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i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ?
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Okay well.. i think that you need to no be so like... bold..
do something like
[name]-
Look, i really messed things up and i realized that i really really care about you and i would kill for an extra chance.. you mean alot to me and its driving me crazy being with you.. what happened whas a mistake and i dont know why i did it but i promise you.. it wont happen alot.. [name], i jsut dont know what to do without you.. just promise me that you'll think about it.
-[your name]
.. im sorry..
hope it helps yah!
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I think you should write a letter explaining your EVERY emotion going on right now. How you feel about what you did, why you did it, etc. But don't show him it. Re-read it to yourself tomorrow. Realize what you did.. Cheating hurts. I'm hoping ya'll have a good relationship because if it's only a 1-month-being-together-and-already-cheated, I don't think he'd have any trouble dumping your butt, lol. Sorry, but truth.
Tell him about in person. Don't expect him to forgive you right away either, if he doesn't end the relationship, it'll take time. And notice, he can use the cheating thing against you in any future argument, sucky enough. But just tell him how awful it made you feel, and later, show him the letter you wrote.
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Girl, there IS no sorry letter you can write to him.
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does he know you cheated? If he doesn't i suggest you don't tell him and learn to control yourself so next time you can prevent the outcome. Why write a letter? Unless you don't wanna be with him its pointless, the likely-hood of him forgiving you is slim to none, like winning the pick 6 NJ lottery. If you no longer wish to be with this person I suggest you write him a email, or leave the uncomfortable voicemail. Say something like, I really don't wanna tell you this but I cheated on you, I can't take it back I know, I deeply regret it, and if theres any room in your heart please forgive me, I hope we can work this out, and or at least be friends because I really like, and people make mistakes we are only human.
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"Dear [Insert ex-boyfriend's name here] sorry for being a total slut and cheating on you.
Perhaps things will work out for the better this time. I know what I did wrong. Forgive me."
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My suggestion is to not write a letter. You need to tell him in person. When he gets upset, you need to understand that he has a good reason and he may not forgive you.
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yes.. i suggest it is best you do it in person its more believable for him to see you meaning it all. But if you have to write it i suggest you include memories of the both of yea. Funny,Love,Sex if yea did have it,and just memories you know that are good. Second include what were you thinking while you were cheating on him so he knows because they will always say what were thinking so you have to back it up with something. Include how you need him in your life and how it will be miserable wihtout him. Usually from there it will just start coming out
If you need anything else just message me
GOOD LUCK
XOXOXOXOXO
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You have to write him a letter or do you want to write it?
Write it from the heart. If you really are sorry, you will know what to write. Just put that you are sorry and write about what happened. Well, I don't know what to tell you because I don't know you or your boyfriend or anything besides the fact that you cheated on him. All I can say is what I've said before, write it from your heart.
Hope I helped. ♥
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