hey my names christina from katy
and i love to help people ,, i will tell you things tht i would do if i was in that situation .. you dont have to take my advice and if you do , i hope i helped you out .. ♥christina
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alright well me and my bestfriend went out a year and a half ago and it was great. well we always text at night and stuff and he always tells me he thinks im gorgoues and that he wants to hookup with me.. he also tells me that if i was single alot of guys would come chasing after me... well i cant tell if hes interested or not
help please! (link)
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he mostly likely is, but he understands that you have a bf . im going through the same thing, just dont worry about it and stick with your man =]]
♥christina
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I heard this song today. I dont know what its called so maybe you guys can help. It went something like im going to carolina and then said something about tennesee in it. it was a girl singing it. and it was a country song. ive searched google and havent been able to find it. Do any of you know what its called n who sings it? If you do that would be awesome! Thanks! (link)
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i wonder by kellie pickler
its a great song good choice =]♥christina
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okay if i guy said this to you, what do you think it means????
yea, i kno...
u thought i liked alex?!?!?!?!
so i guess this is the end
buh bye
THANKS :D (link)
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haha sorry
basically that theres no way he would like alex
and hes mad because you think he liked her .. lol
♥christina
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I just want to thank you for opening this and wasting 5 mins. of your life. I just wanted to know if things will ever change??? i'm 14 and I'm sure you remember when you were 14 or maybe you are 14 but w/e. I just wanted to know if things will change from being bad. Like not having any friends, being made fun of, not having a BOYFRIEND. Things were not like this when I was 13. Everything was GREAT! I had friends and boyfriends, they were never serious but I had 'em. Does it ever change? Or will I always be sad??? (link)
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girl every thing does change
feel free to talk to me about anything you need help with you can leave a message in my inbox or you can talk to me on aim my sn is howdoideel w o u
just trust me everything will get better i was like that too and dont let anything or anyone get you down =]] ♥christina
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well my bf is a marine and the only way i can talk to him is through myspace(cuz he's in cali for training)but for the last week..he's been talking to my sister who not much younger than me because i havent been online lately.
and she and him both brag to me what they were talking bout to eachother and its getting me realllly jealous i dont wanna lose him.and to top it off,no one knows were going out except my oe friend
what do i do? (link)
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just tell your boy friend that it makes you feel bad that they rub it in your face.. he will stop if he really cares about you =] ♥christina
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Okay, I'm 17/m,
Recently I said some things to my gf that made her wonder whether she should stay with me or not. I called her after work and she spent half an hour assuring me that I am the one, but before I talked to her I made a promise and labeled it "An act of love"
Before all of this I had an addiction that is common in a huge % of the human population. This addiction is masturbation. So here I am, worried sick that the one I love most hates me for flirting with this girl she's worst enemies with (I told her after the phone call to my gf that I never wanted to talk to her again) When an idea pops into my head. The idea "devote yourself" so I spent the entire night tracking down anything in my home that is related to another woman and disposing of it. After doing that I made it clear that I would not do anything sexual on my behalf until I was with her. So my question is guys: If you were in my situation, would you consider this option? Why and why not? Girls: If your man told you this how would you respond?
This has been bothering me for the last few nights so any answers are greatly appreciated.
Thank you and sorry for the length. (link)
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if i was in your girl friends shoes
i would most likely be feeling the exact same way
just reassure her that it wont happen again [[dont let it happen again]]and give her time, she will forgive you if she really loves you,
and im pretty sure she dosent hate you , she just needs time to think what to think =]]
goodluck ♥christina
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i have this friend and ive gone with her and her boyfriend and a few other people to the movies. well when they are at the movies she lays on him and he puts his arm around her and stuff. and she sometimes like sits on him and they make out and its cute.
well im going to the movies with my boyfriend soon and i want to do that kind of stuff. how do i get him to do that. i dont just want to throw myself on him. how do i know he likes to do that kind of stuff too? i dont want to ask him cause thats kinda of weird. (link)
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girl a relationship is based on trust and trust means being able to tell each other everything
if not just slide over and cuddle with him, its not like he going to push you away =] good luck ♥christina
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f/16 I want to become a decent singer. I can sing some songs, I suppose but people always tell me I'm a bit flat. Help? I can't get vocal lessons, I'm not singing professional or anything. Just for fun, but I want to become better.
Sometimes I feel like I'm out of breath. No websites please. Just some tips?
Is there any songs like "There are Worse Things I Could Do" ?
Slow and a bit alto /soprano-mezzo ish? I can see that song good.. just like "freddy my love".. but I can't find any other songs slow like that to PRACTICE with.
Help? :D (link)
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i love to sing i dont really have any good songs exept my immortal which im sure everyone hates now lol but about the out of breath thing try laying down on your bed at night and breathe in and out deeply from your mouth it really helps
and when you sing its like breathing with words haha sounds silly but its true.. also open your mouth as wide as you can on your higher notes. i learned when i went to lessons that also screaming or talking into the next room loudly can damage your voice because your vocal cords get hurt. hope i was help ♥christina
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i have four best friends and all five of us hang out in a group all the time. two of them are guys and two of them are girls. anyway when one of the guys isn't with us my other friends talk about how they think the guy who is gone is gay. (i know for a fact that he isn't because i've done stuff with him and no one knows...) but it really doesn't matter if he is or not i just don't think it's right that they do this. should i tell my guy friend what everyone else is saying about him...or would that just cause trouble? (link)
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friends tell each other everything but i would ask the guy who theyre talking about to not tell them you told him because then they wont trust you even if they should because .. what if it was them who they were talking about they would have to wonder if you would tell them too right? ♥christina
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Is it bad to feel good when guys look at you or try to talk to you when you have a boyfriend.Not to want to want a relationship, But just look at you and think you some what attractive.I sometimes you know, look at guys.Just think their cute or whatever.Not to where I forget I'm taken and want to hook up with them, But just to look.And want them to look at you.I kind of feel guilty though for even looking or somewhat liking when cute guys look.Is this wrong or what.Also, is it bad to still have feelings for you ex and your boyfriend not know.That your ex wants you back , But your with someone.Not that you want to be with your ex... basically because you KNOW he did you wrong and you just don't picture yourself with him EVER.I still think about him and love him and stuff.Just I know nothing will never be.Obviously I know that because I'm with someone , trying to move on.I still keep in touch with my ex.. But it seems like he can't accept that I'm with someone and happy.He's getting desperate because his girlfriend dumped him.I don't know what to do anymore.I need some help...anyone know what I can do and tell me if what I first said was wrong.. and what I can do about the ex? (link)
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its ok to look and want to be looked at
i used to be like tht even if i was with a guy i liked. and its normal to feel guilty because some people dont want to look or have the desire to be looked at.
the ex situation is always hard
i had an ex once that treated me like poo and i liked him for a long time after we broke up
and i had a bf who i was happy with and he was happy with me but i couldnt live with the guilt of being with him but wanting my ex back
in the end i broke up with him . what im saying with this is its not right to want your ex and have a great boy by your side.but theres nothing you can do about the ex liking you . just hope he moves on and i would tell your bf that you still have feelings for him but you still want to be with him but just understand how he feels when you tell him goodluck ♥christina
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14/f
sorry if it's long
i like this guy, let's call him D. he's best friends with my sister's boyfriend, B. i knew that D had a girlfriend, L. but she was in florida at the time, but he said that they were on the rocks, if you know what i mean.. well D & B came over to my house about three weeks ago. at first it was awkward, because my sister and B were all over each other the whole time. also, D kept texting L a lot, so i was kindof left out. and after a while, my sister and B got in a fight about something stupid, and went outside to talk about it. so me and D were just sitting in the kitchen, and then L called him. he had it on speaker, and she deffinately was drunk. i didn't hear everything she said, but after he hung up, he was like, "i'm so sick of her doing this", like she's called him drunk before. but idk. so after D & B left, i guess when they were driving home, B asked D if he liked me, and he said "if L wasn't in the picture, i'd like her." now that L's home from florida, her and D are better than ever, because they made up. but i really like him, and i don't want him to get hurt. but today, i was at a fair, and D and L were there, and i was like "hey D" and he gave me this big hug, while L was giving me dirty looks the whole time.
would it be weird if i told B that i liked him? they're like brothers, and they spend all of their time together. like, if i told him that i want to hang out with D more, even though L is home?
thanks in advance (link)
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it wouldnt be weird to tell B that you like D
but idk he might be hurt if him and his gf broke up. and im sure he wouldnt move on to you as soon as they broke up, if they broke up. and if you do start hanging out with him more just be careful cuz drama could start . goodluck ♥christina
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this might be long but i need help please help. ok so i had a boyfriend who i really loved. and i know he loved me too. there were jsut moments when you know you can feel it. we were fine and all but then i broke up with him because he was acting different liek he wasnt the same we lasted 10 months. so i asked for a break. during that break i missed him so much and he always said he missed me too. we would always talk and such. but then i decided that i wnated him back. so i tried to talk to him and he told me that i dont deserve him and i said why? and he said if i knew all of the bad things that he did to me then i would neevr want to hear from him again. so i told him tell me. and he said tht he doesnt want to hurt me but that he needs to tell me to get it off his back. he said that he cheated on me. those 8 months out of 10. i thought i was going to die when he said that to me. he also told me that he had sex with 2 girls and that while we were at themall and i went to the abthroom he saw one of his exs and hang out with them. he told me he loves me, and i was the only girl that he loved but that he couldnt take me back becuase after what he did things would never be the same. he says hes really sorry and that he does love me. he sid i showed him what real love is and that he messed up things badly and i shouldnt be with him. he said i too good for him. but after everything he said to me i still miss him. why? how can i get hurt and still miss him? what should i do now? any comments advice? thanks! for the help i really do appreciate it! (link)
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i think your in love with the person you thought he was. even if he treated you bad cause we all want something we think we can change.and as for him telling you he loves you and your the first girl hes ever loved , he would never have done that to you in the first place and you do deserve better anygirl does =]
♥christina
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so i just met this guy like a month ago. well we both want to make out and everything, but i have never made out with anyone and he has made out twice. i dont want to tell him that i never have. and the main thing is, is that i dont know how. do you use your tounge? and how do you know when to stop? how long do you usually make out?
ahh, help! QUICK! (link)
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lol thats cute
making out with someone
does require tongue
and just basically follow what
he does, its easy
you know when to stop when he pulls away
and theres really not a time
it could be for a few seconds or it could be 20 minutes its your call ♥christina
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i met this guy but he doesnt go to my school so i dont know much about him. he seems really cool, and he makes me laugh, and is nice to me. hes the only guy i know that has so much in common with me. i really like him and he likes me but he hasnt asked me out yet.
my point is, is that i was talking to his friend and he told me some things like that he lies alot and argue alot. and that he gets into trouble alot. he says that he cheats on girls and just wouldnt make a good boyfriend.
we've talked and he seems like he would be. i dont mind the arguing part or him getting into trouble. i just dont know about the ling part. i dont know if i should just go out with him and see for myself. i just dont want to get my heart broken cause i really like him. (link)
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girl do you want to live thinking what could have happend?or learned from something new ?
and also i think if you really like him you wouldnt care what others say about him.. its your call ♥christina
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there's this boy, whom I like alot- i'm going to call him jake. well today he came over, when my parent's weren't here, we didn't go outside but we were sitting on the bench& we started making out then he was leaving at ten, so I looked at my phone I was like twenty more minutes, then it started to get serious, like we would be kissing& for a few times he did would run his hand up my back& I was like if he tries to go under my bra or near my "private" area, i'm going to stop him, so he goes over my bra, like he was feeling them, just kinda touching? it wasn't bad& it was only for a few minutes. then we were kissing again& he stuck his hands down the back of my pants touching my butt, he would do that, then bring it out& then do that again, then he took his hand& he was playing w/ my "private" part's, like my panties were still in the way but he was playing with them over my panties& at the time I didn't care, I was like he still isn't in them, blah blah blah. & now that I think of it I feel horrible, weren't even dating& I let him do that, I feel so sick, like to my stomach& I feel like a whore, I already took a shower, he's the only guy I have done anything like this with, i've only even made out w/ one guy ever then him,& i'm fourteen, do you think i'm a whore? (link)
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girl your not a whore,
if you do it with alot of guys and your not dating them then yah i guess people would consider you one but dont worry your not =]
♥christina
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ok so i have been dating this girl for aboout 5 or 6 months give or take and we went to the movies last night, i wanted to make a move like to finger her but i wasnt sure if she wanted to so i didnt. and everyone tells me to ask her cuz shes my girlfriend but she is probably goin to think that im just some perv using her. What should i do ? (link)
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if shes your gf, you should be able to talk to her about anything.. and i know you may be nervous but just start out with something like
hey i dont want to sound like a pervert cuz i really like you or love you w/e u 2 say but do you want to take another step in this relationship or something like that =] good luck
♥christina
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so anyway theres this boy at school i like and i dont know wha to do because my bff likes him but i really like him help (link)
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well who does the boy like??
that always helps out more
if he likes you she will let it go if she is ur true friend
and if he likes her
you have to step back and let it go ,,
goodluck ♥christina
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ok so i have this boyfriend we have been dating for some time now and he hasnt made any moves on me yet i mean we make out alot and stuff but thats about it and my friends said he wasnt sure if i wanted to thats why he hasnt. what should i do? (link)
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well talk to him about it
a relationship is based on trust
so you need to talk to him
even if it means its a little akward and then
just go ahead and make your move =]] ♥christina
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hey,
recently me and my boyfriend had our nine month anniversary but we havent seen eachother in over a month becuase of summer and stuff, and we cant see eachother for another month..well i know i need to break up with him, he make me feel bad all the time, and my parents and friends think im in depression ...but i cant do that im not strong enough. he cheated on me, and then i cheated on him.. bad i know,, he never found out that i cheated on him but i found out he did, through his messages,,and im scared on his vacation he would cheat on me, he told me he loved me like really, but he lies to me constantly and does drugs just to get friends ( or says he does) just to act cool, and i told him my views on that subject becuase i dont want him to get hurt and he said he would change for me, but he hasnt.. well i can tell, but back to lying he lies about little things just to impress people or to make people feel bad for him, so i dont know him at all.. so i need help what do i do?
i think i love him,, or maybe im just loving the idea of love?? please help me xoxo (link)
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sweety every one loves the idea of love
we all want somebody there
i had to learn the hard way that you cant change some one. you dont deserve someone whos going to cheat on you or make you feel bad for not being able to change things. a guy thats going to treat you like that dosent love you or deserve a girl like you because before he can love you he must love himself ♥christina
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well...im 17 and female just joined this as I really need help with the way i'm feeling at the moment!
At the end of last year I started seeing this guy, we wer together up untill the end of March this year, the relationship ended bcoz i felt he was making no effort, like he would never fone me, text me, or invite me over to his place!
I was gettin really annoyed thinkin he wasnt interested in me and didnt want me to meet his parents, I asked him about it and he said he didnt see anything wrong with it! so I ended it.
But now I wish I hadnt, I think about him everyday and I know I still have feelings for him! Should I tell him how I feel?
Im not interested in any other guys! One guy has asked me out a few times and I keep telling him no, its not tht he isnt a nice guy or anything, he is sooo nice 2 me, but I just cant get over my ex!
Someone please answer my question, should I tell my ex how I feel? Or move on and gave the other guy a chance?
sorry its sooo long :( (link)
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ok i had an ex i liked alot and he treated me the same way your saying , and the reason your clinging on to him is because people want what they cant have or what they think can change ya know?
trust me even if you like him for a long time longer youll find someone great that you will like even more .. &hearts:christina
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