Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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ok, I want to start wearing eyeliner to school, but my mom thinks that eyeliner is only for a date or if your goth or something. But not for regular school days. Is it normal to wear eyeliner to a public junior high? (i'm in 8th grade) (link)
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When I was in 8th grade, tons of girls in my grade wore eyeliner. Not just 'goths' either, its just a girl thing. As long as you don't over-do it, I don't see what the problem is. You can look up some styles on how to wear it, looking naturally of course, online, try it out, and show your mummy. Later on, you'll want to experiment because there are wonders you can do with make-up to look absolutly BEAUTIFUL =] But until then, just stick to basics!
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girls are so complicated cuz when i try to do somethin they always complain and whenever they are sick ill talk to them all night but they say i didnt talk long enough? and whenever they misss me i do whatever i can to get to them but they say i didnt try hard enough even though i got there and i even brought flowers a chocalate? sometimes i dont get girls or should i say some girls?
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Yes, say "some girls" because honestly, not all are like that. Only the ones that are either bitchy or insecure. You seem like a very sweet guy, so don't try to change your ways. Just try changing the girl you're doing this cute stuff for.. Honestly, I know tons of girls who would LOVE to have a guy like you and would much more appreciate it. Just forget the girl you're doing this for and get another one. Hopefully, you'll find the right girl who will be grateful for you and the things you do. =]
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13/f
I'm imature. Let's say that first. Second, I laugh whenever I hear the words, balls or get in there and stuff liek that. I mean I kinda know what sex is, but not exactly. I'm NOT asking for you to tell me. I don't want to know its gross. The problem, my friends know what it means and they think it's cool. It's gross. My friend writes poems about sex. i want to know what to do! I hate it when they talk seriously about this stuff. What can I do?! HELP ASAP!!!!!!! (link)
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Just ask your friends to not talk about sex around you. It's very simple, actually.. They should be able to respect your space and they can just talk about it when they're alone. I'm surprised there's still a 13 year old who finds sex gross. :) It's kind of relieving actually, there are tons of middle school sluts now. And you should chill out too.. No one's telling you that you should have sex yet, no one should unless they're good and ready. You won't always think sex is disgusting though. Tis just all a part of "growing up" Bahaha =]
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can you wear pads while you go swimming
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Girl, don't even try.
Pads are like diapers!
It'll absorb the water and make it poofier and noticable. Very embarrasing situation..
Either use a tampon, or don't go swimming at all.
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i was thinking about renting the movie friends and lovers i know it shows nudity male or female? is it good? (link)
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I think it would be female with the boobies.
Because I heard if they show vaginas/penises, it'd be NC-17.
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for beggeners what would be the best tyep of guitar to get? what would be the fastest and the best way to learn? (link)
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I say get an accoustic if you're a beginner. That's what I had to do. And I suggest only getting lessons if it's a teacher who'd teach ONLY you and not in a group. That way, he can teach you at a faster pace, because he has to make sure everyone's on the same level if it's a group. But I think you should try teaching yourself.. Buy books to learn the chords, notes, how to hold the guitar, etc. But most of my guy friends who taught themselves are best at it.
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we've been dating for almost 7 months now, and like he's away at camp so i havent seen him for a week and a half. but i realized something i DONT miss him? but i should hsould'nt i if we've been dating 6+?
what should i do, maybe its a sign i fell out of love with him.
help.
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Yeah, it does seem like a sign.. O_o Or maybe ya'll saw each other so much before, and now it's more of a relief? Don't know, but either way, a week and a half would seem like a long time to me. Lol. I miss my boyfriend when it's only been like, 2 days.
Do you talk to him on the phone or anything? Or is it COMPLETE not even talking to each other? Either way, I think not missing him is the first step to falling "out of love".. o_o Dot.
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OK So, me and my friend were discussing this and i just wanted some other opinions. If your a virgin, and you got raped, would you still be a virgin? Cause it's not really your choice and stuff, it's a forced thing.
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Regardless of wether the sex was forced or not, it's sex. And once the penis enters the vagina, the virginity's gone.
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ok so i want to finger my girlfriend but i heard it hurts them their first time, and its her first time so i mean i dont want to hurt her what should we do? (link)
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I answered a question like this a couple questions below. Just don't shove 3 fingers in there at once and take it SLOW. Unless she masturbates 24/7, she's going to be tight, so be gentle. Umm.. yeah. =] And tell her if it starts to hurt, to tell you. Also, if she says stop, STOP.
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17/m how long is the wait until you go to 2nd base? whats your opinion? (link)
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You mean as you're in a relationship, how long until you get to 2nd base? I think it depends on every couple. Some have known each other before going out for a long time, so they feel more comfortable with each other doing it earlier. Some are just naturally, uhm, sexually active?lol, so they expect it earlier as well. I think it's when the couple's mature enough to handle it.
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i masturbate way way way to much how do i stop? (link)
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Uhh..Well, a lot of people do it, it's only natural, I guess. >_
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i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy? (link)
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Technically, it's not cheating. But it's still not right. Unless it's your 5 year old cousin, I don't think you should be holding anyone else's hand except for yo mann. And girl, if you're doing that, you're leading on the other boy as well. I don't know.. I'd get pretty damn ticked if I heard my boyfriend was holding hands with another girl, wouldn't you?
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i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ? (link)
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I think you should write a letter explaining your EVERY emotion going on right now. How you feel about what you did, why you did it, etc. But don't show him it. Re-read it to yourself tomorrow. Realize what you did.. Cheating hurts. I'm hoping ya'll have a good relationship because if it's only a 1-month-being-together-and-already-cheated, I don't think he'd have any trouble dumping your butt, lol. Sorry, but truth.
Tell him about in person. Don't expect him to forgive you right away either, if he doesn't end the relationship, it'll take time. And notice, he can use the cheating thing against you in any future argument, sucky enough. But just tell him how awful it made you feel, and later, show him the letter you wrote.
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my boyfriend thinks vaginas are gross.
i need professional help.
what do i do? (link)
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You didn't say how old you were. Anyways. Usually boys who are any older than 13 and don't like vaginas, are gay. Lol. And you didn't specify your actual problem, but. If ya'll are trying to get sexual but he's scared of the POOTANG, then maybe he's not mature enough for that part of the relationship.. You can't force the boy to suddenly be in love with poonani. Respect what he thinks too. If you can't deal, dump him. Simple.
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is there a scene in the newest harry potter (order of the pheonix) movie where he's naked? i googled harry potter and i keep getting these pictures of daniel radcliffe half naked in scences from one of the movies (link)
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No.. I don't think so.
You're thinking of the play he did earlier this year, "Equus"
Google it, you'll find some satisfying pictures =] BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHH.jp. Well, maybe not.
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does fingering hurt?
cuz, my bf wants to be finger me.
but i've always been not exactly
scared, but like hesitant.
so is there any pain whatsoever? (link)
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There will be pain if you're tight and he attempts to shove his whole hand down there at once. o_o; Lollll.
Just tell him it's your first time & to take it SUPER slow >_< Once you're, uhm, loosened up a little[stretchedx.xlol] maybe it won't hurt as much. w00t! Have fun ;) Bahahaha!
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my guy friend has a girlfriend. and i hate her with every bit of feeling i have left in my gut. as much as i would love to curse her out, pull her hair and yell at her, telling how much i hate her and how she's taking him away from me and how she's a fake b****, i don't. instead, i try to, as convincingly as possible, be nice. it's fake. but if i say something to her, he himself will hate me.
am i doing the right thing? (link)
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You're doing the right thing, in a sense. From containing yourself from strangling her throat, yes. =] Being humane and civilized is good enough, lol. But you shouldn't fake how you feel about her either. Isn't everyone who always says, "Be yourself//Dont be afraid to say how you feel about something"? Your friend has to accept the fact that you DON'T LIKE HIS GIRLFRIEND. As long as you're not all, "Break up with the bitch or we're not friends" to him, he shouldn't hate either. Just as you at least RESPECT his girlfriend, he should respect your thoughts.
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how much would 2 sleeping pills knock you out? enough for someone to take all of your clothes off without u knowing??
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Babe, are you trying to rape someone..? O_o;
It depends on the strength of the pill.. I heard some work faster/more and some work a tad slower/less. And it depends on the people. For some, sleeping pills don't even work. But yeah.. Odd way of asking a question there.
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what do i do if i have a boyfriend for over a year, i love him, but i might be falling for a player.. ? (link)
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Well babe, if you're falling for someone else, are you sure you TRULY LOVE your boyfriend? I wouldn't know, I've never fallen for anyone else while in a relationship, but I would've thought if you actually loved someone, you would only want to be with them and no one else. And out of all guys, you're falling for a PLAYER? Bleh.
Spend more time with your boyfriend and try to recindle that flame. O_o Maybe things are just getting boring with him.. Anyways, I think you should try and control your emotions O_O If your 'developing crush' starts to develop into a serious-crush then dump your boyfriend. It's not fair to him. But try to stay away from players hun.. >_<
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im 13 and im going to see a movie with my girl friends. im not sure which one would be the best for us.. but we are thinking of going to see either evan almighty, harry potter, sicko, or transformers. what do you think we'd find the most entertaining? thanks :) (link)
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Hmm, well.
Evan Almighty- Not anywhere NEAR as good as Bruce Almighty. It was pretty stupid and a lot less funny than I thought.
Harry Potter- It didn't live up to the standards I had wanted it to, I'm not gunna lie. But as a massive HP fan, I'd still watch it again O_o It's a movie everyone talks about too, wether sucky or not. Plus, your girlfriend wouldn't mind keeping an eye on Harry [Daniel Radcliffe] and Ron [Rupert Grint]. But since she's not allowed, sucky.
Sicko- What the hell is that?
Transformers- I thought it was amazing the first time I saw it, and I fell asleep the second time I saw it. So now I'm confused on what I think about it. Either way, the action/special effects were awesome, and there were some funny moments as well. And your girlfriend wouldn't mind keeping her eye on Shia LeBeouf and Tyrese Gibson :) Bahahha!
My best guess for ya'll would be Transformers.
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