her again) When an idea pops into my head. The idea "devote yourself" so I spent the entire night tracking down anything in my home that is related to another woman and disposing of it. After doing that I made it clear that I would not do anything sexual on my behalf until I was with her. So my question is guys: If you were in my situation, would you consider this option? Why and why not? Girls: If your man told you this how would you respond?
This has been bothering me for the last few nights so any answers are greatly appreciated.
Thank you and sorry for the length.
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ok im 19/f and there is nothing wrong with masterbation even if you're in a relationship. it's a very personal thing that pleases you in a way only you can...just keep it to yourself because i know i don't want to know what my boyfreind thinks about if it's not me...at the same time im not interested in controling his thoughts. do not feel so guilty : )
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If I was In your girlfriends shoes i would feel the same exxaacct way.
You just have to reussure her that you wont do it again. You have to make an effort to not do it again and she has to make an effort to think about it more. It takes patients.
Just try to make the best of your decisions!
I hope I helped!
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-Speakfreely
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if i was in your girl friends shoes
i would most likely be feeling the exact same way
just reassure her that it wont happen again [[dont let it happen again]]and give her time, she will forgive you if she really loves you,
and im pretty sure she dosent hate you , she just needs time to think what to think =]]
goodluck ♥christina
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You're 17 years old!!! Don't limit your options so severely. I'm 22, have been with my girlfriend for 2 years and I STILL have pictures of naked and scantily clad women all over my walls!
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