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i was talking to this guy online who i've had sex with before. we were talking about doing it again and he mentioned me giving him head, and he said he wanted to use a condom. I told him i wouldnt want to because i am a little bit allergic to latex and i just think that would be really nasty. so i asked him why he wanted a condom while getting head anyways and he said he just did. i got kind of suspicious and asked if he had an std or something and he said no but i kind of dont beleive him. he kind of seems like the type who would lie so i would have sex with him again,but do you think that seems kind of suspicious or am i overreacting? (link)
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its definately weird stay away from him immediately because you should trust your instincts.
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where exactly are you supposed to shave your downstairs if your a female. iknow you can shave it all of, or trim and leave a little, but where exactly is the best areas to shave off the hair. (link)
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I recommend shaving all body parts from arms to the vagina, under-arms, legs, and butt. Simply,because of sweat and order when we walk and do things. I shave everywhere, i hate hair.
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i have to write my boyfriend a sorry letter for cheating. any good sugestions or help ? (link)
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does he know you cheated? If he doesn't i suggest you don't tell him and learn to control yourself so next time you can prevent the outcome. Why write a letter? Unless you don't wanna be with him its pointless, the likely-hood of him forgiving you is slim to none, like winning the pick 6 NJ lottery. If you no longer wish to be with this person I suggest you write him a email, or leave the uncomfortable voicemail. Say something like, I really don't wanna tell you this but I cheated on you, I can't take it back I know, I deeply regret it, and if theres any room in your heart please forgive me, I hope we can work this out, and or at least be friends because I really like, and people make mistakes we are only human.
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Why is it always so hard to follow your own advice?
I've been in a friendship with someone for over 5 years. (I'm a rising senior in high school, she is too). In the middle of our sophomore year she was sent away to a group home because of her bad behavior. While she was gone I was able to clean up the mess in my life (stop using drugs, drinking, etc.). She just moved back about a week or two ago and although I've kept myself from sinking back into her ways through help of a friend, I can't bring myself to end our friendship. We have been through so much together. We live in the same neighborhood - about a 5 minute walk away. I know that once we graduate we won't see each other anymore so I want to just continue our friendship for this final year of high school then part ways. It would be so much easier that way. BUT if any of you were in the situation I was in the I would literally tell you that the solution was simple. She's doing nothing but hurting you in the end and to discontinue the friendship sooner rather than later. She's a bad influence and you don't need someone like that in your life.
I know it's an unhealthy friendship. The only good in it is that although she smokes pot (does not consider it a drug, she considers it an herb.. she does nothing else drug-wise) and drinks (not a lot at all) and hooks up with guys constantly, she doesn't pressure me or anyone else to participate.
The bad in it is that not only does hanging out with her make it appear that I appove of her behaviour, which I don't at all, but it also makes me feel the need to go back to my old ways. If I were to go back to that then I know I wouldn't have the strength to clean up my life again.
So, why can't I just take my own advice and keep away from her? Why is it alway so much harder to do what you would tell others? I feel like such a hypocrite because I can't follow my own advice.
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Its always hard to handle your own problems because you try to avoid it and ignore the fact that its really happening my best advice to you, continue the friendship until it comes to an end, if she's not affecting you do negatively then what's the problem? Understand you can't change people accept them or you don't.
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