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im 18/f hes 19/m

Last night i went out to a club to see one of my favourite bands, i had organised to meet up with a guy thats my best friend, that i also have very very strong feelings for. He says he likes someone but i'm too afraid to ask who...so anyways as i was catching the train on the way there he texted me saying his phones about to die, and to text me where ill be at all times through the night so he could try and see me. I texted him the details, then he said he probably wont be able to get into the club due to the amount of people attending to see the band playing, and that the tickets would run out by the time he got there. He then turned his phone off saying he'll only use it for emergency incase something happens. I then told myself, that if there was such thing as fate, that somehow we'd see each other tonight.

anyways i went to the club with my other friends, enjoying the night. I thought i would text him so next time he turned on his phone he'd know how much i was wishing he was there. just as i was about to press the send button he calls me. He tells me he's outside so of course i race out to go see him, he hugged me, held onto me and ran his fingers back and forth across the skin on my shoulder. He was drunk, and soon enough his friends came over (after finding out he ran ahead of them to get to the club sooner). He introduced me to them, then told me that judging by the line he doubts they will be able to get in... the band i originally went to see, was playing the time i talked to this guy, and as my fave song by them i came all that way to hear, began to play, i gave him one more cuddle before going back in. as i pulled away he said "i owe you this" and kissed me.

that was our first kiss, we've talked about wanting to kiss each other before, but not wanting to mess everything up. I was excited when he used the last of his phone battery to text me to say he managed to get in. so i went and found him, he immediately cuddled me, and everywhere we walked he held my hand. We even just spent ten minutes holding each other, his head resting on top of mine, my head on his chest, and our arms around each other. We looked like a couple, and it felt so natural and perfect. Then he introduced me to his other friends, and we started dancing. I started to get jealous when this one girl was constantly dancing with him. I could tell she was into him as well and i didn't want to compete, thinking it wasn't possible that i would possibly have things work out for me.

Its just he has another best friend thats a girl that i met last night, and they were dancing together, and i got pretty jealous. He saw her again tonight and now im confused as to whether or not he likes me :S (link)
k


well i'm 17 years old and i'm a 26A i have been the same size since i was 12 years old and i haven't grown yet i was wondering weather my boobs will grow or they will stay this size forever (link)
theyll be small forever... accept it.


alittle backround info..
we went out for a year and a half, in the begginning of the relationship he was obbsessed with me and now he doesnt wanna be with me anymore were both 16 and we dont see eachother alot because im not allowed to date so its hard to hangout with him.

problem: we broke up a month ago and he says we fight too much and he doesnt have energy for it anymore and it hurts me so much because i just want things to go back to how they were and i dont want him to talk to anyone and im really deppresed becuase i feel like he doesnt care :'( what do i do?! (link)
I am in the same boat... I hate guys! Please don't freak out on him or blow up his phone... i did that and it only makes things worse :( If i could have told myself one thing when i was going through this situation is... the less they want you the more you want them... and other way around. I mean don't play hard to get... maybe he is just over it... I mean fate will guide you to whoever ur supposed to be with! You just gotta take what you learned from this guy and not look for the bad in the next! If you have any other questions... ask me!
-Ky


My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little while and when we kiss he fingers and stuff but i've never really done anything to him. What can i do to please him the way he does to me without seeming inexperienced (link)
give him a hand job. It's pretty easy... just unzip his pants He will most likely be hard... and just like your holding a glass of water move your hand up and down at like a nice and easy pace :)

_Kylie


i really want to give my boyfriend a handjob but i don't know how to go about it. should i just stick my hand down his pants and grab it or wait for him to pull it out? and how do i know when to stop? (link)
Well... The only time i gave one he pulled it out. Or he'll hint you by guiding your hand to hid pants. You'll know when to stop because he"ll stop doing whatever he's doing to you. Some guys like aggressive girls though. SO maybe if you think your comfortable start unzipping his pants and start stroking :)

-Kylie


theres this girl at my school that is my friend but i like her more than that and she is going out with somebody. what should i do

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I'm sorry... I really know that its lame when people say "i know how you feel" and like people don't.. but I mean i've been in a similar situation. So i think you should tell her. Just be real with yourself and her. If she rejects you... Oh well! you were honest. Things might be awkward after but just say you like another girl or something after. Really who knows? She could like you... and only be with her bf to make you jealous :)

-Kylie


okay, so i'm wierded out to tell my mom my personal issues so i'm just going to ask you all.

well. i have like a few white bumps around my vagina, like around the clitoris part, and i'm not sexually active, except getting fingered. but i was just wandering what it might be and if i need to go to the doctor. can i buy OTC stuff for it? thanks. :) (link)
you should go to the doctor!


lol okay so im a 17/f and umm i added this guy i went to elementary school with on facebook. he's really cute and umm we go to different schools since i moved. b ut yeah.. what should isay to him on facebook because he's so hot and i really wanna talk to him haha. so how should i start the convo? (link)
start it like HEYY HAAVENT TALKED TO YOU IIN AWHILE!


OK, I have a question.
Do people flirt with the opposite sex even when they dont like them..? (link)
YESSSS they do!!! haha everyone does!! but flirting can be misleading or leading!!!! so it doesnt really maatter you have to go with your instincts!


im 14.i have really bad sreach marks on my upper thighs&&a little on my butt.how did they get there and will they go away?
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OKAY i personally know what your going through. I had stretch marksa on my stomache area haha. and so i bought shea butter like the extract! and it made them fade!!!! also dont like worry about them bc seriously everyone has them!! except the gross skinny girls =] haha well if you need any help like any lotions ask me okay! i'll answer back!


So I found out that my boyfriend of 2 months lied to me about smokeing weed. he swore he would never lie again but obviously i dont belive him considering he lied the first time. Now that hes lied, I always think that hes lieing to me about EVERYTHING..I dont want to break up with him but I dont want to be with him if I think hes lieing..I know this is confusing but how can I just find out the truth when I think hes lieing? Should I just trust him until I catch him in the act? PLEASE HELP! (link)
Well... its hard to say. i have really good lying senses! When you tihnk that hes lying confront him and be like "are you lying to me please tell me the truth i wont get mad i just want to know the truth!" i yhave been out with soo many guys that lie to me so i am pretty much used to it by now. Sometimes it can be psychological haha like you can think just cause he lied once he will do it again. but in reality if you really do believe him then just do! And i mean there are worse things hje could be doing than smokking weed...




what color eyeliner and eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes?? (link)
well ok it really all depends. you should play around with a few colors, get the cheaper brands of the eyeliner colors to just play with them. dark brown eyes... hmm lets see. Try a dark purple it will look fantastic! and also a black i know its basic but trust me it will look good and your dark brown eyes with the black will look HOT!

need more advice?
ask me if you need anything=]
=kylieeeeeeeeeeeeeee


my boyfriends at dinner with his ex because she said if they talked things out they could come to a conclusion. should i be worried? or is it just nothing?? i dont know what resteraunt they are at so i dont know if its a fancy dinner or not. (link)
OK... don't freak out! i'm sure its a harmless dinner and you should be ok. If it seems like he is doing a dinner with her a lot then you should worry. a conclusion to the end of an relationship is a good thing for you. it means that he will only be there for you and not still be thinking about the ex.

need more advice? ask me ok i will answer back quick!

-kylieeeeeeee


do u think 50 dollars is too cheap to gv a bf for christmas weve been together for only 2 and a 1/2 months.....and also any idea wat to rite in d card??? (link)
that is NOT cheep!!! haha thats a good present! on the card write i love you ONLY if you guys have gotten to that stage! but put like Have a really good merry xmas and stuff like that and then maybe bring up the fisrt time u met or like ur first date and how wpecial it was to you!


i want to curl my hair for tomorrow but it never stays curled. should i put spray or mousse in it? or how do i get it to stay curled for the day?

(i have semi-thick hair) (link)
keep the hair curler curling your hair for kinda a long time and put smaller amounts of hair into the curler. and pack on the hairspray butt nott too much bc then your hair becomes really stiff. so like a decent amount tho. also your har curls better when its dirty so dont wash it the night before unless you already did.


whats a yeast infection
how do you know if you have one?
thanks! (link)
ahh i hate those well you know bc u will get itchy down there. and you might have to pee a lot and every time its a small amount


15/f
i've liked this guy for about 7 months. i was like CRAZY for him. and recently i stopped liking him. also, my friend who i have known since i was 7 years old(we've only recently became close, like 2 months ago) now likes him. she is crazy for him. she's told me how much she likes him, and i told her that i don't like him anymore. however, i found out a few days ago that he likes me! and now i like him more than ever. but my friend still likes him. i don't know what to do because i really really like him but i don't want to hurt her. please help! (link)
ok... ughh that sounds really bad but it has seriously happened to me not too long ago and my friend got him. So the best thing she told me was that there was nothing wrong with me it was just her and him had a better connection than me. So just tell her and be honest i totally understood. Just seriously dont rub it in her face that u guys like each other try to keep it on the DL but also dont keep secrets form ur best friend be honest trust me she will understand.


like really heavy that i had to miss school, what can i do to make it stop flowing out so much.. (link)
do like 50 sit ups. that always works for me so it might work for you.


If i skip a period, does that mean im pregnant? (link)
Ok so... have u had sex. if you did then there is the possibility but its not certain so dont freak out. If you did have sex then go to a drug store and get the test. but sometimes periods just skip its a normal thing. any more question ASK!


what does it mean to be a virgin, does it mean you are sealed if so how do yo go for menstruation because intercourse and menstruation use the same path, or there is a small hole that every girl is born with if so how small is it (link)
haha ok being a virgin means no one has put there male part in you haha menstration does use the same path but ok like the whole will expand once u have sex. did i helpp if i didnt ask me again ok.




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